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Zevar -> RE: What do you think about korea women? (8/1/2010 1:23:31 PM)

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ORIGINAL: fslove

What do you think about korea women?


http://www.catwinternational.org/factbook/Korea.php

http://www.humantrafficking.org/countries/south_korea

http://www1.american.edu/TED/thaiwomen.htm

If you truly are a Korean woman then perhaps you will find something of value in these links herein above. Read the links herein above and perhaps you will become far more educated of the plight of many Korean women. It is truly horrific how these trafficking bastards treat Third World women. I thank goodness that there are agencies and people willing to free them to safety.

Need I say more about what I think of Korean women AND how they need NOT be treated as less than human?

Take good care of you!




jujubeeMB -> RE: What do you think about korea women? (8/1/2010 2:32:52 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Zevar
Need I say more about what I think of Korean women AND how they need NOT be treated as less than human?


Way to take a potentially offensive post and turn it into an opportunity for education on a serious issue [:)]




Focus50 -> RE: What do you think about korea women? (8/1/2010 2:37:05 PM)


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ORIGINAL: ShoreBound149

They look odd and talk funny.  They eat weird shit and have small tits.


Just to dial back the negative perception a tad, I think Korean (and Oriental women in general) are just as capable of being stunningly attractive as the average western woman. Perhaps the only area all Orientals "lose" is that I also think natural redheads are mostly hot.

As for that "weird shit" they eat; seems they don't have nearly the obesity and general health problems of the average westerner.

And those "small tits" (even if it were true), I'm sure I'm not the only man who, given some weird choice, much prefers a modest upper deck over Dolly Parton-esque turrets....

Focus.




igor2003 -> RE: What do you think about korea women? (8/1/2010 2:57:21 PM)

I'll agree with Focus50 on this one, on all points except maybe the part about the redheads. Redheads are OK (I was married to one) but I've been in love with Asian women ever since high school when I had a strong attraction for a Japanese classmate.




Aynne88 -> RE: What do you think about korea women? (8/1/2010 5:23:59 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Focus50


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ORIGINAL: ShoreBound149

They look odd and talk funny.  They eat weird shit and have small tits.


Just to dial back the negative perception a tad, I think Korean (and Oriental women in general) are just as capable of being stunningly attractive as the average western woman. Perhaps the only area all Orientals "lose" is that I also think natural redheads are mostly hot.

As for that "weird shit" they eat; seems they don't have nearly the obesity and general health problems of the average westerner.

And those "small tits" (even if it were true), I'm sure I'm not the only man who, given some weird choice, much prefers a modest upper deck over Dolly Parton-esque turrets....

Focus.



Hey Focus..not to be argumentative but they do not like being called Oriental. They are Asian. Oriental is food and furniture, Asian relates to people. Yes really...




reynardfox -> RE: What do you think about korea women? (8/1/2010 6:17:46 PM)

Even for a first post this is lame enough to get shot.




Zevar -> RE: What do you think about korea women? (8/1/2010 7:59:17 PM)

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ORIGINAL: jujubeeMB

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ORIGINAL: Zevar
Need I say more about what I think of Korean women AND how they need NOT be treated as less than human?


Way to take a potentially offensive post and turn it into an opportunity for education on a serious issue [:)]


Greetings jujubee:

Indeed I take serious issue with mindless ruthless bastards that believe they can exploit women in any shape, form or fashion. Education on the subject of how Third World Women are exploited undoubtedly must remain. I know each opportunity that opens I am in line to do my utmost best by means of education, but then I am a west coast liberal AND no less a diversity believing San Franciscan. Lest I forget also a chivalrous Irish gentleman master. [;)]

How’s that for a mouthful, aye?

A good evening to you!




squints -> RE: What do you think about korea women? (8/1/2010 9:43:58 PM)

As a Korean, I find this topic interesting, you mention the word Korea and out pops the words massage,
manicure and pedicure, "eat weird shit", and slave trafficking. Maybe it’s hypocritical of me because I do
joke about these things but I find that it irritates me when non-Asians joke about these stereotypes. Most Asians
joke about these stereotypes because we understand the history behind it, while non Asians joke about these
stereotypes to other non Asians just to perpetuate this very stereotype hence the word oriental.
P.S If you want to get laid by an Asian:
1. never call her oriental
2. be nice to her mama ( she has supreme reign over the pussy gate)
3. never reference Asian porn
3. be ready for the temper




ranja -> RE: What do you think about korea women? (8/2/2010 2:22:40 AM)

i understand you, i am Dutch and i only like it when i joke with other Dutch about our cheese eating, clog wearing, drug smoking- prostitute habits... as we know the history... it somehow is un-funny when other non-Dutch mention these things...
also it is somewhat strange to even be called Dutch... we refer to ourselves as Nederlanders... but i think it is too late to change the world unfortunately

i might be wrong but i have noticed that people from Australia (Australians?) do not really know who is Asian and who not... i think they do not consider Indians or Pakistanis Asian either and i believe they refer to themselves as Asians
And do any of us whites refer to ourselves as Caucasians yet? When i first saw that word i was amazed to find out that i was one hahaha

