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RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't A... - 8/6/2010 12:57:59 PM

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I can't believe I didn't participate, or did I?

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RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't A... - 8/6/2010 1:02:43 PM

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Ps. PC: if you check out this thread: http://www.collarchat.com/m_3344655/tm.htm you'll find that you STILL don't have more than 1/3 of posters who participated interested in adding any extra search criteria.

That being said, 33% of any given population wanting something is not enough to change policies that would cost a company without any profit benefit.

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RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't A... - 8/6/2010 1:03:36 PM

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Alright problemchild, you accused a fairly well known dominant of being a pro dominant and wanting money. Where did you get this little personal factoid? There is nothing she has in her profile or any journal entry or posting anywhere that she wants money for topping someone in any manner. There are however many things that prove exactly who she is. You were wrong. You assumed or allowed your personal feelings/agenda/attitudes or confusion to accuse someone of something that wasn't true, but you took it as a fact.

Your perception of this person is wrong and can be proven. Can you prove any differently? No... you cannot.

When people state that they don't share your perception you bring out your other profiles and charactors.... which by the way are a fake... to prove or validate your points. Can you prove your points without deceit? You deflect and act as if people refuse to get your point because they are lazy, weak, have no life and on and on and yet, it all boils down to what you think and your persistence in continuing to draw attention to yourself and bringing up a subject that was long overdone. Why?

Personally I think you would have a problem finding a dominant no matter what CM had in place as categories or features. The lifestyle dominant's aren't interested in someone who presents as you do on your many profiles and a pro dominant might be your only answer if you ever want any dominance. I think that makes you mad. I think you want to lash out, whine and call attention to yourself in a way that proves you aren't successful in finding someone to dominate your ass.

It isn't a problem in anyone else or CM... it is a problem in you, problemchild, which aptly describes you better than any of your other nicknames.

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RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't A... - 8/6/2010 1:11:40 PM

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Posts on this thread: http://www.collarchat.com/m_2834499/mpage_3/key_/tm.htm#2834888 I found particularly interesting as "lilboycaught" admitted to having two profiles and that he understood "real" dominant females existed.

I want to laugh a little laugh reserved for those whom I pity.

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RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't A... - 8/6/2010 1:20:35 PM

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But hang in there. There are literally hundreds of thousands of profiles, and I know there are women here who have absolutely no interest in money and are offended when a submissive offers it. They want functional and real femdom relationship. Some just want play partners, some want a collared submissive/slave for life, but in all cases they want the real deal.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_2781014/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#2781107

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RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't A... - 8/6/2010 1:22:25 PM

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I think that Prodommes are all a bunch of skanks and ho's.

Couldn't we have a section on CM dedicated only to skanks and ho's? I mean skanks and ho's that want money for their shit.

Not just the run of the mill CM skanks and hos.

I love a man with strength and integrity. What is a gal like sugga gonna do with some little subby boy?

Peace out.

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RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't A... - 8/6/2010 1:26:28 PM

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You know it, Brown Sugar. Send me $200 so I can get my web-cam working and maybe I'll let you see my strap-on.

Ooooh baby!....I love when you talk to me like that!!!.....How often do you get to Nigeria?

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RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't A... - 8/6/2010 1:35:33 PM

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Wow! I'm famous!! Lots of posts about me. None on the topic.

BTW Lockit-

You lost your chance. And I was probably your best prospect in the neighborhood. Close to your age. Close to your location. And I actually like short, kinda-chubby-but-not-too-fat girls. Definitely sub. And definitely willing to meet. I don't doubt that you can pick up some wanking jerkers (thousands of them) any day of the week, but not a guy like me who would have respected you and supported you through your health problems and everything else.

Go ahead, flame the hell out of me (even though this post did not insult you).

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RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't A... - 8/6/2010 1:42:55 PM

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Wow! I'm famous!! Lots of posts about me. None on the topic.

