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sweetsub1957 -> RE: i miss her (8/7/2010 10:31:20 AM)

Okay, I'm just going to say this all in one post:
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ORIGINAL: WhipStich81
i knew i was wrong for how i behaved here last week.i was very hurt my domme left me. i said rude things about her and other people here. i am sorry.
And you think She wasn't hurt after you insulted Her in public?
i want her back. eventho people here said i wont find a domme easy i found one here very soon and im under consideration. if i can have my old domme i will not serve the new one.
So are you saying you want Her back so badly that you ran out and found another one in less than a week just to prove a point? So in reality She must not have meant that much to you in the first place AND you were just using the new Domme to try and manipulate the previous one. So you've already hurt the previous Domme and now you will be hurting the new One too. Well now, that's very mature....NOT.
she blocked my profile so i cant sned mail and she block a new one i made. she changed her number and the gates gaurds to her house will not let me in anymore. i sent a letter and they were returned with a refusal stamp.
Can you blame Her?
i dont know what to do. help plesse
Move on. She did. Face it, you fucked up.

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ORIGINAL: WhipStich81
im not stalking her. im not sitting outside her house or what ever u think i am doing.
But are you sending Her multiple cmails, calling Her, going to Her house & sending Her letters? You must be or how else would you know She blocked both your profiles & your phone number, sent your letter back unread, and her gate guards won't let you in? You ARE stalking Her. If you keep it up, She'll slap a restraining order on your ass.
i want to say sorry and convince her to collar me again.
So you don't really want to apologize because you are sorry, but only because you want that collar again. It's not all about you, you know.
when i did go to her house once her dumb ass bf stopped me and told me to leave. the next time he threatened to beat my ass if i came around again.
Take the hint and leave Her alone. And refer to my previous comment about the restraining order.
i threaten noone so he will be the one in trouble not me. i dont see what wrong with asking for a second chance.
You must threaten Her or Her b/f wouldn't be threatening to beat your ass if you don't stop coming around.

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ORIGINAL: WhipStich81
i suppose u expet me to sit around an rot. i have needs
Again, it's not all about you. We all have needs. So beat off if you have to.

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ORIGINAL: WhipStich81
i still see nothing wrong with that. there are daddy doms so why not mommy mistress? everbody sadi i would not find another domme and i did. just stating facts.
Again, you just ran right out to look for another Domme to prove a point. She must not have meant that much to you or you wouldn't have run out and found another One so soon.

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ORIGINAL: WhipStich81
you are easily 2 times hr age maybe even 3. should you really be talking boiut her like that? i said sorry in my firwst post on this thread. and i am sorry under no additional circumzstances. i was a jerkoff and thats that. i want to say sorry even if she doesnt want me back. and so what if i dont like her bf? i wasnt in a relationship of any kind with him so it doesnt matter if i get along with him or not
First of all, He doesn't have to be within a certain age to say what He wants about another person. Secondly, in a previous post, you already said "i want to say sorry and convince her to collar me again," so there is an additional circumstance. The reason you'd apologize is to get that collar again. Apparently it's not because you're truly sorry. Also, if you want to be around a woman & expect Her to let you, it does matter if you can be civil at least to Her b/f. That's just the way it goes. Women do not like it when people are rude to/can't stand/insult their boyfriends.


I know you probably think I'm a mean bitch, but that also is.......just the way it goes.

~sweetsub~



LadyHibiscus -> RE: i miss her (8/7/2010 10:37:29 AM)

I went and hunted down the OP's other stuff---the stuff that didn't get pulled. Wowser. How did she put up with you for three YEARS?