ETA ah... Indians that should be Indiers? or people from India? not of course the American Indians... who are of course Americans really...
pardon me, mistakes are made so easily...




Focus50 -> RE: What do you think about korea women? (8/2/2010 3:26:21 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Aynne88

Hey Focus..not to be argumentative but they do not like being called Oriental. They are Asian. Oriental is food and furniture, Asian relates to people. Yes really...



Lol, I actually did have "Asian" written down in my first draft but thanks to my sporting interests and personal prejudices, I changed it to 'Oriental' instead....

See, Oz is very much a sporting nation, due in no small part to us truly being the land of the great outdoors. And my favourite summer sport is cricket. Oz is an International cricketing powerhouse and we play regularly against countries who proudly proclaim themselves to be of South-east *Asian* origin - such as India, Pakistan and Sri Lanka.

Now, people indigenous to those countries are nothing like what I (or most) would generally perceive as being your atypical (dare I say it...) "slanty-eyed" Asian. The standout racial feature of most Indians and Lankans is their black skin while Paki's look like any other of Arab descent to me. So I balked at 'Asian' and chose 'Oriental' for greater accuracy, even though (if you're correct) it now apparently betrays my cultural ignorance. Hmmm, I'm sure this post is displaying more than just cultural ignorance, now that I think about it.... lmao

As for my prejudices.... What can I say; I'm just not attracted to black skin (of any race) but I have no such troubles with attractive Orie...., ok, Asians in general. So none are natural redheads - clearly that's not part of the attraction I've found with a number of Asians that have caught my eye or attention over the years.

So Aynne, speaking of redheads - the pale facial skin and red fringe in your pic.... Webcam, perhaps??? lol

Focus.




Focus50 -> RE: What do you think about korea women? (8/2/2010 3:37:24 AM)


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ORIGINAL: squints

As a Korean, I find this topic interesting, you mention the word Korea and out pops the words massage,
manicure and pedicure, "eat weird shit", and slave trafficking. Maybe it’s hypocritical of me because I do
joke about these things but I find that it irritates me when non-Asians joke about these stereotypes. Most Asians
joke about these stereotypes because we understand the history behind it, while non Asians joke about these
stereotypes to other non Asians just to perpetuate this very stereotype hence the word oriental.
P.S If you want to get laid by an Asian:
1. never call her oriental
2. be nice to her mama ( she has supreme reign over the pussy gate)
3. never reference Asian porn
3. be ready for the temper



Hi squints; welcome to the Forums... :)

So tell me, now that I'm already in the poo for my ignorance; why not 'oriental'? Aynne88 says it's furniture and food etc but I can recall old movies where peoples of the region have been referred to as oriental, too.

Of course, they were mostly American or British movies plus I'm rather old etc, but still, what gives?

Focus.




squints -> RE: What do you think about korea women? (8/2/2010 4:27:21 AM)

I don’t know if it’s ignorance or if you’re bold, most wouldn’t have the skittle nuts to write slanted eye Asians or discriminate against skin color. A lot of Asians are red heads it’s the blonds that look like monkeys. Long story short Americans denounced the word oriental due to imperialism, other countries kept it. Most Asian men don’t care it just sounds out of date but Asian woman are constantly being hit on by men with yellow fever who insist on whispering the word into your ear to make you sound more exotic. Somehow they always make the transition between oriental and what I can do with some ben wa balls or what my supposed grandmother back in the mainland did for them some odd years ago. No one likes to hear how granny sucked taint.




wandersalone -> RE: What do you think about korea women? (8/2/2010 4:47:28 AM)

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ORIGINAL: ranja

i might be wrong but i have noticed that people from Australia (Australians?) do not really know who is Asian and who not... i think they do not consider Indians or Pakistanis Asian either and i believe they refer to themselves as Asians


We don't?

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ORIGINAL: Focus50
The standout racial feature of most Indians and Lankans is their black skin while Paki's look like any other of Arab descent to me.
Focus.