BTW Lockit-

You lost your chance. And I was probably your best prospect in the neighborhood. Close to your age. Close to your location. And I actually like short, kinda-chubby-but-not-too-fat girls. Definitely sub. And definitely willing to meet. I don't doubt that you can pick up some wanking jerkers (thousands of them) any day of the week, but not a guy like me who would have respected you and supported you through your health problems and everything else.

Go ahead, flame the hell out of me (even though this post did not insult you).

I find more worth in a vibrator.

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RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't A... - 8/6/2010 2:08:50 PM

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Wow! I'm famous!! Lots of posts about me. None on the topic.

BTW Lockit-

You lost your chance. And I was probably your best prospect in the neighborhood. Close to your age. Close to your location. And I actually like short, kinda-chubby-but-not-too-fat girls. Definitely sub. And definitely willing to meet.
<snip>

I find more worth in a vibrator.

With dead batteries?

And psst PC i think you blew your chance way back in this thread, but you just blew it definitely right now. What makes you think she'd have agreed to you as a sub in the first place?

**no insult intended Lockit, he's just a lil delusional**

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RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't A... - 8/6/2010 2:24:51 PM

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Tigerspoohbear,

Actually, no need to run the batteries dead! I believe in ever ready and light weight! There is a way to connect a vibrator to a lantern battery. Even I can't kill one of those!

I think it is funny that people think that the things going on in my life will weaken me so much that I would take less in a man/partner or submissive. They still have no chance with me and in fact would have less a chance if they thought I would! They sure don't know me very well. I am not my health, situation with son or anything other than who I am and I think who I am is worth a lot. If no one else ever feels that... so be it, I still have my vibrator. I will not take less than someone who will love, honor and behave, that I can enjoy and who enjoys me.

Besides... to steal something a friend just said to me in email over this... who needs a personal whiner generator?

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RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't A... - 8/6/2010 2:35:56 PM

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Wow! I'm famous!! Lots of posts about me. None on the topic.

Yes, you are. And now any female even thinking about having a relationship with you can come here and read it. It will save her the time of learning about your charming personality from contact with you and allow her to move on to the next profile.

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RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't A... - 8/6/2010 2:36:03 PM

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RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't A... - 8/6/2010 2:38:40 PM

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Wow! I'm famous!! Lots of posts about me. None on the topic.

BTW Lockit-

You lost your chance. And I was probably your best prospect in the neighborhood. Close to your age. Close to your location. And I actually like short, kinda-chubby-but-not-too-fat girls. Definitely sub. And definitely willing to meet. I don't doubt that you can pick up some wanking jerkers (thousands of them) any day of the week, but not a guy like me who would have respected you and supported you through your health problems and everything else.

Go ahead, flame the hell out of me (even though this post did not insult you).

The topic of the thread is not always the topic being discussed. That's how conversation goes. My guess is your single mindedness here is one, of several reasons, you remain single.

:-)

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PS. If you had bothered to pay attention to the s-types that seem to be succeeding in their searches and the advice they give, instead of being an ass, you might not be bitching about a non-existent problem. AND the post about the poll is directly related to the OP, but who's counting?

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RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't A... - 8/6/2010 2:41:29 PM

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I think we need a category of not fucking insane men, who dig fat redheads, and have some kind of job.

Damn, I may be one toke over the line sweet heyseuss...

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RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't A... - 8/6/2010 2:58:57 PM

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Tigerspoohbear,

Actually, no need to run the batteries dead! I believe in ever ready and light weight! There is a way to connect a vibrator to a lantern battery. Even I can't kill one of those!

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Besides... to steal something a friend just said to me in email over this... who needs a personal whiner generator?

Actually if you could harness the power of a personal whiner generator out of sight and out of mind, wouldn't need batteries for the damn vibrator. I've taken to using the re-chargeable ones, I have enough power packs

to rotate them.

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RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't A... - 8/6/2010 3:15:54 PM

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Wow! I'm famous!! Lots of posts about me. None on the topic.

