LadyEllen
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Joined: 6/30/2006 From: Stourport-England Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: mikeyOfGeorgia A strange thing happened to me today. i was getting Donna out of the van (she's in a wheelchair and the van has a mechanical lift) at Burger King. Some guy we did not know, who was driving out of the parking lot, stopped behind us and called out his passenger window "God bless you". i said, (under my breath) "God doesn't want to bless me and i don't need it either". what should one say or do in such a situation? It was a compliment. He was saying, in his own particular way, "what a great guy you must be". And I think you knew that and, not being able to accept that there is just the slightest chance you might be a great guy, chose, and here continue to choose, to see it in some other way that will give you the opportunity to dismiss it as something else so that your negative self esteem and the negative thought cycle that drives it can remain unruffled. A more suitable response would be "thanks". Any day of the week. E
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