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Moloch -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 5:56:42 PM)

Why do cave men drag their women by their hair?  Because if they pulled them by their legs they would fill up with dirt.
Yes males enjoy it too *points at a mirror*




kyraofMists -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 5:57:19 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross
It sets of a lot of "happy chemical" receptors for the brain, one of my fave things to do for others is long slow scratching scalp massaged, which includes some hair pulling.


This is one of my favorite things.  I once orgasmed from a long, slow scalp massage.  Playing with my hair in any way turns me on.

kyra




mixielicous -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 6:00:41 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LokisBrat

One of my favorite stories involves "hair bondage" in which the female sub's hair is braided with a leather strap that contains a steel ring at the end, to be attached wherever her Master desires. I love that story! [:D]


Brat



story? i quite frequently indulge in the real thing. hair bondage has become a hobby of mine because due to the weight of my hair, there isnt much else i can do with it.




cuddleheart50 -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 6:11:13 PM)

I don't know why, but it just turns me to jelly...I love it!




RunningFox -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 6:12:28 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Rayne58

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ORIGINAL: Tapestry

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ORIGINAL: Tikkiee

To tell the truth, I have never tried to analyze why I liked it. I can say that when he grabs my hair, my knees turn to jelly, my stomach drops, and excitement rips through my body.
It's just...nice [:)]

What she said!

Recently W/we were visiting my family (who does not know about this part of my life) and as W/we sat on the sofa together He put His arm around me, and gripped my hair in His hand, not pulling hard, just holding it enough to remind me that He's there, and i'm His, and i'm safe.

It was possibly one of the most incredible feelings ever! Very reassuring, and also neat that it was O/our personal signal that no one else in the room would understand.

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm


Even though I have short hair, there's enough for Him to get a grip on[:)] There are times when He will be gently stroking the back of my head, and then He will grip my hair in His fist and give it a gentle pull.....I get feelings much like Tikkiee described - YUM[:D]

And giving Him a bj while He holds my head still by my hair, so He can throat fuck me - pure heaven![:D]


Oh yeah. I have short hair, too, and having my hair pulled by my master is absolutely the biggest turn on ever. Sometimes he uses the technique to uh, give me directions. [;)]




murmur -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 6:12:42 PM)

I love it. It's a very intense turn on. This feeling of sudden emptyness being filled with something so primal and raw. Yum! It makes me go immediately into subspace. [:)]




OTKkindaGirl -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 6:53:38 PM)

For years i would have this special fantasy of a man coming up behind me, his large hand spanning the width of the back of my head, quickly moving under my long mane, gripping it just close enough to the scalp so that his fingers could curl into a fist, he would turn me around my eyes locking with his, knowing immediately in my heart that this was my destiny.  To feel so desired, to feel like i belonged, to know that i was wanted, to know that i would yield to that kind of power.  Then he would kiss me, possesively and deeply.  Yes, until recently it was only just a fantasy, then i found my way from the vanilla world and into this one, at long last, i am no longer alone.  nah.... i don't like it..... i love it!!!  and more so than my old fond fantasy of yesteryear.  *giggles*  i think the why of the question is stated in the fantasy. it makes me feel weak.  it is a possessive gesture as far as i am concerned and i love feeling that secure in my weakness. the feeling of "yes, i am yours, do with me as you like"




ownedblackbeauty -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 7:00:11 PM)

hair pulling shows that Master Sir is very serious. however, it does turn me on a great deal! i love His strength and power. even though i am being punished or chastized as He pulls my hair, im extremely turned on by it.

slave ty
property of Master, Sir and spankingbeauty (cm.com) 




LaMspeach -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 7:09:13 PM)

I love my hair played with but when Master wraps his hand in my hair, i turn to jello and a tingle goes through my body... Maybe it has something to do with what will follow. * sighs*




unquenchable -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 7:16:16 PM)

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ORIGINAL: CanadianGuy

Open discussion for the the submissive girls.

Why do you like it?  How does it make you feel?  What situations is it best in, for you?  Any good stories, memories, or fantasies about hair pulling?

(pulling could be "gripping" or "grabbing", etc)


What could be better.......a tight quick tug, a soft whisper, a nibble, ummmmmmm yes i like it, darn right i do!

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MrrPete -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 7:46:58 PM)

I haven't met a woman who didn't like her hair pulled including a Domme or two.

I like my hair played with but not pulled. I want my full beard pulled [:)]
It just feels good on my chin.

up coming scene this Thur. knife play with very 3 sharp knives. she doesn't see
me pick the fourth knife which has been intenionally dulled to absolutely useless
exxcept for....

Then suddenly I pull her head back by her hair exposing her throat. she sees the flash of steel
as I draw it across her neck.

