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RE: i miss her - 8/7/2010 3:18:36 AM   
WhipStich81


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Status: offline 		i still see nothing wrong with that. there are daddy doms so why not mommy mistress? everbody sadi i would not find another domme and i did. just stating facts.

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RE: i miss her - 8/7/2010 3:25:29 AM   
phoenixmoonn13


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WhipStich81

i suppose u expet me to sit around an rot. i have needs


but your needs should be those of your dom and you need should only be to please her and no others, if you are good she may allow you some of what you enjoy but it is only at her bidding.

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RE: i miss her - 8/7/2010 3:28:10 AM   
lally2


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Status: offline 		whipstick,  on youre profile you call youreself a true and real submissive - all im getting is what you need and what you want and that you want this domme to take you back.  i dont see anything here or on youre profile that suggests anything other than youre a guy who WANTS and cant understand why he cant GET what he wants.

you think its all about you and it really isnt.

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RE: i miss her - 8/7/2010 3:30:19 AM   
BonesFromAsh


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Status: offline 		Saying you're sorry is easy...just words. Most children learn from a very early age that saying "I'm sorry" is usually enough to smooth ruffled feathers.

And then they grow up. They learn those two words mean nothing if there's no lesson learned from the experience. They also come to realize being sorry isn't always enough to change a person's mind.

What I find interesting is that throughout this thread you mention how you feel, what you've done, your wants (not to be confused with needs)...everything you. Much like someone who hasn't moved past the "let me smooth the ruffled feathers" stage.

And then you say you've replaced this woman you seem to so badly want back....and so quickly too.

What exactly did you learn from this experience that would keep you from repeating this scenario with someone new?

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RE: i miss her - 8/7/2010 3:37:14 AM   
DarkSteven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WhipStich81

im not stalking her. im not sitting outside her house or what ever u think i am doing. i want to say sorry and convince her to collar me again. when i did go to her house once her dumb ass bf stopped me and told me to leave. the next time he threatened to beat my ass if i came around again. i threaten noone so he will be the one in trouble not me. i dont see what wrong with asking for a second chance.


I read the above post and it says to me "I am willing to apologize if it means that she will collar me again."  Nowhere does it say that you want to apologize because you hurt her, or that it is the proper thing to do.  And note the anger you hold towards her bf.  To you, he's nothing but an obstacle to what you want, not a person that you would need to relate with if you were involved with her again.

I'm not a legal expert but you stating that he would be in trouble instead of you ignores harassment and trespassing charges.  Give it a miss before you get a restraining order filed against you, that would be really hard to explain should you run across a woman who checks you out.

You already HAD a second chance.  She excused your first outbreak, and expected you back to apologize. Several days later, when you should have calmed down, you came by a second time and told her off a second time.  Then you followed her here to collarme and trashed her, even when told you were out of line by everyone.  That was your third strike.

MissA is a heckuva lady - smart, gorgeous, and mature for her years.  She deserves better.

quote:

ORIGINAL: WhipStich81

i suppose u expet me to sit around an rot. i have needs


And this sums you up perfectly.  Your needs, you.  All about you.

I'm not sure what the cure for narcissism is, but you would be well advised to look into it.

And also - it seems like your anger lasted about two weeks.  That concerns me - I think of an hour or two to be healthy. 

Good luck with the next Domme.  Treat her well.




< Message edited by DarkSteven -- 8/7/2010 3:39:16 AM >

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

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RE: i miss her - 8/7/2010 3:58:54 AM   
lally2


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Status: offline 		i missed that thread, which one was it -

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So all I have to do in order to serve him, is to work out exactly how improbable he is, feed that figure into the finite improbability generator, give him a fresh cup of really hot tea ... and turn him on!

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RE: i miss her - 8/7/2010 4:19:28 AM   
DarkSteven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lally2

i missed that thread, which one was it -


Original thread: http://www.collarchat.com/m_3321742/mpage_1/tm.htm

His intro thread was evidently yanked.  But if you just check his other posts, you'll get a good picture of him.


