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RE: Why does Domme shun opportunity for companionship? - 8/13/2010 10:05:35 AM   
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Some folks just don't do the public scene at all.

Others just don't like you, Kevin. It;s a sad fact of life that you can't like everyone and not everyone can like you. Move on. Accept the free attempt at humiliation play and MOVE ON.

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RE: Why does Domme shun opportunity for companionship? - 8/13/2010 10:58:30 AM   
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Well, it wasn't about Kevin. It was in response to Jeffff's post...but again, I'd get in trouble.

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RE: Why does Domme shun opportunity for companionship? - 8/13/2010 11:05:28 AM   
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LOL..... I can take it, but some how I don't think you were worried about me.

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RE: Why does Domme shun opportunity for companionship? - 8/13/2010 12:08:14 PM   
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Nope! :-)

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RE: Why does Domme shun opportunity for companionship? - 8/13/2010 1:01:10 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

FR: having been on the business end of one of Kevin's 'why is this woman behaving like this?' threads I'd assume there was a lot more to this than he is telling.



I thought that also, but decided to give him the benefit of the doubt in my reply.

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RE: Why does Domme shun opportunity for companionship? - 8/13/2010 1:03:35 PM   
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quote:

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LOL..... I can take it, but some how I don't think you were worried about me.



Yea, I think this fear stems from a little closer to home.


Give her a hug for me, will ya Jen?

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RE: Why does Domme shun opportunity for companionship? - 8/13/2010 3:25:50 PM   
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Kevin,

I was thinking: Why don't you stop acting like a headbanger with women, and see how their attitudes changes towards you? I mean: just try thinking of women as people pretty much like you, only with twats instead of todgers. Worth a try, anyway.

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RE: Why does Domme shun opportunity for companionship? - 8/13/2010 3:33:14 PM   
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Kevin, it's because your behavior towards dommes is seriously creepy, and she doesn't want to go anywhere with you.  That's already been stated.  Stop bothering her. 

Almost every time I go to a Munch or a BDSM social event, there are all kinds of people there including other femdoms there laughing and socializing and having a good time.  I'm sure that most of the people who have findomme profiles on here and are using fake pictures anyway don't go to those things, but that's why I DO go to those things, to have a good sociable time with other real people in the scene. 

I mean, duuh.  As a general rule, the folks who want to be friendly and social in the lifestyle go to these things, and the folks who are either more private and solitary OR who are scammers and fakers don't go.  And the people who don't want to go anywhere with a guy who gives them the creeps may tell him to fuck off and die if he keeps bugging them.  How complicated is that to figure out? 


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RE: Why does Domme shun opportunity for companionship? - 8/15/2010 2:02:01 AM   
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No thats the thing im not interested in subbing to Her Period. So whats the bag? i m just inviting her to the BDSM community in Dublin where She lives and where She will find a social outlet. Is there something so terrible about that? im being inclusive and wishing to bring kink minded folk into what is a kink group in Dublin
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RE: Why does Domme shun opportunity for companionship? - 8/15/2010 7:21:29 PM   
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#1- you are probably annoying her. if she doesn't want to go, guess what? she doesn't have to go. #2- ever think that might not be HER idea of a good time? what works for you, may not work for others. #3- your behavior here towards femdoms leaves a lot to be desired, regardless if you are interested in submitting to any of them or not. #4- because apparently, it cannot be stated enough, see point #1.

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RE: Why does Domme shun opportunity for companionship? - 8/15/2010 11:55:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

im being inclusive and wishing to bring kink minded folk into what is a kink group in Dublin

Kevin, the blunt truth of it is that if I were considering going to a kink event and I found out that you were going to be there I would not go as a consequence. Possibly she feels the same way.

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RE: Why does Domme shun opportunity for companionship? - 8/15/2010 11:59:41 PM   
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Yeah, and if he annoyed her as much as he annoys many people here, then her avoidance is to be expected.

quote:

ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

FR: having been on the business end of one of Kevin's 'why is this woman behaving like this?' threads I'd assume there was a lot more to this than he is telling.



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RE: Why does Domme shun opportunity for companionship? - 8/16/2010 6:18:40 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious


quote:

ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

im being inclusive and wishing to bring kink minded folk into what is a kink group in Dublin

Kevin, the blunt truth of it is that if I were considering going to a kink event and I found out that you were going to be there I would not go as a consequence. Possibly she feels the same way.


Poor self-defeating Kevin. Can't we design some special re-education slave boot camp for him?

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RE: Why does Domme shun opportunity for companionship? - 8/16/2010 9:02:41 AM   
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i'd pay the tuition fees if there is such a thing.

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RE: Why does Domme shun opportunity for companionship? - 8/16/2010 9:08:54 AM   
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i'll supply the boot 

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RE: Why does Domme shun opportunity for companionship? - 8/16/2010 11:39:53 AM   
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Hokey doke. Lets not make it about me folks.  I did not pursue Her beyond two times. I have not emailed Her since and dont plan doing so. I know when people are not interested and thats fine. But like i say it s not just me here folks. Lets explore instead why a Domme Woman would shun an opportunity to meet like minded folk in Her own community
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RE: Why does Domme shun opportunity for companionship? - 8/16/2010 11:42:03 AM   
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quote:

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i'll supply the boot 



Hols, that is some generous! But toss in both boots, so you won't be tempted to... well, never mind.

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RE: Why does Domme shun opportunity for companionship? - 8/16/2010 11:49:08 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus


quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly

i'll supply the boot 



Hols, that is some generous! But toss in both boots, so you won't be tempted to fall


here ya go...fixed it for you

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RE: Why does Domme shun opportunity for companionship? - 8/16/2010 11:58:14 AM   
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Dangit Peanut!! I was trying to not jinx her!!

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RE: Why does Domme shun opportunity for companionship? - 8/16/2010 11:58:25 AM   
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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious
Kevin, the blunt truth of it is that if I were considering going to a kink event and I found out that you were going to be there I would not go as a consequence. Possibly she feels the same way.

This is something that I have told the OP on other threads.  It is a distinction that he shares with only one other individual in My entire history of Collar Me.  I literally would avoid an event if I knew one of the two individuals that I have told this to publicly on the boards were attending.

Chances are, I'm not going to have this issue since I have no plans to visit Ireland.  Was it a deciding factor on which munch I would attend since moving to CA?  You bet your ass it was.


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