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Looking for sub/slave - 7/13/2010 10:22:17 AM   
Rider4u58


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Status: offline 		So can someone tell me why is it so hard to find a female sub/slave on this website?
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RE: Looking for sub/slave - 7/13/2010 10:24:12 AM   
laurell3


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Status: offline 		Well you might start with actually having a profile that says something about you and is gramatically correct, but in reality the numbers game is a bit tough for males all around as far as online goes. On this site if you post in the forums and aren't a raving lunatic it might help as well as people can reference your posts with your profile.

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RE: Looking for sub/slave - 7/13/2010 10:25:29 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		its hard anywhere. cold cruel world out there. good hunting, stick with it.

welcome.  

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RE: Looking for sub/slave - 7/13/2010 10:25:40 AM   
xxblushesxx


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ORIGINAL: laurell3

Well you might start with actually having a profile that says something about you and is gramatically correct, but in reality the numbers game is a bit tough for males all around as far as online goes. On this site if you post in the forums and aren't a raving lunatic it might help as well as people can reference your posts with your profile.


So....how'd Jefffffff get so lucky, huh?

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RE: Looking for sub/slave - 7/13/2010 12:41:17 PM   
SirsJewel


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Status: offline 		It's not hard at all if you join a chat and converse and show some integrity actually. Good luck in your quest and welcome ~ jewels

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RE: Looking for sub/slave - 7/14/2010 5:27:51 PM   
yellowroses


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ORIGINAL: Rider4u58

So can someone tell me why is it so hard to find a female sub/slave on this website?


It isn't really. You just need to have patience. Which IMO is a wonderful quality in a Dom.

Good luck in your search.

kim

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RE: Looking for sub/slave - 7/15/2010 6:33:16 AM   
OohAahMrs


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Status: offline 		Is'nt there loads of potential female slaves, like in Nigeria for instance?

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RE: Looking for sub/slave - 7/17/2010 4:47:12 AM   
sirsholly


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Rider4u58

So can someone tell me why is it so hard to find a female sub/slave on this website?
This site is personally responsible for many of us finding out partners (met hubby here and have been happily married for years).

Patience!!

Relax and have fun!


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RE: Looking for sub/slave - 7/17/2010 4:50:29 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		I know the answer to this one!  I know!!!!  /Waves hand furiously/

It's because anything worthwhile takes effort! 

What do I win?


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RE: Looking for sub/slave - 7/17/2010 5:06:50 AM   
myotherself


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven


What do I win?



ME!!!!!!!

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RE: Looking for sub/slave - 7/17/2010 5:07:59 AM   
sirsholly


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I know the answer to this one!  I know!!!!  /Waves hand furiously/






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RE: Looking for sub/slave - 7/17/2010 5:12:30 AM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: myotherself


quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven


What do I win?



ME!!!!!!!


DAMN, I love this place!!!!

However, it took a full sixteen minutes from when I posted my message until a bunnysub jumped in my lap.  I can see what the OP meant about it being hard to score here.

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: Looking for sub/slave - 7/17/2010 5:15:08 AM   
sirsholly


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

quote:

ORIGINAL: myotherself


quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven


What do I win?



ME!!!!!!!


DAMN, I love this place!!!!

However, it took a full sixteen minutes from when I posted my message until a bunnysub jumped in my lap. 
that's cause you have a carrot in yer shorts. Next time, try a pair of socks.


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CREATOR OF MAYHEM (practice)


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RE: Looking for sub/slave - 7/17/2010 5:18:32 AM   
smartsub10


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Status: offline 		I looked at your profile and noticed that you describe yourself as an "older Dom".  I've found that to mean that a middle-aged (or older) Dom is usually looking for a sub who is younger than himself.   I'll overlook those profiles since I don't fit the bill.  So, that limits your pool of choices by a fair bit.  From my perspective you are a younger Dom.
Also,you don't really say what you're looking for in a relationship such as monogamous long term, just play, poly, etc.

Good luck to you!


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RE: Looking for sub/slave - 7/17/2010 5:21:19 AM   
myotherself


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly



that's cause you have a carrot in yer shorts. Next time, try a pair of socks.



Socks be damned - I want a man with a marrow in his pants!


edited to fix quote snafu


< Message edited by myotherself -- 7/17/2010 5:38:20 AM >

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