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ORIGINAL: Termyn8or

I don't understand, just who won't let you keep them ? They are your property are they not ? People can't just take your stuff.

T

PS, don't get into shoving matches with old people. If YOU started it in her house you were absolutely wrong. You are in her house, if you can't get your point across take a walk. You may have actually been in the right in the argument, but you REALLY BLEW IT if there was a shoving match. You walk away in such a case.

You don't become an adult because you have reached the age of majority in the jurisdiction, they can't tell you you are an adult. I can, however, tell you that you were not at the time of this incident. No matter how ridiculous someone with Alzheimer can get, you acted improperly. Did she shove you first ? You said shoving match. That means you shoved her. That means you ARE NOT in control of yourself and should not yet be responsible for the care or anything of anyone infirm, mentally or physically. You seem not to understand that they are no longer 100% there. If she shoved you first and you went down the stairs, it would not be a "match". If you shoved her first, except very rare instances, you were in the wrong hands down. That is how it is.

If you are an adult you can be trusted with the care of children or the infirn or senile. You do not feel anger when shit happens because you know they are not all there. Children do stupid things because they have not learned, old people sometimes do them because they have forgotten. If you cannot understand that you should move out now.

I am sorry that I had to get tough on you, but I offer no apologies whatsoever for my words, in fact I suggest you take them to heed ASAP. Grow up.

T

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ORIGINAL: Saratov

You want police quality 'cuffs?  We can fix this!

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ORIGINAL: IronBear

I can buy S&W chained cuffs which are supplies to the Qld Police easy as well as the hinged cuffs (more expensive) and the other treats like the lock boxes to pin a perp to the wall. For fast restraint I use building ties.. Illegal for Police and Security in Qld but with my Fed. Warrant Card still active I use them .. Would work well in bondage scenes too..

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ORIGINAL: fergus

Heck, I'll take the cheap ones if you send along a nice sadistic woman to use them on me!

fergus

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There are some situations where the "caregiver" is not really able to effectively administer proper care. Times like that a professional or an agency or service needs to be called in to render aid.

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ORIGINAL: wytchywoman

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ORIGINAL: fergus

Heck, I'll take the cheap ones if you send along a nice sadistic woman to use them on me!

fergus

Fergus? You wamt cheap? I'm alwaays cheap -wink-

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Agreed.
And a charge of assault on any will gain many rules that cannot be broken like not being allowed to carry or own any weapons. Cuffs are defined as a weapon, so are fingernail files..................

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ORIGINAL: Termyn8or

She simply threw you down the stairs ? OK move out and say fuck you and call me when you cook that dish I liked when I was a kid.

If she can physically defeat you, she does not need your help.

You can go get yourself knocked up, or not

You can go do drugs, or not

You can go smash your car, or not.

Get the picture ? This shit should've never happened. When others are impaired it is up to YOU to keep the cool. If you can't do that well. . . . . . . . .

That is what you need to do, up to it ?

T