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RE: New Subbie - Help Please - 4/19/2006 7:21:44 AM

Proprietrix

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Looking good!

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RE: New Subbie - Help Please - 4/19/2006 8:19:33 AM

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I think your profile is much better. Good job. Do still consider a picture. As far as your identity, self-identification is a process which I highly recommend. Don't take someone else's word about who or what you are. Choose for yourself.

I believe that the more accepted definition of sissy is a man who likes to cross dress as a woman, usually with humliation tied to the act. Of course, I could be wrong and I hope some other sissies jump in and help with that definition. As for boi, this is usually used to identify a sub/slave who is physically female but who identifies as male and is usually looking for a Daddy/Daddi. I asked slaveboi ziggy about that one, so that definition comes from a boi. A gyrl, on the other hand, is male who identifies as the female gender.

The way to clarify the gender switch is to exchange the "y" and "i" for those who identify as the opposite sex. So, a Daddi is a female bodied person who identifies as a male in the role as a Daddy and a Syr is for a female bodied, male identified Sir. Clear as mud? But again, you are free to indentify any way you wish! We don't HAVE to force ourselves into boxes.

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RE: New Subbie - Help Please - 4/19/2006 12:13:14 PM

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I used to chat in a couple of different places online about bdsm, and this topic came up fairly often, despite the fact that there were no actual profiles to read first.

The general concensus for the room was read anything you think might be of interest, then read anything you think might be of use to someone else, since you might find yourself in that situation eventually. At the same time, interact with people so you can get a feel for what you are reading and how to apply it in a real life encounter. But above everything else, just be yourself and let others decide if they want to spend the time with you or not. Self honesty is one of the hardest things someone can develop but it speaks volumes to others if you can look at yourself and say what's wrong before someone else has to go upside your head and point it out.

But that's just my opinion on the whole thing.

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