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Orgasm on command - 7/21/2010 8:38:44 PM

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I have a new sub that wants to be trained on how to have an orgasm on my command. I have never done this and would like to know where to begin and then what.....

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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/21/2010 8:58:31 PM

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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/21/2010 9:19:36 PM

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I know how you can get your new sub to orgasm on command.

Buy her some Louboutins.

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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/21/2010 9:45:47 PM

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1. Is this what YOU want?

If so, then what exactly is it about this that interests you?

2. If so, then you probably want her to cum in ways that are pleasing to you, right? So what might some of those ways be?

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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/21/2010 10:13:29 PM

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The easiest way and the way that will make her believe you are in control is to wait until she is on the edge. Wait, observe her pupils, her pulse, her wetness, her thrusting hips, her grabbing her own tits.. wait, and when her eyes start to roll back just a little, tell her to cum. She is going there anyway, but the dit.. umm.. the woman will believe you did it for her. But don't do it loud enough to distract her. Nothing drives me more nuts when some guy tells me to cum and it breaks my train of thought so that nothing will bring me back to that point.

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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/21/2010 10:21:41 PM

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For example: I like to have my slave beg my permission immediately prior, but you might not like that idea at all. So what we say here may or may not be the kinds of things that interest you.

Do you want to have a specific set of curcumstances under which she may cum? Or exactly what do you or does she have in mind, when thinking of it...

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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/22/2010 12:50:08 AM

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Fuck that I d like my freaking dog to come on command...fidos name is "cmere DAMNIT" let alone having my other bitch do it ..smirkle

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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/22/2010 2:13:38 AM

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its something ive wanted to explore too. my problem has always been that the moment a guy says 'cum' i lose it and then it takes me ages to get back there because i feel like ive horribly failed and then when i do its totally discombubulated and disconnected from the original order.

ive been told by my new man, that the way to do this is to get her very very very very close and then ease back a little, just enough that she doesnt cum but the urge is still strong, then take her close again, very very close and then ease back. after a few times she's gagging to cum and close to tearing youre fecking head off (not subly i know, but O's can do that to a girl), once she's so damned desparate you get her very very very very close,on the edge, holding on, breathing it back and then let her go for it.

im not sure what comes next, ill have to let you know

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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/22/2010 2:34:17 AM

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Orgasm control has really only happened when i have been masturbating for my Dom. In these cases he makes me beg to cum. i can ask him anywhere from three to four times, then usually he tells me to count backwards from ten and when i hit one i can cum.

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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/22/2010 5:28:02 AM

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Like some have said have her get as close as possible to ask to go hard,same with squirting,have her push hard when she cums and it will happen eventually. If you can feel her clench,eyes rolling back etc,Stop dead,back it off, but beware we lose em quick that way and cannot always get a good O back as easily, Good luck ~ jewels

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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/22/2010 7:38:53 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

I know how you can get your new sub to orgasm on command.

Buy her some Louboutins.

You are a woman after my own heart.

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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/22/2010 6:00:50 PM

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Perhaps some play that would establish that her orgasm belongs to you? Maybe show her, over and over, that you are capable of eliciting it when and how it pleases you? Of course, when she does give it to you, or when you take it, depending on how you too look at it, is there lots of appreciation/admiration for her "performance"?

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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/22/2010 6:44:19 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

I know how you can get your new sub to orgasm on command.

Buy her some Louboutins.

You are a woman after my own heart.

That would work, right?

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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/22/2010 7:19:40 PM

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Are You asking how You can make her do it, with or without any "prep?" I don't know. I can do that, because I'm almost always turned on at least a bit. lol What's always worked best for me, though, is if I'm teetering on the edge but I know I'm not allowed for quite awhile. Then when He says "cum," I cum like a wild maniac. lol You could keep her wanting to, but not let her until YOU want her to. Then she knows her orgasms depend entirely on YOUR wishes. It's kind of like, what works for her?

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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/25/2010 10:36:48 PM

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quote:

The easiest way and the way that will make her believe you are in control is to wait until she is on the edge. Wait, observe her pupils, her pulse, her wetness, her thrusting hips, her grabbing her own tits.. wait, and when her eyes start to roll back just a little, tell her to cum. She is going there anyway, but the dit.. umm.. the woman will believe you did it for her. But don't do it loud enough to distract her. Nothing drives me more nuts when some guy tells me to cum and it breaks my train of thought so that nothing will bring me back to that point.

Agree completely. It's all in His tone, softly commanding me to cum that sends me over the edge. Also agree with getting close and backing off and getting close again.
We also have a remote control toy that we love to use in public. He really enjoys turning it on and watching me get so close to cumming and then shutting it off, or else waiting until some inopportune time and turning it on, watching me trying to keep my composure.

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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/26/2010 12:33:54 AM

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I am happily able to cum on command and I love the extra buzz it gives me when I do hit that O. It is something I have always been able to do for him, just came naturally (excuse the pun)

My Sir hasn't yet taken me to the very brink and held me there for long... I do hope one day he will test my limits... I do think the wild animal will defnitely come out and I do get a sneaky suspicion the O will be epic!!

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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/26/2010 6:18:01 AM

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That's , well, HOT! Most of us do...:)

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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/26/2010 6:23:18 AM

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Ive said this before, Ill say it again, you wanna be careful with this.....real careful.

You are sitting there watching the TV, already got the beer in your hand, slavie is in the kitchen, putting away the dishes from the fabulous meal you just ate, then you think to yourself: yanno; a blowjob will sorta mellow this whole fuckoree out.

So, you command your slave to come..................

She splooges all over the linoleum, the cupboards, the front of the refrigerator, top of the stove.............fuckin mell of a hess you got.

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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/26/2010 7:03:47 AM

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Just say comere kitty that night help,lol~ jewels

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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/27/2010 3:43:40 PM

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Hypnosis is a natural for this. Hypnosis affects our perception. If we perceive something as sexy, it is. A trigger can be used to cue orgasm on demand. It would take several sessions.

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