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CanadianGuy -> hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 3:58:31 AM)

Open discussion for the the submissive girls.

Why do you like it?  How does it make you feel?  What situations is it best in, for you?  Any good stories, memories, or fantasies about hair pulling?

(pulling could be "gripping" or "grabbing", etc)




Quivver -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 4:16:09 AM)

Hee heee, I didnt grow all this for Nuthin~!




Tikkiee -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 5:34:02 AM)

To tell the truth, I have never tried to analyze why I liked it. I can say that when he grabs my hair, my knees turn to jelly, my stomach drops, and excitement rips through my body.
It's just...nice [:)]




Aileen68 -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 5:41:16 AM)

A really strong grip nice and close to my scalp is heaven. 
And then to have my head pulled back so my neck is exposed just adds to the excitement.
I can't think of a better reason to have long hair.
I enjoy it more for the control aspect than the pain.




KatyLied -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 5:55:22 AM)

Yes, caveman dragging girl to cave, yum.




impishlilhellcat -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 6:31:18 AM)

I love it when a man wraps his hand in my hair. Like Aileen said it's even better when he's exposes my neck yanking on my hair. It just gives me goosebumps up and down my spine.




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 7:37:34 AM)

Most humans like it- subs like the extra sense of helplessness, the idea that they are being "taken" and that they are desired.

It sets of a lot of "happy chemical" receptors for the brain, one of my fave things to do for others is long slow scratching scalp massaged, which includes some hair pulling.

Very few people like it when you grab just a small chunk og hair, far from the scalp and do a hard yank.  But lots of people like the "close to the nape of the neck, large handful firm pull."




mixielicous -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 8:29:45 AM)

i have long hair, and this is specifically why i keep it.

i cannot say why i like it, prolly the animalistic nature of it i suppose.

my favorite is when he has me bent over something and decided to yank me straight up [by my hair] and keep me standing with the grip he has. it exposes my neck, and makes me feel overpowered. the best feeling in the world that is.




proudsub -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 9:25:24 AM)

Love it!! I feel it's a strong way to exert control.[:)]




littleone35 -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 11:09:50 AM)

I like it wanr Master plays with my hair and makes a pony tail with it and gently plulls my head back to give me a kiss feels so good.

Matt's littleone




chibihentai -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 11:45:57 AM)

Well, my hair is down to my thighs now... i love having my hair stroked, because for some reason i'm so sensitive i can feel it all over. i like the pain, the pulling, the pleasure, the control, or lack thereof. It makes nice spur-of-the-moment bondage material as well. *grins* Maybe because it's beauty that can be purposeful? i mean, looking nice for my Dom, for His pleasure, is a purpose, of course, but something tangible.

That's about all i can think of...

Many blessings,
chibi-hentai




Tapestry -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 12:13:02 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Tikkiee

To tell the truth, I have never tried to analyze why I liked it. I can say that when he grabs my hair, my knees turn to jelly, my stomach drops, and excitement rips through my body.
It's just...nice [:)]

What she said!

Recently W/we were visiting my family (who does not know about this part of my life) and as W/we sat on the sofa together He put His arm around me, and gripped my hair in His hand, not pulling hard, just holding it enough to remind me that He's there, and i'm His, and i'm safe.

It was possibly one of the most incredible feelings ever!  Very reassuring, and also neat that it was O/our personal signal that no one else in the room would understand.

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm




luckyslaveboync -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 12:21:01 PM)

lucky agrees with LuckyAlbatross. Hair pulling for pain is not liked simply because lucky does not like (but accepts) pain. However, when used to direct this sub as his Owner wants, sometimes even in public, it creates an intensely submissive feeling.




SpankMuhButt -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 1:18:51 PM)

Having him grip the hair by the nape of my neck, turns my knees to jello, nevermind if he exposes the neck, bites it or says really nasty things in my ear...........(whew)
yep I like having my hair pulled




starymists -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 2:01:14 PM)

I agree with the increased sensation of helplessness, being taken, the kind of pain that hair pulling entails...but I also have one ticklish spot on my body, and that's my ears...so when he decides to grab my hair and nibble on my ears, I'm a gonner ;)




Rayne58 -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 4:37:23 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Tapestry

quote:

ORIGINAL: Tikkiee

To tell the truth, I have never tried to analyze why I liked it. I can say that when he grabs my hair, my knees turn to jelly, my stomach drops, and excitement rips through my body.
It's just...nice [:)]

What she said!

Recently W/we were visiting my family (who does not know about this part of my life) and as W/we sat on the sofa together He put His arm around me, and gripped my hair in His hand, not pulling hard, just holding it enough to remind me that He's there, and i'm His, and i'm safe.

It was possibly one of the most incredible feelings ever! Very reassuring, and also neat that it was O/our personal signal that no one else in the room would understand.

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm


Even though I have short hair, there's enough for Him to get a grip on[:)] There are times when He will be gently stroking the back of my head, and then He will grip my hair in His fist and give it a gentle pull.....I get feelings much like Tikkiee described - YUM[:D]

And giving Him a bj while He holds my head still by my hair, so He can throat fuck me - pure heaven![:D]




Daddysredhead -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 5:04:59 PM)

I have to agree with most of the other replies that have been written here.  I love it when Master takes a big handful of my hair and pulls me nice and firmly towards Him or in whatever direction He wants me.  It's a great feeling of helplessness and submissiveness to Him and the power He exerts over me.  It's a great reminder of who is in charge.  It makes me totally weak in the knees, and hot and bothered everywhere else.  A fave for me is sex a la "doggie style" with a hair grab during that forces me to look up at Master.  Oh my...  [:)]




sweetbbwsub31 -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 5:16:00 PM)

i love having my hair played with and touched in general. i can be put to sleep with a gentle stroking of my hair and my head.
 
From a BDSM perspective: i will never forget the first time. My Dom at the time leaned over in the car and looked into my eyes.. he gently made a fist around the hair at the nape of my neck and he pulled. i learned that day that that type of pulling made me lose control. i became aroused like never before. Just that tug to let me know he is in charge. i will remember it forever. That was the day i knew part of me would be his forever.
 
i love having long hair and the toy it becomes.




LokisBrat -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 5:27:30 PM)

One of my favorite stories involves "hair bondage" in which the female sub's hair is braided with a leather strap that contains a steel ring at the end, to be attached wherever her Master desires.  I love that story! [:D]


Brat




MHOO314 -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 5:48:36 PM)

Why only submissive women?  Submissive men like it too.




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