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MistressLonita -> RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? (8/9/2010 5:14:38 PM)
The first time my fiance and I went to dinner, he opened the door, and before I knew it, he was kissing my shoes in public. It scared me half to death, and my reaction was to sling my left arm until he caught it. HE hasn't done it again. MistressLonita

slavekal -> RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? (8/9/2010 5:23:35 PM)
Ms. Mlicious walked me down the street on a leash in New York City recently. She loved it, and so did I.

MistressLonita -> RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? (8/9/2010 5:35:37 PM)
The first time my fiance and I went to dinner, he opened the door, and without my knowing it, kissed my feet. It scared me so much that my gut reaction was to swing my left fist at him, but he caught my hand before I did hit him. It freaked me out. He does a great job doing my feet for me. I love that. MistressLonita

Andalusite -> RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? (8/9/2010 7:42:56 PM)
I've put my feet up in male friends' laps, and if they'd started licking or kissing my shoes, I would have been ticked off. If we were dating, it would depend on the environment we were in - kids or not, etc. I consider kissing and licking to be a lot more intimate than massage.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? (8/9/2010 7:57:25 PM)
Plus I don't necessarily want spit on my shoes.

Dnomyar -> RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? (8/10/2010 1:56:58 PM)
Drool is not spit. Don.t worry I will polish them after.

hereyesruponyou -> RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? (8/10/2010 5:33:46 PM)
but there's nothing like a good spit polish on leather...

Jaybeee -> RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? (8/11/2010 1:38:54 AM)
Well, I don't want her kissing the soles, that WOULD be going too far. As for public reaction, any comment along the lines of "Wow, that's a great girl you've got there! I wish I could be as compliant/affectionate/daring with my boyfriend" will be answered with my tab number, and an invitation to get herself a drink on me. Any comment less favourable that doesn't end with the words, "...but I respect your right to do it" will be met with a mirthless grin and the following statement of fact: "You too could be kissing them in a minute".

Twoshoes -> RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? (8/11/2010 2:11:52 AM)
It's abit hard to figure out what to do with exhibitionism. I haven't quite figured out what my limits on that one are yet. If we had a gathering and a couple asked if they could engage in sexual behaviour infront of you and proceeded to do so, would some of you be offended? (No kids, private venue)

Jaybeee -> RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? (8/11/2010 2:36:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Twoshoes It's abit hard to figure out what to do with exhibitionism. I haven't quite figured out what my limits on that one are yet. If we had a gathering and a couple asked if they could engage in sexual behaviour infront of you and proceeded to do so, would some of you be offended? (No kids, private venue) Well, "sexual behaviour" is one of those dreaded composite phrases, and those are commonly argued about endlessly and needlessly because they're usually so ill-defined. I would ask, "How can behaviour that isn't sex, be sexual? But yes, I'd be offended. Getting down and dirty without even so much as a "Would you like to finish her off?" Such bad manners. :)

LadyConstanze -> RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? (8/11/2010 6:00:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subinchico Would you be disgusted, get excited, have no reaction? Public shoe licking. This inspired by Peon’s question about “have the nerve”. The last two Wednesdays I’ve somehow had 2 different females rest their shod feet on my legs and I’ve licked their shoes and got no reaction until I pointed it out (I start out nonchalantly but then get slightly into it while talking to them). I was surprised, to say the least, that I didn’t get a “ew gross”! It all depends where and when it is done, I must say if you'd just came up to me and started licking my shoe, you would end up with a pointy toe or heal in a place that would make you forget about your desire to lick my shoe... How about manners and asking and making sure it's the appropriate venue for it? First of all you licking my shoe without my explicit permission would REALLY make me angry, I mean what makes you think I want your saliva on my shoes? Second, and that would even be the bigger issue for me, if it was in a vanilla place, it's absolutely disrespectful and highly inappropriate to force others to witness your kink, if it would happen in a restaurant or a coffee shop and there would be young ones around, I would most likely call the manager and complain, if there would be just adults, I possibly would ask (slightly sarcastic) if you need an audience and if you're going to pay the audience since obviously you get off on doing it in public. The same way I would react to teens who's hormones run away with them - "Pack it in, get a room!". In a shoe shop, helping her into the shoes and possibly sneaking a kiss on her shoe or her toe, acceptable if subtle, could be just a sign of affection, but this whole thing about people thinking they got the right to live out their kink in public, they don't really, because their freedom stops where somebody elses freedom starts, and people have the right to not be forced to be confronted with it. Go to a fetish party, nobody's going to mind all the shoe kissing and licking as long as you ask permission first but forcing it into anybody's face, is just not right.

