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Worst punisment you've given/received - 7/13/2010 6:02:28 PM   
Glasgow


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Status: offline 		I had a sudden curiosity as to the worst punishments endured and given out by all you tops and bottoms out there*.

For me... I got a spanking for not cleaning my room. Although I do hear that more is coming down the pipes (penis joke!) and I'm destined to be tied and flogged.

I imagine that this is relatively light, though, and I'd like to hear any stories out there. I'm also interested in what non-physical punishments are out there.

*Please, no comments on how tops and bottoms are not the same as doms and subs. I know they are not, but I imagine we can all understand what I was getting at. If there is any confusion, feel free to ask Google.

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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 7/13/2010 6:10:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		Worst Punishment?

I Took the collar off her, cut it in half like a Credit card. Took my Suitcase and walked out the door.

It was the last Punishment I have ever had to give.

QSM

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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 7/13/2010 6:15:01 PM   
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ORIGINAL: AQuietSimpleMan

Worst Punishment?

I Took the collar off her, cut it in half like a Credit card. Took my Suitcase and walked out the door.

It was the last Punishment I have ever had to give.

QSM


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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 7/13/2010 6:17:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		No it's not me... it just fit with the new Title of "Real Boy" also see the Sig line.... Personally I would so do something like that.... if my body looked like that.

Anyway.

I did want to ask do you mean PUNISHMENT or FUNISHMENT?

Just Curious.

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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 7/13/2010 6:20:19 PM   
Glasgow


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ORIGINAL: AQuietSimpleMan

I did want to ask do you mean PUNISHMENT or FUNISHMENT?

Just Curious.

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Punishment. As in, you've done something wrong and now you must pay. My Master has given out some very serious punishments, although I'm not sure he would want me to say


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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 7/13/2010 6:24:55 PM   
AQuietSimpleMan


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Status: offline 		Then yes, I believe that punishments are not necessary, either they come to me willingly or not at all.

When nothing else can be done or they are not willing to change their actions in regard to what I am disliking.... I choose to simply leave.

Interesting question, I look forward to seeing what others put up here.

QSM

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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 7/13/2010 6:30:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: AQuietSimpleMan

Then yes, I believe that punishments are not necessary, either they come to me willingly or not at all.

When nothing else can be done or they are not willing to change their actions in regard to what I am disliking.... I choose to simply leave.

Interesting question, I look forward to seeing what others put up here.

QSM


I think there is a place for punishments. In a LTR, sometimes the slave or sub disobeys some rule, for whatever reason. You wouldn't just give up on the relationship then or there, but something must be done. Some people prefer a good talking to, some people prefer to get a spankin'.


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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 7/13/2010 6:37:00 PM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		I got struck on the backside with a belt for going out with friends to a club when I was supposed to stay home and wait for him. I figured it was midnight and he wouldn't call anymore...I was wrong. I'm not with that Dom any more (for other reasons) and suspect if I were- there would have been other infractions...there was something about him that made me want to act out.

I've never been punished by my current Dom although I guess I came close once from what he's said. After he explained it I did understand his point in why he thought punishment was in order - he choose not to because he said he should have been clearer and more forceful in his direction to me. I honestly try to please him as much as possible so there generally isn't any need for punishment. I don't want to disappoint him.

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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 7/13/2010 6:43:11 PM   
gungadin09


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Status: offline 		i hate to sound like a sap, but the worst punishment is what i do to myself when i know i've disappointed. Having said that, a bad caning. Don't want to say what it was for.

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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 7/13/2010 6:48:39 PM   
Aileen1968


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Status: offline 		If I fuck up it's almost always because of a mistake and is never done on purpose.
I don't like negative attention from him and I definitely don't like disappointing him.
It's taking me some time to get used to not taking corrections as criticisms. But I'm starting to.
That being said...we tend to get along really well even during the most stressful times of both of our lives and rarely is punishment part of our dynamic.


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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 7/13/2010 6:51:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		I wasn't allowed to read books for 5 days.  That only happened once thank goodness.  It was a new relationship at the time and I think he was flexing his Dominant muscles.  