Focus I think you would find that Indians and Sri Lankans have skin that comes in a number of hues ranging from fairly lightly tanned through to brown (I have been called cafe au lait  coloured by some friends [:D] ) through to the much darker shades.  This partly depends on where they are originally from.

In answer to the OP, I think some women from Korea can be very beautiful just as can women from all other countries. To me it is not only the outer physical features that make a woman (or man) beautiful to me, it is the internal invisible things that are just as important .... their heart, their grace and their spirit [:)]

Welcome to the forums




roland23 -> RE: What do you think about korea women? (8/2/2010 5:04:39 AM)

Interesting question. Most of the ones I've met have been petite, smart and unattainable. There's both anecdotal and statistical evidence that (East) Asian-American women are really popular in the US of A. Most interracial marraiges are between white men and (East) Asian women.




sunshinemiss -> RE: What do you think about korea women? (8/2/2010 5:14:18 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Aynne88


Oh my, I was married to a Korean man for 22 years, and my Korean mother in law was like a blitzkrieg. So we my sister-in-laws. They ran the families with iron fists. I always get a laugh when Western men extol the virtues of delicate Korean flowers when my extended family members were anything but submissive. Yes, they were lovely, and wonderful women,  but submissive isn't the word that comes into my mind. And yes, they were from Korea, not raised here. Maybe Sunshine can speak n this too, since she is living in Korea.

OP, welcome to the boards. :)



You called?


You now, I saw wanders' name and wondered what she was writing about ... and lo and behold here's the topic, and my own Sweet Aynne calling for me.

Ahhhh serendipity.

About the food:
Korean food is an amazing cuisine.  It is healthy and is based on the concept of balance.  Hot food, cold food, spicy food, bland food.  While I don't always know what it is when I look at it, I have found that with few exceptions, Korean food is wonderful!  Vegetarians can easily live on a traditional Korean diet - it's full of soy protein, yogurt, eggs, and fish (for those who are flexible with their vegetarianism).  Anybody who doesn't like Korean food hasn't had decent Korean food.  It's fabulous - runs the gamut from beef / pork and rice / potatoes to dried squid and seaweed soup.  As to their bodies - their metabolism is different.  They eat (I swear) twice what I eat and are half my size.  Some people are just built this way.

Same Same but Different (saying on a t-shirt)
Korean culture here (in South Korea) tends to have something of an innocence that we don't see elsewhere.  At least on the surface, that is how it is.  Once you get to know the people, they are like everyone else.  They let down their reserve, and they are passionate, funny, kind... or just as readily assholes and idiots.

Looksism / Materialism
The culture tends to be very materialistic in some ways (response to the war?).  They are incredibly efficient in some ways and woefully nitpicky to the point that their fussiness gets in the way of progress.  There is a looksism here that is worse than the USA.  Many a young woman leaves high school and has plastic surgery before she goes to uni so that she will be more beautiful and get a second chance.  They do everything they can to have pale skin since only the laborers have suntanned skin.  I find it a little creepy how materialistic and looksist they can be.  But it is what it is.

The women dress like they are going to a wedding even if they are just going to the supermarket.  Their bodies tend to be really small and they wear a lot of poofy, airy clothes.  That makes them seem overly feminine (or childlike).  It's rather Stepford wife-y on the surface.  However, again, beneath the surface, they are tough as nails.  They run their families and their homes like drill sargeants. 

Belonging
There is a presumption of group involvement that we don't see in Western society - or at least I don't.  I have a few folks I'm friendly with... I can't really say I have "friends" here since I'm building friendships, but a couple people are getting there.  When I was sick recently, my western friends all said "let me know if there's anything I can do."  They were willing to help.  My Korean friends said things like, "can I meet you at the hospital and translate?" or "I want to come to your place and get you water / juice / broth" or "I'm free on Saturday, can I bring you something?  A newspaper or book?"  My being ill swept like wildfire through the Korean groups that I'm involved in and EVERY ONE OF THEM wrote me and offered to help.  The difference in the way they view their interactions with me is what makes them "seem" more submissive.  It is NOT submissiveness though.  It is a belongingness.  They saw me as belonging to their group or clan or tribe... I was one of them in some way.  It is their responsibiltiy to take care of their friend just as it is MY responsibility to take care of them if something happens to them.  From the westerners, it was on me to ask for help.  At a time when I could barely utter a simple yes or no answer and definitely couldn't think up a full question or dial a phone number, the response from the Koreans was ever so welcome.  I would have felt weird making a phone call to ask my friends to come over and bring me a bottle of water.  But Koreans offered.  On the flip side, when one of them was applying for a new job, I wrote her a letter of recommendation without being asked and gave it to her... because I also must take care of her.  She is a part of my tribe.