LadyConstanze -> RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? (8/11/2010 6:03:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jaybeee Well, "sexual behaviour" is one of those dreaded composite phrases, and those are commonly argued about endlessly and needlessly because they're usually so ill-defined. I would ask, "How can behaviour that isn't sex, be sexual? But yes, I'd be offended. Getting down and dirty without even so much as a "Would you like to finish her off?" Such bad manners. :) Does everything need to be full blown sex to be sexual? If you think so, you are missing out on a lot of fun!

Jaybeee -> RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? (8/11/2010 6:17:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze quote: ORIGINAL: Jaybeee Well, "sexual behaviour" is one of those dreaded composite phrases, and those are commonly argued about endlessly and needlessly because they're usually so ill-defined. I would ask, "How can behaviour that isn't sex, be sexual? But yes, I'd be offended. Getting down and dirty without even so much as a "Would you like to finish her off?" Such bad manners. :) Does everything need to be full blown sex to be sexual? As opposed to "half blown sex?" Is that where 50% of my spermatozoa are still in my nutsack, the remainder in transit down her throat? quote: If you think so, you are missing out on a lot of fun! I am, but that's in no way down to...whatever you were trying say above. But fear not, I'm in Catch-Up mode. :)

LadyConstanze -> RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? (8/11/2010 6:31:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jaybeee quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze quote: ORIGINAL: Jaybeee Well, "sexual behaviour" is one of those dreaded composite phrases, and those are commonly argued about endlessly and needlessly because they're usually so ill-defined. I would ask, "How can behaviour that isn't sex, be sexual? But yes, I'd be offended. Getting down and dirty without even so much as a "Would you like to finish her off?" Such bad manners. :) Does everything need to be full blown sex to be sexual? As opposed to "half blown sex?" Is that where 50% of my spermatozoa are still in my nutsack, the remainder in transit down her throat? quote: If you think so, you are missing out on a lot of fun! I am, but that's in no way down to...whatever you were trying say above. But fear not, I'm in Catch-Up mode. :) You are just suffering from a cased of DSB (deadly sperm build-up), happens occasionally with males, results are as seen above in your reply, you start thinking with your dick. Never a good idea. Like most women, I'm not interested in your "nutsack" and your tadpoles, so you can go on making pages of magazines stick together or leaving them in tissues, for most of us sexual is slightly different from behaving like a dog who smells a bitch in heat and thinks "sticking it in" is all that counts. I fear catching up won't happen anytime soon, unless you can catch up enough with solitary pleasures. Your hand or your blow up doll might not mind your lack of refinement.

Jaybeee -> RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? (8/11/2010 7:06:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze quote: ORIGINAL: Jaybeee quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze quote: ORIGINAL: Jaybeee Well, "sexual behaviour" is one of those dreaded composite phrases, and those are commonly argued about endlessly and needlessly because they're usually so ill-defined. I would ask, "How can behaviour that isn't sex, be sexual? But yes, I'd be offended. Getting down and dirty without even so much as a "Would you like to finish her off?" Such bad manners. :) Does everything need to be full blown sex to be sexual? As opposed to "half blown sex?" Is that where 50% of my spermatozoa are still in my nutsack, the remainder in transit down her throat? quote: If you think so, you are missing out on a lot of fun! I am, but that's in no way down to...whatever you were trying say above. But fear not, I'm in Catch-Up mode. :) You are just suffering from a cased of DSB (deadly sperm build-up), happens occasionally with males, results are as seen above in your reply, you start thinking with your dick. Never a good idea. Like most women, I'm not interested in your "nutsack" and your tadpoles, so you can go on making pages of magazines stick together or leaving them in tissues, for most of us sexual is slightly different from behaving like a dog who smells a bitch in heat and thinks "sticking it in" is all that counts. I fear catching up won't happen anytime soon, unless you can catch up enough with solitary pleasures. Your hand or your blow up doll might not mind your lack of refinement. (shakes head disappointedly) Avi files!! Paper-based porn is so 90's, dear girl!!

