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i miss her - 8/6/2010 8:07:16 AM   
WhipStich81


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Status: offline 		i knew i was wrong for how i behaved here last week.i was very hurt my domme left me. i said rude things about her and other people here. i am sorry. i want her back. eventho people here said i wont find a domme easy i found one here very soon and im under consideration. if i can have my old domme i will not serve the new one. she blocked my profile so i cant sned mail and she block a new one i made. she changed her number and the gates gaurds to her house will not let me in anymore. i sent a letter and they were returned with a refusal stamp. i dont know what to do. help plesse
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RE: i miss her - 8/6/2010 8:16:23 PM   
DarkSteven


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RE: i miss her - 8/6/2010 8:19:01 PM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		Take this as a lesson, a hard learned one... value people whom you care for while you have the chance to do so. And I do not mean by buying a St Andrew's cross, but by showing them they are important to you...

I hope your future relationship goes better for you....

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RE: i miss her - 8/6/2010 8:35:11 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		dude, move on.

She has.

Really, move on or before you know it she'll be hitting you with a restraining order.

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RE: i miss her - 8/6/2010 8:46:09 PM   
gungadin09


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Status: offline 		It will be okay. i know it doesn't seem like it now. But it will be okay, eventually. We all do stupid things from time to time. Go home and cry, get drunk, obsess a little bit, whatever. Accept that it's over. It will hurt. But, you will be okay, in time.

pam

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RE: i miss her - 8/6/2010 8:47:42 PM   
xXsoumisXx


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WhipStich81

i knew i was wrong for how i behaved here last week.i was very hurt my domme left me. i said rude things about her and other people here. i am sorry. i want her back. eventho people here said i wont find a domme easy i found one here very soon and im under consideration. if i can have my old domme i will not serve the new one. she blocked my profile so i cant sned mail and she block a new one i made. she changed her number and the gates gaurds to her house will not let me in anymore. i sent a letter and they were returned with a refusal stamp. i dont know what to do. help plesse



I wonder how much longer you will be under consideration.

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RE: i miss her - 8/6/2010 9:11:24 PM   
CynthiaWVirginia


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Status: offline 		Sometimes the word goodbye...is final.  I am saying this kindly, not trying to cause you more pain, but you burned your bridges behind you.  It is time to move forward and stop looking back. 
 
Grieve for what is lost to you, but don't make things worse by stalking her.  There are anti-stalking laws now, and I wouldn't want you to get yourself into deep trouble. 
 
For your sake, I hope that the one who has you under consideration doesn't read this:
quote:

i want her back. eventho people here said i wont find a domme easy i found one here very soon and im under consideration. if i can have my old domme i will not serve the new one.

If I read something like what you just wrote, I would think you needed time to heal before getting into another D/s relationship. 
 
I wouldn't want to feel like second best.
 
Be good to this new lady in your life, best wishes to you both. 

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RE: i miss her - 8/6/2010 9:17:13 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		You want her back, but not so much that you didn't go hunting for someone new right away, huh?

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RE: i miss her - 8/6/2010 9:21:12 PM   
wittynamehere


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Status: offline 		OP: Bullshit cry for attention. Let me guess, you're into public humiliation, degradation, and being made to feel unloved.

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RE: i miss her - 8/6/2010 9:23:04 PM   
domiguy


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Status: offline 		Dude, you have got to try harder.

DId John Hinkley give up when Jodie Foster would not respond to his advances? Hell no, he tried to assassinate a President.

After learning of the depths of his devotion towards her, Jodie fell madly in love with him and to this day they are still living happily together.

You have got to go big or stay home.

I believe it was the Moody Blues who best summed it up in the lyrics of their song...."I know you're out there somewhere."

"And to those who lack the courage
And say it's dangerous to try
Well they just don't know
That love eternal will not be denied."

I am expecting big things from you.


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RE: i miss her - 8/6/2010 9:24:51 PM   
Bobanna


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Status: offline 		I'm gagagagoing to sta sta stutttter, when I say sta sta stalker ...
Dont stalk.  Its Illegal
Bo.

< Message edited by Bobanna -- 8/6/2010 9:25:55 PM >

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RE: i miss her - 8/6/2010 9:30:24 PM   
Zevar


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WhipStich81

i knew i was wrong for how i behaved here last week.i was very hurt my domme left me. i said rude things about her and other people here. i am sorry. i want her back. eventho people here said i wont find a domme easy i found one here very soon and im under consideration. if i can have my old domme i will not serve the new one. she blocked my profile so i cant sned mail and she block a new one i made. she changed her number and the gates gaurds to her house will not let me in anymore. i sent a letter and they were returned with a refusal stamp. i dont know what to do. help plesse


Greetings whipstich81

Facing the results of your consequences is what it sounds like you have described herein your entry. While I can “hear your emotional distress” I also sense that you need to learn a valuable lesson regarding dealing with speaking only that which you know will return to turn full circle and NOT bring to your doorstep sorrow, regret, distress and moreover a sense of personal defeat that is not ever pleasant when it arrives to teach a lesson needed.

You claim you would not serve this new Domme if the former Domme chooses to allow you contact. I have a suspicion that you are trying to fill a place within yourself or either feed your ego with that which is not a healthy choice in the long term. If you truly wanted to serve this Domme than why do you cling to the next Domme who comes along prior to giving yourself time to regain your composure and re-group on all levels?