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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: i miss her - 8/7/2010 5:30:56 AM   
WhipStich81


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Status: offline 		you are easily 2 times hr age maybe even 3. should you really be talking boiut her like that? i said sorry in my firwst post on this thread. and i am sorry under no additional circumzstances. i was a jerkoff and thats that. i want to say sorry even if she doesnt want me back. and so what if i dont like her bf? i wasnt in a relationship of any kind with him so it doesnt matter if i get along with him or not

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RE: i miss her - 8/7/2010 5:39:10 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		You've said it, you need to drop it and move on, your behavior to date will take a long time to get over, if ever.  

let it sit, say no more, and let it soak.  go elsewhere.

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RE: i miss her - 8/7/2010 6:02:21 AM   
sirsholly


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WhipStich81

im not stalking her. im not sitting outside her house or what ever u think i am doing. i want to say sorry and convince her to collar me again. when i did go to her house once her dumb ass bf stopped me and told me to leave. the next time he threatened to beat my ass if i came around again. i threaten noone so he will be the one in trouble not me.
my guess is if you show up a third time you will be facing charges for stalking.

Listen...it is over. Move on.


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RE: i miss her - 8/7/2010 6:03:12 AM   
WhipStich81


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Status: offline 		that was really helpful

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RE: i miss her - 8/7/2010 6:05:21 AM   
sirsholly


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WhipStich81

that was really helpful
Ron gave you good advice. Just what is it you are hoping to hear?


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RE: i miss her - 8/7/2010 6:47:29 AM   
DarkSteven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WhipStich81

you are easily 2 times hr age maybe even 3. should you really be talking boiut her like that? i said sorry in my firwst post on this thread. and i am sorry under no additional circumzstances. i was a jerkoff and thats that. i want to say sorry even if she doesnt want me back. and so what if i dont like her bf? i wasnt in a relationship of any kind with him so it doesnt matter if i get along with him or not


I can say that I consider a woman to be smart, gorgeous, and mature no matter what her age.  Hell, I can say it about an underage child and it's still okay.

Your words are all right but the sentiment isn't there.  You're only saying those things because you see that as a means to getting what you want. 

Where are your ethics, your sense of what is right and wrong, your concern over others?  You actually concern me with some signs of being psychopathic - concern only for yourself.


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"You women....

The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: i miss her - 8/7/2010 7:08:30 AM   
Zevar


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quote:

[Edit to fix an almost Zavar-esque abuse of grammar]

< Message edited by crazyml -- 8/7/2010 1:33:05


Nótaí go bhfuil ábhar as fanfaidh ach amháin mar a mí-oiriúnach

quote:

ORIGINAL: crazyml

Zevar,

I hope you don't mind my asking...

Is English your first language?



Cad é do cheist fei'tl a dhéanamh leis an ábhar seo a snáithe?

< Message edited by Zevar -- 8/7/2010 7:14:27 AM >

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RE: i miss her - 8/7/2010 7:10:27 AM   
jujubeeMB


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven
Where are your ethics, your sense of what is right and wrong, your concern over others?  You actually concern me with some signs of being psychopathic - concern only for yourself.


I'm going to agree with this. OP, the evidence that it's over is HUGE. If you make any move - no matter what it is - towards your ex-Domme, you are officially crossing the line into legally punishable harassment. That much is clear as day. You cannot have a second chance. You cannot have your "needs met" with this person who has made it vividly clear that the relationship is over.

Drop. It. And. Move. On.

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RE: i miss her - 8/7/2010 7:11:38 AM   
angelikaJ


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Status: offline 		Whipstich,

You wanted something she could never give you: her heart. You were dishonest with her and yourself in that regard and you were unhappy.

You still do not have enough distance to give you the perspective of the entire picture.
It isn't just the way you behaved that gave her no choice but to end it (which had nothing to do with the money but was all about your behavior).

It was the way you conducted yourself here.
You trashed her.
For pages.

And when she talked of an injury, you said that you hoped her arm fell off.

"I'm sorry"... when you were ready to offer it, was too little, too late.

