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PeonForHer -> RE: Dommes who've taught vanilla wives (7/15/2010 3:15:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SaintAllie How about just accepting that what she enjoys is all you need to know? IF not.. just don't get involved? Does she need to be taught? Allie That's pretty much how I put it, once, with a partner. 'We do just what you enjoy' Her reply, 'Really? What woman would turn that down?!' But it'd be idealistic to assume that all subs mean that, in practice. It'd also be idealistic to assume that a woman would always want that offer, too.

SaintAllie -> RE: Dommes who've taught vanilla wives (7/15/2010 3:48:13 AM)
Peon.. my reponse is.. does the vanilla wife need to be taught?.. just because the husband has a need..surely being a vanilla wife doesn't need to be fixed.. Allie

PeonForHer -> RE: Dommes who've taught vanilla wives (7/15/2010 3:57:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SaintAllie Peon.. my reponse is.. does the vanilla wife need to be taught?.. just because the husband has a need..surely being a vanilla wife doesn't need to be fixed.. Of course! A woman should always be exactly what her husband wants her to be. [;)]

SaintAllie -> RE: Dommes who've taught vanilla wives (7/15/2010 3:58:35 AM)
cheek! you know what I meant! hehehhe Allie

ourmsbetty -> RE: Dommes who've taught vanilla wives (7/15/2010 5:00:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SaintAllie short reply again.. not responding to all responses. How about just accepting that what she enjoys is all you need to know? IF not.. just don't get involved? Does she need to be taught? Allie That's a good question. In fact, some submissive men do take that road. Unfortunately, not everyone can and even if they all could it may not necessarily be the best option. We've established that asking these wives to be something they are not would be wrong. Some would say it is equally wrong to ask the men in these relationships to be something they are not by denying their own needs for the rest of their lives. What I have said to couples, or halves of couples facing this situation is that they need not participate in the kink by they do need to be willing to be supportive. As we say so often on these boards, the relationship is about both peoples' needs. Ms. Betty

ourmsbetty -> RE: Dommes who've taught vanilla wives (7/15/2010 5:02:59 AM)
Exactly this. Me too. I have never wanted to be the "head of household" in the traditional sense. I don't mind a slight different split to repsonsibility but I do need something closer to 50-50 than 100-0 quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus I have never wanted a submissive mate. I have always been happiest with other dominants, or with kink-friendly regular folks. I need PARITY in my personal relationships, even though I am large and in charge pretty much all the time.

LPslittleclip -> RE: Dommes who've taught vanilla wives (7/16/2010 10:05:15 PM)
i agree with my Mistress it would be fantastic if my wife could be a top but i agree she is likely a closet sub at best. LadyPact is a very good instructor to any who ask but will respect boundary's and not force anyone to learn. after all She is the most approachable Domme that anyone will meet

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Dommes who've taught vanilla wives (7/17/2010 9:14:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LPslittleclip i agree with my Mistress it would be fantastic if my wife could be a top but i agree she is likely a closet sub at best. LadyPact is a very good instructor to any who ask but will respect boundary's and not force anyone to learn. after all She is the most approachable Domme that anyone will meet Heyyy! Folks like Me, too! [:D]

PeonForHer -> RE: Dommes who've taught vanilla wives (7/17/2010 9:36:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Heyyy! Folks like Me, too! [:D] They do! Even approaching from the front, I'd still run and hug you!

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Dommes who've taught vanilla wives (7/17/2010 9:39:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Heyyy! Folks like Me, too! [:D] They do! Even approaching from the front, I'd still run and hug you! You'd BETTER!! THough then you'd get a clip round the ear for whatever you meant by that!! [:D]

PeonForHer -> RE: Dommes who've taught vanilla wives (7/17/2010 11:15:35 AM)
Ummm . . . I didn't say that quite right . . . .

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