I'm rather surprised she hasn't filed a restraining order already.



sweetsub1957 -> RE: i miss her (8/7/2010 10:57:05 AM)

~FR~
Then maybe I wasn't such a "mean bitch" after all, but just blunt. [;)]

~sweetsub~



LadyHibiscus -> RE: i miss her (8/7/2010 11:00:45 AM)


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ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957

~FR~
Then maybe I wasn't such a "mean bitch" after all, but just blunt. [;)]

~sweetsub~


I really have a hard time thinking of you as a mean bitch, ever! And this guy's consistent behaviour really speaks for itself.



sweetsub1957 -> RE: i miss her (8/7/2010 11:04:13 AM)

~FR~
Thanks LadyH. *hugs hugs hugs* I try not to be bitchy, but sometimes I am very BLUNT. [;)]

~sweetsub~



AlwaysLisa -> RE: i miss her (8/7/2010 11:07:20 AM)

whipstitch81...

I read this thread through (do I get a medal?) and what I saw was an adult, yes 28 is an adult..stomping his feet in a temper tantrum because he didn't get what he wanted.   I am asking this next question, not as a pry into your life, but rather to see if maybe a self realization will follow.

Have you thought that maybe, you weren't submissive at all?   Perhaps your thing is to dominate, rather then beg.  Just an observation :)   That way, you can make all the demands you want to and with the right woman, they might be met, rather then have the relationship go south.   Of course, if your going to dominate, you need to pull yourself up by the "big boy" panties and assume some responsibility before you start barking orders.

Lisa



thishereboi -> RE: i miss her (8/7/2010 11:21:07 AM)

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i dont know what to do. help plesse


Ask the new domme who has you under consideration to come here and read this. I am sure she should be able to solve part of your problem.



sweetsub1957 -> RE: i miss her (8/7/2010 11:25:53 AM)

~FR~
Of course, even if he is really Dominant, stomping feet and throwing temper tantrums is not very attractive and not very respectable.

~sweetsub~



domiguy -> RE: i miss her (8/7/2010 11:28:59 AM)

You are not romantics like the op and myself.



juliaoceania -> RE: i miss her (8/7/2010 11:30:27 AM)


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ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957

~FR~
Of course, even if he is really Dominant, stomping feet and throwing temper tantrums is not very attractive and not very respectable.

~sweetsub~


He is a male sub, and what does orientation have to do with anything?



LadyHibiscus -> RE: i miss her (8/7/2010 11:54:56 AM)


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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania


quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957

~FR~
Of course, even if he is really Dominant, stomping feet and throwing temper tantrums is not very attractive and not very respectable.

~sweetsub~


He is a male sub, and what does orientation have to do with anything?



They mean that he doesn't seem very good at the whole submission thing. Which IMO does not mean that a person is of necessity dominant.



sweetsub1957 -> RE: i miss her (8/7/2010 12:11:39 PM)

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania


quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957

~FR~
Of course, even if he is really Dominant, stomping feet and throwing temper tantrums is not very attractive and not very respectable.

~sweetsub~


He is a male sub, and what does orientation have to do with anything?

It was a fast reply in answer to Always Lisa, who suggested he might not be submissive at all, but Dominant. And, as a matter of fact, like LadyH said he does not seem that good at the submission thing. To be more accurate/precise, I should have said "Whether he's submissive, Dominant, or even vanilla, stomping feet and throwing temper tantrums is neither very attractive nor very respectable."

~sweetsub~

~edited to add a thought~



pogo4pres -> RE: i miss her (8/7/2010 12:13:01 PM)

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ORIGINAL: WhipStich81

i still see nothing wrong with that. there are daddy doms so why not mommy mistress? everbody sadi i would not find another domme and i did. just stating facts.



Well well, time for me to post and I am going to be very blunt about it, so for those that do not like profanity stop here before I offend you   ;-)



DUDE MAN THE F--K UP, ADMIT YOU (AND ONLY YOU) SCREWED THE POOCH.   Having said that, I have read your other posts in other threads. and you are easily the most self aggrandizing P.O.S. I've seen on these threads.  You take Steven wrong and do not admit it, so I'll repeat,  Miss A seems very wise beyond her years, and most certainly is beautiful.  Now I do not know Miss A in any fashion other than her profile, and her posting here.  I say as many others have she deserves WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYY better than you.



