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ORIGINAL: MissAsylum

UPDATE: the person in question came to my house this morning to talk. he came by unannounced, which from day one was a rule NOT to do. I heard what he had to say since I assumed that i was getting an apology. Not even close. He stated that he felt it was wrong that i asked him to pay a portion for the cross since he has never paid before and he has no intention to start now. He also said that he deserves an apology for even suggesting he pay anything for the cross, as well as an apology for not even bothering to call him after he left and that once i say sorry, we can continue where we left off, provided that i dont ask for any of his money again. i wanted to laugh inside, but instead i told him that I do not want to continue our relationship, because his perceptions of how things work in the real world have been warped. he doesn't deserve my time nor any other domme's time if he believes thats how things should be. he left off in a huff- again. i don't care to deal with anybody who can be that selfish.

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

You want me to start a thread on Dommes who demand allowances?

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ORIGINAL: Malicenwundrlnd

I am catching the tail end of this and I would no longer have use of this unworthy joke of a sub. Being a Domina you establish in the begining what you expect of this sub and if in the beginning this sub is not doing your bidding well. For me I have no use
for someone such as that so undeserving of my time and experience. Malice

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ORIGINAL: crazyml

Yes I did have you confused with daddies inked slut.

And I'm a jackass. I'm really sorry!

[Edited to fix a typo]

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

You established in the beginning that you  bought all the toys and kept them all. It isn't surprising that suddenly changing the status quo would cause difficulty.

Hopefully next time, you'll discuss financial costs of play upfront instead of both parties having unexpressed expectations.

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ORIGINAL: SaintAllie

Just wondering if he's still sulking MissA?

Allie

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ORIGINAL: MissAsylum

UPDATE: the person in question came to my house this morning to talk. he came by unannounced, which from day one was a rule NOT to do. I heard what he had to say since I assumed that i was getting an apology. Not even close. He stated that he felt it was wrong that i asked him to pay a portion for the cross since he has never paid before and he has no intention to start now. He also said that he deserves an apology for even suggesting he pay anything for the cross, as well as an apology for not even bothering to call him after he left and that once i say sorry, we can continue where we left off, provided that i dont ask for any of his money again. i wanted to laugh inside, but instead i told him that I do not want to continue our relationship, because his perceptions of how things work in the real world have been warped. he doesn't deserve my time nor any other domme's time if he believes thats how things should be. he left off in a huff- again. i don't care to deal with anybody who can be that selfish.