Conclusion
Please don't make the mistake of thinking Korean women are submissive, delicate, sweet things.  They are some of the toughest people I've ever met. 

That's my take on it - for what it's worth - from living here a year and a half. 

Best,
sunshine


*look at that - I wrote an essay!




BentUnit -> RE: What do you think about korea women? (8/2/2010 6:16:36 AM)

Oh dear....

When ever I see a man ask about Asian women, invariably are looking to acquire some quiet, submissive little thing who will be SO grateful for being rescued from a life of abject poverty they will consent to being a virtual slave for the household.
This is NOT something that I'm making up....this attitudes I've seen first hand in Australian men who for what ever reason think that a poor Asian woman will be a softer, less fussy target.

There are so many words to describe the practice and the attitudes.....<but I won't give the mods here a excuse to send me a gold lined love letter>.......but you can guess what they might be. [;)]




Focus50 -> RE: What do you think about korea women? (8/2/2010 6:21:08 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: squints

I don’t know if it’s ignorance or if you’re bold, most wouldn’t have the skittle nuts to write slanted eye Asians or discriminate against skin color. A lot of Asians are red heads it’s the blonds that look like monkeys. Long story short Americans denounced the word oriental due to imperialism, other countries kept it. Most Asian men don’t care it just sounds out of date but Asian woman are constantly being hit on by men with yellow fever who insist on whispering the word into your ear to make you sound more exotic. Somehow they always make the transition between oriental and what I can do with some ben wa balls or what my supposed grandmother back in the mainland did for them some odd years ago. No one likes to hear how granny sucked taint.


Well I did write "slanty-eyed" with some reluctance but what else can I do when Indians and Lankans are calling themselves Asians (albeit South-east Asians) and the oriental type Asians (Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Viet etc) that I was wanting to refer to are apparently offended by the description of 'oriental'...?

And no, I don't see my preference for fair skin as being discrimination in the negative sense. I am, afterall, entitled to like and be attracted to that which I like and am attracted to.... It may well be polite and diplomatic to fake it or just be silent about one's preferences and persuasians but phoney posturing and political correctness ain't who I am.

Mind you, I am capable of some form of diplomatic silence; note how I haven't touched "skittle nuts" or "sucked taint".... lol

Focus.




jujubeeMB -> RE: What do you think about korea women? (8/2/2010 6:25:19 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Zevar
Indeed I take serious issue with mindless ruthless bastards that believe they can exploit women in any shape, form or fashion. Education on the subject of how Third World Women are exploited undoubtedly must remain. I know each opportunity that opens I am in line to do my utmost best by means of education, but then I am a west coast liberal AND no less a diversity believing San Franciscan. Lest I forget also a chivalrous Irish gentleman master. [;)]


Uh huh. Will you marry me? [:D]




Focus50 -> RE: What do you think about korea women? (8/2/2010 6:37:15 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: BentUnit

Oh dear....

When ever I see a man ask about Asian women, invariably are looking to acquire some quiet, submissive little thing who will be SO grateful for being rescued from a life of abject poverty they will consent to being a virtual slave for the household.
This is NOT something that I'm making up....this attitudes I've seen first hand in Australian men who for what ever reason think that a poor Asian woman will be a softer, less fussy target.

There are so many words to describe the practice and the attitudes.....<but I won't give the mods here a excuse to send me a gold lined love letter>.......but you can guess what they might be. [;)]



What is this "attitude" you speak of? The popularity of "mail order brides" of a decade or two ago? Seems to me that still required *two* consenting adults and I'd think the majority of Asian brides moving here to live did find a better and more comfortable life.

Exploitation usually comes in the form of their own countrymen (and women) sponsoring Asian women to come here as domestic help only to steal their passports and force them into prostitution to pay outrageous debts at a dollar or two a trick. And none of these practises (good and bad) are unique to Oz...!

Focus.




domiguy -> RE: What do you think about korea women? (8/2/2010 6:54:19 AM)

They can be pretty hot fucks. Many appear to have been hit in the face with a frying pan.

My friend is married to a half Korean woman. She is as mean as a snake. I am fairly confident he has sent out feelers to have her kidknapped and shuffled off to some third world Hell hole. At least, I have.

But then again I live in Chicago, somewhat close to Rockford, the worst city in the Galaxy. I am a lefty, never been to San Fran and I could sleep well knowing she was being abused and tortured in some third world shit hole.

juju, will you marry me, too?




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