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RE: True Slavery - 4/18/2006 3:58:22 PM

BlkTallFullfig

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I enjoy meeting the potential slaves from Collarme. But it is so time consuming with all the wannabee's and wankers. In my world it is all about me and that's it. These fetishistic people should see a pro dom. And stop wasting time for all of us. When I schedule a slave interview, I set aside time, then find it to be cancelled for a rediculous excuse. Someone else of whom wants to serve has an injustice done to them. It could have been them at the interview.
Lady Black Savage

So I decided to read your profile, and noticed that your profile represents what a lot of us on the forums would deem created by a dellusional wannabe or a wanker; so you see, it's largely a matter of perspectives, and you simply need to find the right wannabe for you as we all seek for ourselves.
It's also a little Rude to come whine and disappear. M

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RE: True Slavery - 4/18/2006 4:21:00 PM

WhiteRadiance

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In all fairness to the savage, I cannot blame her for not replying to most of these posts. Her post was quite negative and whiney and the replies have been quite scathing.
Savage, believe me, there are real people here on CM.. I have met a fair share of them R/t.. we all have our needs and kinks- apparently you as well as anyone.. you are seeking something, as are those who have contacted you. perhaps it is not the same thing, but I would suggest that you open your heart and your mind. There are some great subs here- AND Dominants- and communicating with them can't hurt you.

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RE: True Slavery - 4/19/2006 7:37:22 AM

bschwimmer

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Is true slavary what u want?
done it live it for 3years
get a spouse

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RE: True Slavery - 4/19/2006 10:36:01 AM

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This thread reminded me of a few dommes at a play party last saturday. My Master led me around for 2 hours by a leash. I was in "high" walking to the left just behind. My Master was stopped a few times to be asked where he got me from and that it is hard to find a good slave. He took me home and we talked about it after.

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RE: True Slavery - 4/19/2006 10:43:41 AM

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well the commetns are nice, but also from a submissive/slaves prospective you have dominants who make you waste time..I want 24/7 but many just waste my time, 1st online, then by phone then you visit them, flying and driving and they really dont want it...so you just have to keep going , and yes I am still looking for 24/7

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RE: True Slavery - 4/19/2006 1:59:15 PM

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Maybe it's a matter of, you just haven't found the right one yet :) Have patience, and keep hanging in there! I know that some days I just want to throw my hands up in despair and walk away. What keeps me going is knowing that there IS the perfect slave (for me) out there somewhere, and he (or she) might be the one writing the very next email I open!

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well the commetns are nice, but also from a submissive/slaves prospective you have dominants who make you waste time..I want 24/7 but many just waste my time, 1st online, then by phone then you visit them, flying and driving and they really dont want it...so you just have to keep going , and yes I am still looking for 24/7

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RE: True Slavery - 4/19/2006 10:23:01 PM

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Sure there is a sub or Dom/me out there for everyone...as long as you dont think that they are going to come perfect in one fully assembled package.

Let me let you all in on a little secret (well, those of you that havent quite grasped the concept yet): Relationships take work. They take endurance. They take tolerance and patience.

Looking for the perfect Dom/me or perfect sub is as fruitless as looking for the fountain of youth.

What you need to do is get out there; Find someone that you connect with and keep connecting with them. Make the effort to get to know them and work with what you have. You are never going to find "the perfect partner", youre not even going to find one that is perfect for you. But you may find someone who has enough of the qualities you seek. And these qualities may make you want a relationship with that person and may make you want to maintain that relationship through mutual trust, friendship, tolerance and hard work.

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RE: True Slavery - 4/20/2006 7:04:40 AM

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This probably sounds very passe, but i don't find it so difficult to find what you want if you truly speak to and from your core self. i look for those who have a strong spiritual sense of self because not only does that let me know a LOT about THEM, but also gives me a very strong foundation from which to serve from, and yes, i tend to find "hard" Masters and Mistress's i think because i am a handfull at times, but ultimately, it is our spiritual connection that supports our relationship. i am well known in that place and feel i know well my Mistress there too, and that is my pot of gold.

I certainly do recognise, however, one can go through a LOT of potentials before finding "the One"

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RE: True Slavery - 4/20/2006 7:56:26 AM

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Its really hard to find true slave i Agree ... But believe me they do exist ... It took 7 years to find a true slave for me ....But now i am enjoying my true slave ..

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RE: True Slavery - 4/22/2006 9:33:32 PM

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Dear Lady Black Savage; Ladies and Gentlemen;

What is a true slave? It really is a matter of one's personal view of what "true slave" is; just as much as a slave seeks a "true Mistress/Master." Unfortunately, Masters, Mistresses and slaves, do not grow on trees. They are individuals in all different stages of exposure to the lifestyle, perhaps not exposed due to work, location and circumstances. Even a "finished" and or "seasoned" slave will not please a new owner immediately. Relationships grow, through communication and willing to compromise but, not to the point compromises really bend you beyond the truth of your nature.

Regardless of the relationship; I would be lucky to meet a man 80% passive and or submissive. I can work on the other 20%. If there is no training experience under one's belt as a dominant; it might be more difficult. However, I find no matter if new or seasoned, if there is an attraction there will be efforts to compromise and growth.

I will also add, that even in the training academy that I am a faculty member, out of all the students who attend as slave, not all of them leave knowing they are a slave. More leave knowing that they aren't slaves but at least they really know instead of wondering. The same applies to the Master's training.

People have in mind what they wish in a slave and or dominant. Shouldn't compromise on deal breakers, such as no illegal drugs, etc.

I will mention that giving personalities of Master/Mistress and slaves will most likely work. It is when two takers meet, that it will usually end within months. One of each--might last 2 years or so.

Respectfully submitted,
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RE: True Slavery - 4/22/2006 9:48:08 PM

Invictus754

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I particularly enjoyed the "errond boy" and "painfull" parts of her profile, as well as the "fetishistic" part of her post.

If you have no command of your native language, how can you possibly think of commanding another person?

Buy a dictionary, wannabe domme.

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RE: True Slavery - 4/24/2006 6:59:39 AM

MistressDREAD

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Black Savage
Define True Slavery.

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KarbonCopy how can you give such cynical advice?

FYI Blk, Karbon Copy is a Cynic. Its His right to give His advise.
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Fuck Made You Judge of the Alphabet? LOL Joking............ Well Maybe. ~wink~

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