BTW Lockit-

You lost your chance. And I was probably your best prospect in the neighborhood. Close to your age. Close to your location. And I actually like short, kinda-chubby-but-not-too-fat girls. Definitely sub. And definitely willing to meet. I don't doubt that you can pick up some wanking jerkers (thousands of them) any day of the week, but not a guy like me who would have respected you and supported you through your health problems and everything else.

Go ahead, flame the hell out of me (even though this post did not insult you).

No offense, but being close to age and location doesn't exactly make a person a 'catch'. Personality, physical attraction, and a person's integrity mean a heck of a lot more than if somebody is in the same city. There's got to be some kind of reason for the multiple profile thing. None of which I suspect lend to the high value of a prospect. This particular profile that you're using is five years old. I'm guessing you're still single. Let Me make another guess. The reason for that is that there are so many pros on CM.

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RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't A... - 8/6/2010 3:25:40 PM

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BTW Lockit-

You lost your chance. And I was probably your best prospect in the neighborhood. Close to your age. Close to your location. And I actually like short, kinda-chubby-but-not-too-fat girls. Definitely sub. And definitely willing to meet. I don't doubt that you can pick up some wanking jerkers (thousands of them) any day of the week, but not a guy like me who would have respected you and supported you through your health problems and everything else.

Go ahead, flame the hell out of me (even though this post did not insult you).

Kind of like you're doing now?

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RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't A... - 8/6/2010 4:09:00 PM

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This argument would be a whole lot more compelling if I WASN'T GAY. But hey, I mostly am, so an awful lot of those experiences I mentioned above have been with women. Real women. I somehow managed to find them amongst all those terrible fakes.

I could make a female profile in 10 minutes and in 24 hours have more messages in my inbox, from men AND women, than I have had since my current account which has been around for months has been up.

A males experience and a females experience here is not the same. If you think it is you're deluding yourself.

dbloomer, you are right. A female's experience is different from a male's. I will even post an example, using an entire letter received in my CM mailbox a few days ago to validate what you just said:

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I only wish that you had a photo to ost, but hten,I would probabaly only abuse myself in front of it...(wank, wank, yank).

If there is ever a flagging system "needed" for pro-Dommes...then there is a flagging system needed for complete asshats.

Most legit pro-Dommes say so in their profiles, so what is the point of flags...scammers, on the other hand, do not advertise this fact nor would they label themselves. I wouldn't trust others to be able to put flags up, as in Craigs List...if a male dislikes a female because she wouldn't get together with him or continue talking with him, he can make dozens of profiles and red flag her to death.

Someone gave good reasons why flagging wouldn't work here. If I have to wade through hundreds and thousands of asshats and sincere men who are not compatible...then you men can suck it up and deal with the scammers. At least YOU can report scammers. Asshats like that one who sent me that letter I can do nothing about other then laugh, block his arse and move on.

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RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't A... - 8/6/2010 5:17:48 PM

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What YOU fail to realize is that with increased search options this won't happen because people will actually be matched up properly!

OF COURSE there are miss-reports. Ebay seems to be doing just fine, and I'm sure CM will be too. No community is perfect, but we can invent systems that improve things.

You don't get it. People would report negatively no matter how it was said if they get rejected. Do you know how many Dommes here can say they sent a perfectly polite "No, thank you." and get pages of shit back from guys calling them "fake", "whores", and all kinds of nasty, nasty shit because they didn't like the polite answer they were given?

All the Dommes reading, if you've gotten at least one nasty message from a polite "No, thank you", please say so. If it's happened more than once, please say so. If you've gotten the nasty stuff from one profile, "said no thank you" and then two months later gotten the same form letter AGAIN, please say so.

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Yes. At least a hundred times since I came back. Many of the males bitterly resent hearing a polite no...like we are required to provide some service.

Just this past week I had half a dozen letters from one Dom who tried his best to talk me into becoming pro even just one time so I would top him. It wasn't nasty, just very rude to keep insisting when I said NO.

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