Mr. Pete

avialable and looking.





LuckyAlbatross -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 8:25:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MrrPete
me pick the fourth knife which has been intenionally dulled to absolutely useless
exxcept for....


Clean and fresh sharp knives work better.  You can't tell on a dull knife when you will hit a pit or a sudden sharper spot.  Know the knife you're working with.

You could always just use a credit card.




TemptingNviceSub -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/17/2006 8:29:43 PM)

Have to go with Aileen...sighs..the power and the domination felt when your hair is gripped in a stong tight grasp...exposing or leading a submissive wherever or however the Dominant chooses....*whew,  did it just get hot in here?*..Tempting




CanadianGuy -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/18/2006 3:54:13 AM)

Wow.... awesome responses!  Thank you everyone!

All this talk makes me crave being with my girl even more.  I love the look of panic and submission in her eyes and on her face when I grip her by the hair and lead her where I want her.  Now I have an even better idea of how she must be feeling. 

Any other replies and comments about this topic are appreciated!




foxnotinsox -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/18/2006 5:04:46 AM)

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Why do you like it?
How does it make you feel?
What situations is it best in, for you?
Any good stories, memories, or fantasies about hair pulling?


Ahhhh =] hair pulling ... well, besides the physical power exchange already discussed, this activity has an added bonus. The pulling causes stretching of the tiny muscles of the skull and into the face, and causes these muscles to relax .. somebody mentioned liking their beard being pulled, and the same thing applies here. It is like a mini-massage .. <grins> and this is a good thing cause a lot of us are stressed .. in the neck, jaw and shoulders .. brought about by time at the computer, jaw clenching, poor posture, etc. Pulling the hair (and also pulling the ears) brings some relief =)

The relaxation is not only to the skull muscles, but the feeling I get is hmmm not unlike that of a kitten being grabbed by the scruff of its neck by its Mom. The whole body relaxes, yet the mind becomes hyper-aware and focused. For to make a wrong move could cause harm .. heheh both for myself *and* for the kitten.

Hair pulling can be done at practically any length .. <grins again> even pubic hair feels nice being pulled. As for my hair, well I have a funny little story. I had been growing it long, because I always wanted to donate it to charity .. being blessed with wonderful hair. It went to my waist .. ~20 inches long, hmm or about 5 hands in horsey terms.

Several weeks ago, my hair was put into braids and about a foot was cut off. I figure that I gave away 3 hands length, and am left with 2 .. so more than enough =) to grab ahold of, and some kid will have wavy auburn hair whilst undergoing chemo.

Gosh! the reactions of some .. sure while most lament what they see as a *loss* there have been a couple who actually chastised me for doing it ... "why did you go and do that for? I love long hair!!" ... heheh when I don't even know these people ...

There's more hair-raising tales .. but have run out of time...
Have a wonderful day!




Lashra -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/18/2006 6:13:00 AM)

I know the OP said this was for sub gals but my male sub asked me to post that YES male subs love to have their hair pulled, yanked and grabbed etc. Mine has the most beautiful dark thick naturally wavy hair and I love to reach up and grab a handful and pull him around by it.[:D]
He says it makes his knees turn to jelly because he can feel my control coursing over him, particulary when he's down on his knees taking the strapon and I have a hold of his hair with one my hand[:)]

I like to have my hair pulled too or held onto, its just a sexy kinda feeling.

~Lashra




SirRobsgirl -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/18/2006 2:51:47 PM)

Heaven.  For all the reasons already given.  sigh.




Angeligue -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/18/2006 2:58:59 PM)

My Master plans to shave my head at my collaring ceremony.  I think what I will miss the most about loosing all my hair, is the feeling I get when he pulls my head back arching my back and baring my throat. Not to mention the fact that I will be the ulgiest bald chick ever, ahh the price of obedience.




classykindasassy -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/18/2006 11:10:56 PM)

OMG!!!this is my FAVE.
 
There is nothing I love more than to get started into a scene by being forcibly towed around the room by my hair (walking, crawling or kneeling of course).
 
Another nice touch is to begin a discipline session by forcing me into a kneeling, head-down pose and then standing on my hair.
 
Why? because it is raw control and gets my fight/flight chemicals raging.




Vendaval -> RE: hair pulling: do you like it, and if so, why? (4/18/2006 11:54:37 PM)

And men wonder why women spend so much time at the beauty salons, and tell
their hairdressers the most intimate of secrets!  [:D]
 
-Vendaval-
 
 


quote:

ORIGINAL: kyraofMists

This is one of my favorite things.  I once orgasmed from a long, slow scalp massage.  Playing with my hair in any way turns me on.

kyra





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