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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 7/13/2010 6:51:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		I hand cuffed and bound a sub with chains to a tree in the back yard naked.....except for the honey on his balls

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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 7/13/2010 7:04:22 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadySunn

I hand cuffed and bound a sub with chains to a tree in the back yard naked.....except for the honey on his balls


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I fear you.

quote:

I wasn't allowed to read books for 5 days.

I used to read a great deal before I discovered the Internet. How terrible it would have been

quote:

If I fuck up it's almost always because of a mistake and is never done on purpose.

I'm very glad that I get good leeway on mistakes. Otherwise, I'd be much more experienced with punishments

quote:

i hate to sound like a sap, but the worst punishment is what i do to myself when i know i've disappointed. Having said that, a bad caning. Don't want to say what it was for.

I'm usually rather hard on myself as well. I try to rectify that by letting the other party do the discipline. I also find that talks about what happened help quite a bit, as I can discover if I need to guilt myself or not.


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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 7/13/2010 8:17:51 PM   
mstrjx


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Status: offline 		I've always thought the worst punishment you could give someone were to ignore them.

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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 7/13/2010 9:44:51 PM   
afkarr


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Status: offline 		I don't go there. Never have, never will. I am not a child, nor am I an inferior, nor is Dominant synonamous with always right.

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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 7/13/2010 10:40:47 PM   
Ishtarr


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Status: offline 		Physical punishment:
Tied up with hands above my head and being flogged until I was so far beyond hysterical that I couldn't even cry anymore.
He stopped when my knees buckled out on me and my hands started to turn an unhealthy color because my wrists were supporting my full body weight in cuffs that weren't designed to do such things.

Non-physical punishment:
Not being allowed to have his attention in an intimate one-on-one way, and instead, only interact with him on a platonic, business-like (basically like a hired help, or maid) manner for up to a few weeks at a time.

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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 7/13/2010 11:14:54 PM   
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Someone i used to be with for a short time tied my wrists to the top of the doorway and spanked my ass so hard it had black & blue handprints on it for two weeks.....for missing a freeway exit . He stopped when my knees gave out from under me & i was hanging there, too tired to cry anymore. In retrospect, it was more like He beat my ass. i said "F*ck this" and shortly thereafter, i left Him. i thought that was WAY excessive for missing a freaking exit by accident.

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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 7/13/2010 11:50:23 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hello Glasgow,

I don't have, want or need a punishment dynamic.  I'm a grown woman.  I have been taking care of myself since I was 16 years old.  I don't need somebody else to tell me what to do anymore.  I have chosen to never become that dependent on someone again.  Luckily, His Wonderfulness has no need to take care of me.  He's in fact glad that I'm so independent.  He also is smart enough to know that if I "disobey" it's because something is too difficult for me or he wasn't clear enough or there were factors we didn't consider or it was just simply miscommunication.  I love that he takes responsibility for his part in this stuff.  I mean, HEY, he's an adult too!  There was a gal who said to me, "go ahead and do what you were told not to do.... nobody will tell on you!"  Hmmmm... now that is not my scene.  I'm not going to say.. "Oh he said 10 p.m. bedtime... But he didn't say what time zone!"  That's crap.  If I talk to him about a problem (like how sleepy I am), and he gives me a suggestion, I trust him enough to try it out and then see how it works.  I go to bed early because I can get up and talk to him before work!  If not, I'm too tired to talk to him.  His 10 p.m. bedtime suggestion was for my sake, so I could be awake for work, and it was for his sake - so he could enjoy my company when we talk.

He and I talk things through, we deal with things, and then we have a little fun.  That works for me!

Best,
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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 7/14/2010 4:42:08 AM   
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Status: offline 		Master does not desire to issue punishments so if there was a reason that a punishment would be given, then the relationship would be over.
Yes, and I know there will be people rolling their eyes and suggesting that nothing is quite so black and white, but from my POV, I would question any relationship I was in where I had to do the exact opposite of what is already decided and brought into fruition.  I am a grown woman and He wanted an adult, not a child.

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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 7/14/2010 4:58:56 AM   
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Status: offline 		The worst was the time he told me he was going to come over, but didn’t, because of something I had done. It was the worst because I hadn’t actually done what he thought I did.

Just can’t get that time back; ya know?

Kim


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