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RE: Flirtable. - 7/17/2010 3:27:32 PM

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I shall never flirt again.

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RE: Flirtable. - 7/17/2010 4:29:17 PM

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*adds to the non-flirting exemption clause Savage, laurell, and kallisto*

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RE: Flirtable. - 7/17/2010 4:31:24 PM

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Come off it, Level! You've no intention of stopping, you just want all the wimmins to beg you not to

Obviously it's working....

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RE: Flirtable. - 7/17/2010 4:34:08 PM

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Wha?? Moi???

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RE: Flirtable. - 7/17/2010 5:00:55 PM

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Women (at least the unattached ones) put a lot of things in their profiles about what they want in a match. However, they're almost always up to flirting with those who are not a genuine match for them.

Well, I'm unattached, and don't have anything in my profile, since I'm not exactly looking for a "match" at this time.

As far as flirting, yes, I'll flirt with men that I know I have no chance to "get with" for whatever various reasons. It's fun to be that open with someone and let them know you are attracted to them, when you know you'll never be expected to deliver.

On the other hand, if the guy looks like a potential match, and there is a possibility of something developing, sure, I'll put out signs and flirt just a bit, but in general I'll behave in a more reserved manner in a case like that.

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RE: Flirtable. - 7/17/2010 7:46:31 PM

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I think there is a difference. I'm not interested in doing stuff with people more than 10 years older than me, but I happily flirt with many people.

Flirting for me is just in play, and not something I do when actually interested in someone.

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RE: Flirtable. - 7/17/2010 7:55:51 PM

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There's flirting for fun and flirting with intention. I don't consider myself a flirt. Instead I have unique bonds with certain men that allow me to present a different aspect of my personality that I may not display when posting or unless you're within my inner circle. I consider persons that fall along these lines as men I hold in some esteem and our bond is platonic. But I've learned to be mindful of their intentions so there's no confusion on his end.

Flirting with intention is a bit different and that means I've sized him up and if I were assessing someone's potential as a prospect he'd be a definite candidate. This is generally more intellectually oriented for the most part. It's a meeting of the minds and we might banter playfully. Whether the conversation changes is dependent on the situation and if it can be explored realistically. Otherwise I leave things as they stand and simply have fun with it.

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RE: Flirtable. - 7/17/2010 7:59:40 PM

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I love domiguy and am too afraid to flirt with him. He might reject me. Oh woe is me.

Yeah, that's why I don't flirt with Domi either.

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RE: Flirtable. - 7/18/2010 3:29:06 AM

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I love you BSB... I do I do I do!

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RE: Flirtable. - 7/18/2010 9:55:09 AM

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*adds to the non-flirting exemption clause Savage, laurell, and kallisto*

YAY!

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RE: Flirtable. - 7/18/2010 9:56:55 AM

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I love you BSB... I do I do I do!

Love you too Sunny!! *mwah*

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RE: Flirtable. - 7/18/2010 10:12:51 AM

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RE: Flirtable. - 7/18/2010 8:53:16 PM

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Women (at least the unattached ones) put a lot of things in their profiles about what they want in a match. However, they're almost always up to flirting with those who are not a genuine match for them. (My personal best is a lesbian Domme living in MA who stated that she will not take on someone over 30.)

Are the requirements for a flirtable partner the same as just for a friend? Or are there additional things that are needed to enjoy flirting with someone?

I think the main reason for flirting with someone who isn't a genuine match with you is because you are generally safe from the fear of rejection. If they flirt back, what fun! If they don't, oh well. It's not going to bug me much because I didn't have any type of initial attraction or emotion invested in the flirtation to begin with.

I posted in another recent flirting thread that the reason I started flirting with Michael was because he intimidated me and flirting was my way of making friends with him so he wouldn't skewer me on the boards. But it wasn't only because of that. He really intrigued me.
This was my profile picture on March 9, 2007, (the day I first wrote to him to tell him I found him fascinating.) The only picture I had up at the time.

Here is a small excerpt from Michael's reply that same day, (reprinted with SimplyMichael's full permission of course!)

...Your photo was perfect, it very much highlighted what must be two of your most amazing features, the sort of features a less discriminating man might not notice. The firm roundness of them, the perfect shape, bigger than most women and the sort you just want to bite your teeth into or run your tongue over. I am of course speaking of your very beautiful and quite kissable lips...

If he had been describing my breasts (as I was sure he was until I read the very last sentence), that e-mail would have gone over like a lead balloon and that, as they say, would have been that.

But man, he had me at hello! Michael had the ability to make me feel both like a little girl and a beautiful woman at the same time. That man is SMOOOTH. I think many man would be wise to try learn a thing or two from him.

But yes Steven, he was safe to begin flirting with because he was 3,000 miles away and not someone I saw myself matched up with... Funny how fate works sometimes...

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