Steponme73 -> RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? (8/11/2010 1:55:00 PM)
I think that I have to go along with Lady Constanze on this one. I think she makes a very vital point and a very good one. What you do behind closed doors...does not necessarily become something you do in front of closed doors. Even though I am a fan of caring for a Lady's feet and shoes, I would never do something that might embarass her. That is not cool.

LadyConstanze -> RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? (8/15/2010 12:33:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jaybeee quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze quote: ORIGINAL: Jaybeee quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze quote: ORIGINAL: Jaybeee Well, "sexual behaviour" is one of those dreaded composite phrases, and those are commonly argued about endlessly and needlessly because they're usually so ill-defined. I would ask, "How can behaviour that isn't sex, be sexual? But yes, I'd be offended. Getting down and dirty without even so much as a "Would you like to finish her off?" Such bad manners. :) Does everything need to be full blown sex to be sexual? As opposed to "half blown sex?" Is that where 50% of my spermatozoa are still in my nutsack, the remainder in transit down her throat? quote: If you think so, you are missing out on a lot of fun! I am, but that's in no way down to...whatever you were trying say above. But fear not, I'm in Catch-Up mode. :) You are just suffering from a cased of DSB (deadly sperm build-up), happens occasionally with males, results are as seen above in your reply, you start thinking with your dick. Never a good idea. Like most women, I'm not interested in your "nutsack" and your tadpoles, so you can go on making pages of magazines stick together or leaving them in tissues, for most of us sexual is slightly different from behaving like a dog who smells a bitch in heat and thinks "sticking it in" is all that counts. I fear catching up won't happen anytime soon, unless you can catch up enough with solitary pleasures. Your hand or your blow up doll might not mind your lack of refinement. (shakes head disappointedly) Avi files!! Paper-based porn is so 90's, dear girl!! Being brain dead is so OUT, but yet you are still posting, so there must be a life after your facilities left you, btw not my problem if you can't afford porn printed on paper, I guess being a jerk doesn't pay all that well

LadyConstanze -> RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? (8/15/2010 12:37:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Steponme73 I think that I have to go along with Lady Constanze on this one. I think she makes a very vital point and a very good one. What you do behind closed doors...does not necessarily become something you do in front of closed doors. Even though I am a fan of caring for a Lady's feet and shoes, I would never do something that might embarass her. That is not cool. Thanks, I am actually a fan of having my feet and shoes cared for, I just don't think it is cool to shove it into anybody's face. There's a time and a place for everything, if I can only get my kicks while offending somebody else, I think there is something wrong with me. Respect goes both ways.

PeonForHer -> RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? (8/15/2010 12:45:16 PM)
Ah go on, Lady C. Tell your story. It's a hoot - it bears repeating! [;)]

LadyConstanze -> RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? (8/15/2010 12:55:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer Ah go on, Lady C. Tell your story. It's a hoot - it bears repeating! [;)] You mean the freak yelling "Mistress" across the street and proceeding to kiss my feet while I was in the company of vanilla colleagues? Or the idiot who met me in one of my fave places, and decided to greet me with kissing my feet (therefore ruined a great restaurant for me)... In both cases I wasn't delighted, 1st case I managed to deflect by handing him a tenner and saying "Alright, you won your bet, you embarrassed me", 2nd case - not dared to go back and never will meet anybody from here in a place where they do know me!

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