My grandmother once told me that there are somethings that once said that even God can't take away.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>



You want a "mommy domme".

You are still angry that she wasn't that to you, even though it wasn't what had been arranged.

At least you are clear on what your needs are now.
Is your new Domme a mommy? Because if she isn't you are going to be unhappy. You are going to resent not getting what you want, just like before and it will end badly.

If you still want to serve this new domme, (provided she still wants to you to serve you), then if I were you I would make certain I was clear in understanding what was expected of me.
And if you can't meet those expectations with a genuinely joyful heart then you should express your gratitude and ask to be released.

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RE: i miss her - 8/7/2010 7:32:29 AM   
WinsomeDefiance


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Status: offline 		Wow. You really do have a high opinion of yourself. It is pretty amazing really.

Let's highlight this again, because it is so amazing it bears repeating:

You throw a fit over her asking you to contribute (contribute, not buy) a piece of dungeon equipment that you asked for, YOU, not her.

You storm out in a temper, after saying disrespectful thingss to her.

You come back, days later, and continue to berate her.

She releases you.

You come here on these boards and not only disrespect her publicly, but speak badly and unkindly about her here on these boards.

You are told by her, she's done with you.

She has to change her phone number.

She has blocked you here, not only on this name but the new one you made to harass her with.

Her boyfriend has to tell you to leave her alone when you show up, not once but twice.

She has returned your postage several times.

The guards at her gate are now telling you to stay away.

Seriously, weird little man, you need to be arrested if you keep this up.

And yes, it is my opinion that you could happily rot.




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RE: i miss her - 8/7/2010 7:34:18 AM   
Bobanna


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WhipStich81

i suppose u expet me to sit around an rot. i have needs


I believe that Mark David Chapman had needs too ... Are you reading " A Catcher in the Rye" by any chance?

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RE: i miss her - 8/7/2010 9:05:19 AM   
juliaoceania


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WhipStich81

that was really helpful


Actually that was the most positive response you received. He is saying that perhaps if you let some time go by, let the anger and the hurt dissolve some, then she MIGHT accept your apology. You sound like someone that wants an easy fix to your fuck up. Well, this is the real adult world where our fuck ups don't always fix easily, and sometimes they never do.

You are one of the most childish posters I have seen on this site, and that is saying something. I do not say this to attack you, I say this so that perhaps you might POSSIBLY grow up a little

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RE: i miss her - 8/7/2010 9:33:54 AM   
domiguy


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Status: offline 		WhipStich81,

My brother, ignore these jaded and calloused posters and posers. They are not romantics, they know nothing of the ways of the heart.


From Alfred Lord Tennyson wrote...

"I hold it true, whate'er befall;
I feel it, when I sorrow most;
'Tis better to have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all."

Tennyson was a moron.

I hold it true, whate,er befall;
'tis better to have loved and lost
and then recapture her love through force, by violating her privacy and winning her back by threatening the things she holds most dear
Than never to have loved at all.


Women love lil' subby dudes that will go to the end of the world to prove their worth.

You need to think outside of the box. You know she wants you back. It's got to be the work of that meddling boyfriend. He is the one filling her head with all of this nonsense. He must be dealt with immediately. And by "dealt with," I mean you really need to get him out of the picture. And by "getting him out of the picture" I think you probably should consider shooting him with a poison dart.

Then and only then will she realize that you are in fact the man of her dreams.

Quit being such a pussy and start doing the Lord's work. True love knows no barriers, it shall not be denied.

You are Lord Byron, who was famously described by Lady Caroline Lamb as "mad, bad and dangerous to know". You are Shah Jahan, the grief struck emperor that constructed the Taj Mahal when his third wife, Mumtaz Mahal, died during childbirth.

You are a warrior that has come to conquer the heart of your one true love.

Locks, changed profiles and numbers, boyfriends, guard dogs and restraining orders shall never stop true love.

Go get her, tiger!!! I am rooting for you!









< Message edited by domiguy -- 8/7/2010 9:35:34 AM >

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