DarkSteven -> RE: i miss her (8/7/2010 12:41:06 PM)

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ORIGINAL: thishereboi

quote:

i dont know what to do. help plesse


Ask the new domme who has you under consideration to come here and read this. I am sure she should be able to solve part of your problem.



boi, you're on a roll!  That's the second deep laugh I've gotten today from your posts!



thishereboi -> RE: i miss her (8/7/2010 1:00:06 PM)

Thanks, making people smile is my favorite thing to do[:)]



kiwisub12 -> RE: i miss her (8/7/2010 1:02:58 PM)

Domi  -  i have lost all respect for you as a "real and true dom , and general bad arse" - because you can quote the Moody Blues!



whom i love but don't typically associate with internet pricks. [:D]



AlwaysLisa -> RE: i miss her (8/7/2010 1:08:57 PM)

juliaoceana,

I simply meant if your going to slap a label on yourself, give it your best shot, or it's just lip service.  I don't personally care what his orientation is, only that he is not being true to himself by what I have read here and perhaps he would be happier after some soul searching :)   

Dominant or submissive..first one must be adult enough to admit their mistakes and stop blaming others. 

Lisa



crazyml -> RE: i miss her (8/7/2010 4:10:40 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Zevar

quote:

[Edit to fix an almost Zavar-esque abuse of grammar]

< Message edited by crazyml -- 8/7/2010 1:33:05


Nótaí go bhfuil ábhar as fanfaidh ach amháin mar a mí-oiriúnach


Aww... to be fair, I was a) being light hearted and b) being factually accurate.

You see what I'd originally typed (in haste) was "is going to successfully work with your ex". Which is a grammatical error - since "successfully" is wholly redundant. This is somewhat akin to a grammatical mistake you seem to be prone to...

"Facing the results of your consequences is what it sounds like you have described herein your entry."

In the sentence above, there are two fairly crucial errors - the first "results of you consequences" ... you mean results of your actions, or consequences of your actions. "results of your consequences" is more or less the same as "consequences of your results" - it's nonsensical. Secondly, I'm not sure you quite understand the meaning of "herein" - You made the same error on another thread. "Herein" means "within this thing or document" - so "herein your entry" means "within this thing your entry" which isn't grammatically correct. You'd have been better not using "herein" in this case. Or, if you wanted to refer to the contents of his entry later in your reply, you may have opted for "therein" (eg "On reading your entry, I see you have clearly described the consequences of your actions therein" (It seems rather stilted and archaic to me - but you evidently prefer to write in an archaic style - and thats fine by me!).

So, my cheeky aside wasn't just a cheeky one, it was kinda sorta factually true.

That isn't to say that I don't enjoy your posts - I really do, you've a very very different perspective to me and I really do strongly disagree with some of your views but your views are clearly heartfelt and based on a lot of thought, and a chap has to respect that - Even if your writing style isn't to my taste.

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ORIGINAL: crazyml

Zevar,

I hope you don't mind my asking...

Is English your first language?



Cad é do cheist fei'tl a dhéanamh leis an ábhar seo a snáithe?


Well, I think it's germane because it has a bearing on how I read and react to your posts - I'm interested in what you have to say, and was curious about whether your style was a preference or a consequence of English being a second language.

So, you're a fellow Irishman for real then?! Excellent! Which part of the auld country are you from, I was born in Swords.

I've no doubt you wont, but please don't let my misgivings about your command of the English language in anyway inhibit your contributions - as I said earlier - I enjoy learning about your very different perspective.

with the very kindest of regards

ML



reynardfox -> RE: i miss her (8/7/2010 4:42:50 PM)

pathetic. Move on.



ExSteelAgain -> RE: i miss her (8/7/2010 5:22:00 PM)

"gate guards to her house"?

You were in over your head.



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