Frankly speaking, I question the sincerity of your motive. Be honest! If you really respected this former Domme who has made her choices based on your conduct then perhaps you might have at the least given yourself the time to properly lay to rest that which will only follow you into this next situation that you speak of if you do not make better choices this time around.

Usurping the authority of the one you claim to serve indeed results in an outcome that is usually indicative of the fruits of disobedience. Choices always produce Consequences!

Question(s): You are doing what with this new Domme? Under what? Consideration for what? Will you do the same to this new Domme that you did to the former Domme? Time to refrain from making promises that have no substance, aye?

Put forth your best effort. Let GO!

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RE: i miss her - 8/6/2010 9:30:57 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		As I told you then, I'll tell you now.  One of the best indicators of how badly a person can act toward others is when they cut ties with someone.  I won't speak for anyone else, but it would be a cold day in hell before I would let you back in My life after the way you acted.

Best of luck with the new one who now has you under consideration.  She's going to need it.  Whoever it is, they must not read the forums.


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RE: i miss her - 8/7/2010 1:25:47 AM   
crazyml


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WhipStich81
i dont know what to do. help plesse


Seriously? You're not getting some sense that perhaps your feelings aren't shared by your ex dom? Would it help if she hired a plane to trail a giant sign saying something like "Fuck off you whackjob"?

It's over. No really. No need for Columbo on this one. It's over.

Now, onto the bit about being under consideration - Are you fucking insane???? Or perhaps that's what someone needs to say to the person who put you under consideration. Seriously... if you really are stupid enough to believe that "Yeah, since we split up and I was such a cock about it I've found another person to put me under consideration, but I'll dump them if you agree to take me back" is going to work with your ex or with the rather undiscerning person who has you under consideration then, really, I don't know if there is anything that anyone can do to help you.

You need to take a big step back. Consider why your previous relationship went wrong, consider your behaviour since and sort your shit out.

Good luck


[Edit to fix an almost Zavar-esque abuse of grammar]

< Message edited by crazyml -- 8/7/2010 1:33:05 AM >

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RE: i miss her - 8/7/2010 1:31:15 AM   
crazyml


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Zevar,

I hope you don't mind my asking...

Is English your first language?

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RE: i miss her - 8/7/2010 1:50:53 AM   
lally2


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quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

Dude, you have got to try harder.

DId John Hinkley give up when Jodie Foster would not respond to his advances? Hell no, he tried to assassinate a President.

After learning of the depths of his devotion towards her, Jodie fell madly in love with him and to this day they are still living happily together.

You have got to go big or stay home.

I believe it was the Moody Blues who best summed it up in the lyrics of their song...."I know you're out there somewhere."

"And to those who lack the courage
And say it's dangerous to try
Well they just don't know
That love eternal will not be denied."

I am expecting big things from you.



youre so evil Domi -

to the OP.  you need to get a grip.  she's had to change her number, change the locks on her gate, she's blocked you and returned youre mail.  youre stalking her and if you persist she's going to have an injunction put on you.  stop! its OVER.

seriously look at what youre doing.  its not a healthy situation.

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RE: i miss her - 8/7/2010 2:45:30 AM   
WhipStich81


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Status: offline 		im not stalking her. im not sitting outside her house or what ever u think i am doing. i want to say sorry and convince her to collar me again. when i did go to her house once her dumb ass bf stopped me and told me to leave. the next time he threatened to beat my ass if i came around again. i threaten noone so he will be the one in trouble not me. i dont see what wrong with asking for a second chance.

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RE: i miss her - 8/7/2010 2:54:21 AM   
WhipStich81


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Status: offline 		i suppose u expet me to sit around an rot. i have needs

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RE: i miss her - 8/7/2010 3:15:06 AM   
CynthiaWVirginia


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WhipStich81

i suppose u expet me to sit around an rot. i have needs


Everyone has needs.  Some of us have patience and learn to grow from our mistakes, and can put "needs" onto a back burner until the time is right.
 
It seems that you feel the need to show up here to show your ex how easy it was to replace her, and to show everyone who doubted that you could do what you said you would do.  It doesn't change anything though. 
 
I hoped you would have a change of heart and...grow.  Instead, like a toddler, you are racing off to have your needs met NOW. 
 
(I am not insulting you by comparing your actions with a toddler's, because you stated in another thread that you expect a Domme to be like your mommy and take care of all of your needs, or something to that effect.)

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RE: i miss her - 8/7/2010 3:17:18 AM   
lally2


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Status: offline 		this isnt ALL about you already.  she's made herself as clear as she can and actually, youre attitude here is explaining alot about why she's backed off and has closed all avenues of contact with you.  she doesnt want to give you a second chance.

as for wanting you to rot, what makes you think that anyone here has invested that much negative energy on you.  you asked a question and people are telling you its over.  why wont you see that.

and you are stalking her.  this thread is all about you stalking her.

look at it this way.  boot on other foot.  you didnt want contact from someone and they kept on and on, ignoring youre wishes on the matter, turning up at youre door, ringing you up until youre forced to change youre number.  have you even thought how inconvenient that is for her, she's had to tell everyone in her life that her number has changed.  she did that for a reason...... you......!

how much more of a message do you need.





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