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Looking for advise from experienced Mistress - 7/30/2010 2:45:32 PM   
EnjoyMyBody


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Status: offline 		Dear Mistress:

Please allow me to ask for your advise on my profile. It has been up for quite a while now and I have not received any interest yet (except of a couple of emails from out-of-state, thousands of miles away).

Is there anything I can improve or do better in my profile to attract a Mistress and Mentor?

I hope this is the right forum to place this question. Otherwise, please advise me in the correct place to place my request.

Respectfully,

-tom
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RE: Looking for advise from experienced Mistress - 7/30/2010 2:48:46 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Please enjoy reading the Frequently Asked Questions thread http://www.collarchat.com/m_3057130/tm.htm that appears at the top of the forum.  In it, you will find a number of threads on how to improve your profile.

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RE: Looking for advise from experienced Mistress - 7/30/2010 5:59:59 PM   
dreamerdreaming


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Status: offline 		What LadyPact said!

Also: on a quick skim I liked your profile but your screen name sucks, IMHO. You do have a nice body, but that's not what's most important. What's really important is everything else about you. After all, a total asshole could have a great body, right? But why would I want to enjoy it when what I really want is a loving, obedient, wise, strong servant whose needs and desires fit together well with mine?!

If you had a screen name that spoke about what's really important, you'd attract more interest. And there's also the fact that even having that sort of screen-name to begin with shows that you're pretty clueless- that's a concern. Women who probably love your pics are not likely to talk to you if they don't see you as a reasonably self-aware person, with good judgement. Or they may think the screen name is saying that you just want something physical, and not a deeper relationship. In that case, they wouldn't even get as far as reading your text.

Just my two cents. Now go read the Ask A Mistress FAQ thread, please! You can learn a LOT about how to present yourself well to a Domme, there.

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RE: Looking for advise from experienced Mistress - 7/30/2010 6:48:35 PM   
PeonForHer


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It works a lot better if you just treat them like ordinary people until you've got to know them. The Goddess thing comes later. 

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RE: Looking for advise from experienced Mistress - 7/30/2010 6:50:59 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

EMB,

It works a lot better if you just treat them like ordinary people until you've got to know them. The Goddess thing comes later. 


It does? What else have I been doing wrong?

And why are you up so late?

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RE: Looking for advise from experienced Mistress - 7/30/2010 7:00:35 PM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

EMB,

The Goddess thing comes later. 

In My case, the Goddess thing never comes.  It's a little too hokey for Me.

Then again, so does calling someone "Mistress" without a qualifier.  Good way to know how familiar someone is about protocol.  It comes in handy as a screening tool.


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RE: Looking for advise from experienced Mistress - 7/30/2010 7:10:04 PM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		I'm still laughing at your first post.  It reminded me of Scaramanga saying to James Bond, 'Enjoy your tea, Mr Bond' - just before setting some man-eating crocodiles onto him.  Bet you were stroking a white cat when you wrote that.  

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RE: Looking for advise from experienced Mistress - 7/30/2010 7:13:43 PM   
LadyPact


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RE: Looking for advise from experienced Mistress - 7/30/2010 7:14:06 PM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		Eh?  It's only ten past three. 

I've finished the exam-marking and I don't know what to do with myself.  Perhaps some vigorous french polishing is in order before I hit the hay. 

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RE: Looking for advise from experienced Mistress - 7/30/2010 7:15:49 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Eh?  It's only ten past three. 

I've finished the exam-marking and I don't know what to do with myself.  Perhaps some vigorous french polishing is in order before I hit the hay. 



Or you could polish this Italian...

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RE: Looking for advise from experienced Mistress - 7/30/2010 7:17:21 PM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		Nope!  I bet your nickname for Mr P is 'Oddjob', too.


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RE: Looking for advise from experienced Mistress - 7/30/2010 7:21:38 PM   
PeonForHer


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RE: Looking for advise from experienced Mistress - 7/30/2010 7:24:32 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

My can of Brasso is at the ready, Lady Hib!



Goodness, am I that grubby?

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RE: Looking for advise from experienced Mistress - 7/30/2010 7:29:57 PM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		Awww - gissakiss!

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RE: Looking for advise from experienced Mistress - 7/30/2010 7:31:44 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Awww - gissakiss!



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