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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

I agree with Jeffff.





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ORIGINAL: dbloomer

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ORIGINAL: SorceressJ

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ORIGINAL: BoiJen

1. All the Dommes reading, if you've gotten at least one nasty message from a polite "No, thank you", please say so.
2. If it's happened more than once, please say so.
3. If you've gotten the nasty stuff from one profile, said "no thank you" and then two months later gotten the same form letter AGAIN, please say so.

boi

1. Yes.
2. Yes. More than once from the same person/username, even. Not only that, I have received the same word-for-word message from the same user having made themselves a different profile.
3. Yes. At the risk of violating TOS, I will of course not name any names, but I am veritably certain that a username I've seen here today looks remarkably familiar in this regard. It went like this: first came the nasty response, then after I blocked him, the repeat visits so I would see him in my "Who's Viewing Me?" section (was this intended to impress?). Finding himself ignored, he got bored and went away, as good trolls do. Fortunately, when he visited my profile this time, he had gained enough gray cells to recognize me and say nothing. Thank you for that. *Big Smile!*

The fact that you didn't point the finger at anyone specifically leaves everyone free to point their finger and believe what they want to, which I'm sure you knew. Now anyone who disagrees with you on any subject is "That guy who was rude to you in a private message." Clever.

Add e-mail verification to Collarme and you'll see the amount of abuse around here reduced dramatically. Ask yourself why practically every other community website out there requires e-mail validation, but Collarme.com doesn't.

This more than anything is the #1 problem here. The reason they don't require e-mail verification is the same reason they don't implement the system we're advocating here of recognizing accounts as professional femdoms.

It will widdle down the userbase THAT much more, reducing the profitability of this place even further.

I will be withdrawing from this thread. Nobody wants to address the core issue. Instead, they want to burn the OP at the stake and pat eachother on the back, with some strange gang mentality.

As a final note, you might ask yourself WHY you receive so many angry posts from sub men looking for dommes, and you might consider the possibiltiy that a better system for maching subs with doms may actually result in more suitable matches for YOU, and a much happier inbox.

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

June.

She can be mean!


Ward

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ORIGINAL: Tantriqu

1. Hella yes, dozens of different ones, yet each with uniquely detailed threats of prolonged physical torture, sexual and other mutilation, forced pregnancy/prostitution/rape/sodomy, and death. Christ, put them all together, and you've got a Margaret Atwood novel! So, as someone mentioned above, I've stopped giving polite 'no, thanks', and just block and delete unless the message is from a male sub. Life's too short to read sociopathic ravings and /or unsolicited Aspbergeric flames from comp-sci types poisoned by vanilla-porn-fuelled impossiblities.
2. Hella yes, and also as someone mentioned above, frequently hidden under a new profile. Male switches, doms and female subs posting 'on behalf of their dom' are the foulest-mouthed. Ai yai yai. Dommes just tend to be verbal bullies, rather than detailing physical threats.
3. Yes to more contact months later under different profiles, no to a form letter.