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MistressLavinia -> RE: i miss her (8/8/2010 9:16:49 PM)
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As I am always honest and it may hurt some, It is not my intention, but here goes once again.
As I first read this, Not knowing either party, what struck me at first, was the fact you are under consideration. When you truly care about someone as an adult you don't run out and become "under consideration" Forget your wants and needs for a moment, - not as a submissive or dominant -and think, and lets not turn this into subs have feelings, because "we all have feelings" So forget the d/s and as an adult you should have thought before you rebound, "let me sort out my feelings" so I don't put any pressure or any wrong feelings towards the new woman I may be serving. It's not about what's only good for the Dominant, its about proper placement in any relationship. You need to give yourself time after any breakup.
Now what pissed me off to the core was, what you said to Steven. Firstly he's right age matters NOT when you see someone who is beautiful, intelligent and secure mentally. So why did you have to say something to him like you did? I wonder is that your way of stomping your feet looking for attention, is that what you did previously to your Domme? Did you throw rude comments at her, so rude that she had to go to the extremes she did in blocking you? I'm surprised beyond belief how you could be so rude to someone who helped you here and who helps many on this site with sound advice. The same sound advice he gave you, which might just save your ass from jail. You publicly stated things apparently that were wrong you did, then you publicly stated, she blocked you, and changed her phone number. You publicly stated you went there twice. So the advice from everyone was STOP. Why they went out of their way to give you sound advice I'll never know. Because the minute you opened your mouth and spewed out bullshit to Steven, my caring for you ended. I knew at that point, you like to push buttons.
To me, Steven goes out of his way, helping people on these forums in every way possible. For you to be so rude, amazes me. Instead of being a bitchass, you should thank him before someone has you in jail giving you a tube of lube. You see all the advice was, STOP STALKING HER. Yet you still pushed buttons, and I'm not going to lie, my sympathy for your plight blew right away the minute you pissed me off with the message you wrote to DS.
So my final pissed off self, is mad that you even got this far incriminating yourself. Who gives a crap d/s or whatever here, apparently he stalked the woman, interrupted her life, admitted to it, and then threw oil in the pan when he had to give his bitchass remark to Steven, the most respected and well liked person I know, and now the forums are putting up with the bullshit.
I had to almost slap my ownself for feeling sorry for this person for 5 seconds. You stalked her, and are still trying, you tried to mail her, she blocked you, so on an open forum you make a mockery out of your relationship "eventho people here said i wont find a domme easy i found one here very soon and im under consideration. if i can have my old domme i will not serve the new one. she blocked my profile so i cant sned mail and she block a new one i made"
The new one you found, is she from a foreign country? Did she ask to meet you on yahoo? Does she have a website she needs you to visit? Ask her to come evaluate all the responses you got. I just bet if she's truly a real Dominant, she will tell you the same thing all the people with a brain told you - STOP. You see, they told you this because you can wind up in trouble, not your previous Mistress, she did all the right things to stop you. So instead of throwing insults, throw some thank yous. Everyone who told you to stop, gave you the right advice, you asked "i dont know what to do. help plesse" They helped. Move on, and don't ever be disrespectful to someone as good and kind, as the man who gave you advice, not for as long as I am on these forums. He gave you the best advice ever, just what he gives everyone, I trust his advice and him, and you should have thanked him from the start.
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