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DarkSteven -> Flirtable. (7/16/2010 6:42:55 AM)
Women (at least the unattached ones) put a lot of things in their profiles about what they want in a match. However, they're almost always up to flirting with those who are not a genuine match for them. (My personal best is a lesbian Domme living in MA who stated that she will not take on someone over 30.) Are the requirements for a flirtable partner the same as just for a friend? Or are there additional things that are needed to enjoy flirting with someone?

xxblushesxx -> RE: Flirtable. (7/16/2010 6:50:06 AM)
Flirting is fun and innocent when done properly. For me to flirt with someone, they have to be a "gentleman", AND they have to know that it is just flirting. I'm not going to sleep with you, we're not going to have an emotional affair, it's just a way to have fun, and let someone know they are funny/charming and/or attractive.

FelineFae -> RE: Flirtable. (7/16/2010 6:53:28 AM)
Some people are just flirts. Some flirt to have fun. For some, depending on their line of work, it's s.o.p. But, you, DS, have a special gift of bringing out the flirt in all of us. [;)]

dreamerdreaming -> RE: Flirtable. (7/16/2010 7:00:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FelineFae But, you, DS, have a special gift of bringing out the flirt in all of us. [;)] Does NOT! [:D] OP, I can't answer your question, cuz I don't flirt. [sm=flowers.gif]

LadyPact -> RE: Flirtable. (7/16/2010 7:33:36 AM)
I'm not your targeted demographic (since I am attached) but I'll say that there is something that swings the difference for Me. I tend to flirt with those who don't match up if the flirting revolves around S/m. Somebody doesn't have to match what I am looking for in a submissive if I have an inclination towards beating them. For example, I have no interest sexually in women, but I do top women in pain play and it comes across very much like I'm flirting with them. It works the same way with males that I have no intention of becoming sexually involved with. I'll absolutely turn up the charm if I think I can get them to bottom for Me. It was actually My husband that pointed this out to Me originally. I don't flirt in the non kinky world. Around kinky folks? Oh yeah.

sexyred1 -> RE: Flirtable. (7/16/2010 7:37:29 AM)
Flirting is totally fun. I flirt all the time. Why not? It makes people happy. I don't have to be truly interested to flirt. As LP says, sometimes you flirt to get what you want, sometimes you are attracted, sometimes someone said something hot, gave you a compliment or the moon is full. If I am really into someone, I will really turn it on, but most often it is just a natural way of being.

KatyLied -> RE: Flirtable. (7/16/2010 7:51:34 AM)
One time, on this board, flirting led to a significant relationship. I did not intend for it, but it happened. I usually won't flirt unless I find the person interesting or there is flirt fodder and I want to join in. But sometimes I can not help myself. DarkSteven = flirtable/!

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Flirtable. (7/16/2010 7:58:43 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming quote: ORIGINAL: FelineFae But, you, DS, have a special gift of bringing out the flirt in all of us. [;)] Does NOT! [:D] Does too! I usually only flirt when someone else initiates, letting me know it is ok to be my playful self, and flirt back. Definitely requires a reciprocity. I never take it seriously, but I do enjoy the attention, both receiving and giving.

domiguy -> RE: Flirtable. (7/16/2010 7:59:59 AM)
I still slug a woman in the arm.

sunshinemiss -> RE: Flirtable. (7/16/2010 8:05:11 AM)
I love domiguy and am too afraid to flirt with him. He might reject me. Oh woe is me. Steven, to answer your question... Yes, I flirt generally with people I'm not interested in or people that I know will never in a bazillion years be interested in me. If I don't flirt, you can bet I want you. (You have noticed of course that I've never actually flirted with you.... ahem.) best, sunshine

dovie -> RE: Flirtable. (7/16/2010 8:07:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FelineFae But, you, DS, have a special gift of bringing out the flirt in all of us. [;)] "I second that emotion!"~singing dovie

Jeffff -> RE: Flirtable. (7/16/2010 8:15:28 AM)
Years of flirting with Lat are slowly begining to pay off. Soon she will be sporting "Wards Girl" under her name. I will be so proud!

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Flirtable. (7/16/2010 8:16:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss I love domiguy and am too afraid to flirt with him. He might reject me. Oh woe is me. I think you should go for it. Besides, flirting with a satyr with a talent for satire, could you really ever be sure he was rejecting you?

sunshinemiss -> RE: Flirtable. (7/16/2010 8:20:33 AM)
I have always loved Caravaggio... [image]local://upfiles/523486/20A4A64C7E2B49219452C72B6A52C4B8.jpg[/image]

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Flirtable. (7/16/2010 8:22:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss I have always loved Caravaggio... [image]local://upfiles/523486/20A4A64C7E2B49219452C72B6A52C4B8.jpg[/image] I always preferred Michelangelo myself.[:D]

sunshinemiss -> RE: Flirtable. (7/16/2010 8:24:38 AM)
You are one slick girl.... catching that. *smooch (see that is flirting... it IS on topic!)

fipsie69 -> RE: Flirtable. (7/16/2010 8:27:01 AM)
I love flirting, giving, receiving, see/hearing it. I agree with xxblushesxx. Lighthearted, fun, charming, compliments, you make each other feel good and make the world a better place - wonderful. Nothing serious. But I do think it can alter perspectives, change rules, move goal posts and change your default settings: Oh he/she is lovely, wasn’t on my radar, but oh oh oh, and things change. Then it can all lead some where completely new. Or not and it was adorable. I don't think people really know what they want so it's anyones game.

alatheia -> RE: Flirtable. (7/16/2010 8:28:51 AM)
If im interested in someone I usually show it.. Im really bad at flirting, as in I never realize Im doing it til someone points it out. Most of the times I just see it as being nice [;)] Though if I like you, Im pretty persistent. [:D]

heartcream -> RE: Flirtable. (7/16/2010 8:31:08 AM)
Jesus flirt with domi. He will reject you it is what he does. Carravaggio, Michelanglelo, there is room for both these fabulous Italians. Throw in some John Singer Sargeant! Flirting threads are the new fat thread but way less stressful! [image]http://www.metmuseum.org/toah/images/h2/h2_16.53.jpg[/image] *waggles eyebrows...Flirting threads combined with art are awesome!

sunshinemiss -> RE: Flirtable. (7/16/2010 8:36:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: heartcream Jesus flirt with domi. He will reject you it is what he does. Carravaggio, Michelanglelo, there is room for both these fabulous Italians. waggles eyebrows...Flirting threads combined with art are awesome! I will die of embarassment if domi were to ignore my sweet self... I would become gasp* bitter! And then forsooth, whatever would become of me? It is a death too dreadful to even contemplate.... *swoons... (adding another Eye-talian...) Note the pic of domi in the background... proof positive of reincarnation! [image]local://upfiles/523486/B3D2D15AE09D45258D2626FF1B9AF4CC.jpg[/image]

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