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Do People REALLY Meet from Here? - 8/8/2010 7:48:27 AM   
DommeKeliDallas


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Status: offline 		Do people really hook up here?

I have met some men from CM... but mostly men I have known before...from a long time ago.
Have you met anyone from CM?
Is there a magic word?
Thanks.

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RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? - 8/8/2010 7:53:07 AM   
BonesFromAsh


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DommeKeliDallas

Do people really hook up here?

Yes

Have you met anyone from CM?

Yes

Is there a magic word?

There's actually a magic formula and it starts with the word "Hello".

Thanks.

You're welcome!




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RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? - 8/8/2010 7:54:27 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		I have but it ain't easy.

1. I went to a specific cm party (the Calibirthday) and met lotsa people there. All for the first time.
2. I have seen profile pics here and then met people at local groups and recognized them from their pics. Great icebreaker.
3. I HAVE met people after only chatting with them here and then proceeding to meet.  I met my ex sub kat that way.  But it does not happen often.

If your main goal is to meet others, I'd suggest just going to local meets.


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RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? - 8/8/2010 7:56:17 AM   
Cyis75


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DommeKeliDallas

Do people really hook up here?

I have met some men from CM... but mostly men I have known before...from a long time ago.
Have you met anyone from CM?
Is there a magic word?
Thanks.




Yep, I've met serveral people from on here... In fact anyone listed as a friend on my profile on the other side are people I've met in person as I only add someone if I have met and know them personally.

No magic formula as BonesFromAsh said, just be yourself and weed through the hundreds of people completely content to live out a fantasy from behind the safety of their computer screen.

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RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? - 8/8/2010 7:57:07 AM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		Yes, met a ton of guys here. No one that I wanted to be with though.

Not yet, at least.

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RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? - 8/8/2010 7:57:42 AM   
kiwisub12


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Status: offline 		I met my late dom here - and spent five blissful years with him, so yes, people do meet people and have successful relationships from here. *sigh*loved that man!

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RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? - 8/8/2010 7:58:58 AM   
angelikaJ


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DommeKeliDallas

Do people really hook up here?

I have met some men from CM... but mostly men I have known before...from a long time ago.
Have you met anyone from CM?
Is there a magic word?
Thanks.




The magic word is yes!

Have you wandered up to the Positive Experiences thread ?

Lots of folks meet lots of folks.

Sometimes it works out longterm, sometimes it doesn't.

I have my experience posted.

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RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? - 8/8/2010 8:05:50 AM   
thishereboi


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DommeKeliDallas

Do people really hook up here?
My ex did, so yes.

I have met some men from CM... but mostly men I have known before...from a long time ago.
Have you met anyone from CM?
I haven't, but I met my ex on AOL. Does that count?

Is there a magic word?
Magic word, for me it was "I'll take you to dinner" right at a time she was hungry. Not sure what he said.

Thanks.
No problem, have a great day



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RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? - 8/8/2010 8:17:30 AM   
PeanutTigerinBox


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Status: offline 		I met quite a few guys from here...some ok...some not so great, one a real nightmare and my long-term-(though distance)-date Mr. A (A stands for Adorable, though sometimes it can also be changed into Mr. Arse...depending on his behaviour ).

Mr. A picked me up after a meeting from hell and we met last year and are going to meet again this year. In between we stayed in contact and if it is going to happen then at some point it will be easier to spend more time together...time will tell...just depends what gets faster to me...my visa or him getting his arse up

And btw, all my dates were with guys from abroad as I have no interest anymore to date over here as I won't stay over here...(and don't even dare to risk to have an oh so domly man in my luggage who then gets homesick...) Mr. A met me over here, the others I met in their countries Canada and the US...

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RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? - 8/8/2010 8:17:48 AM   
WinsomeDefiance


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DommeKeliDallas

Do people really hook up here?

YES

Have you met anyone from CM?

A few

Is there a magic word?

Nope, just the usual, "hi" or "Hello, would you like to come over for some coffee?" Thanks.

Welcome


I met my last Top'ish kinda guy that I had a sort'ish kinda relationship with. He was lots of fun, and I enjoyed our time together while it lasted. We just moved in different directions. Literally. He moved to antoher state. I moved across this state.

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RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? - 8/8/2010 8:45:37 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Do people really hook up here?
Yes.

I have met some men from CM... but mostly men I have known before...from a long time ago.
Have you met anyone from CM?
My last count is over a hundred.  Some were just saying hello, some I've played with, and some that turned out to be great friends,.

Is there a magic word?
Thanks.
No, just being willing to meet with people.



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RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? - 8/8/2010 9:03:58 AM   
mstrjx


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Status: offline 		Yes, I've met and had relationships with people from 'here'.  Some lengthier than others.  Some that involved distance, others not.

Hoping to do it again sometime.

Jeff

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RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? - 8/8/2010 9:09:33 AM   
everhope


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quote:

Do people really hook up here?

We do ...we really do!

Have you met anyone from CM?
i have...more than several.
i have been living with the lovable and hilarious ResidentSadist for well over a year. 

Is there a magic word?
in my case, the magic words were and still are Yes, Sir.

Thanks.
you are most welcome.


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RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? - 8/8/2010 9:38:24 AM   
LadyHibiscus


Posts: 27124
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From: Island Of Misfit Toys
Status: offline 		Yes. I have met many people from this site. Some were utter asshats, some have become lifelong friends. There's really no substitute for getting out in the community, but there are friends to be made here.

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RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? - 8/8/2010 10:10:46 AM   
Andalusite


Posts: 2492
Joined: 1/25/2009
Status: offline 		I met my former Master here, and my previous Dominant has an account here, though I met him on a different site. When I was dating last year, I met over a dozen guys, and had zero fakes and zero flakes. They weren't all compatible with me, obviously, but no-one looked completely different from their photo, lied about their age, didn't show up, etc.

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RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? - 8/8/2010 10:14:37 AM   
Wolf2Bear


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Status: offline 		Agrees with Lady Hib. I also met several off this site and still stay in contact with a few of them.

Several months ago, I was contacted by another though here and we have met and will be meeting again in a few days, with a possibility of it becoming more than just friendship.


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RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? - 8/8/2010 10:21:05 AM   
soul2share


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Status: offline 		Yep..in fact, I've met both Lady H and Wolf2Bear, at a wedding for two other CM'ers. 

It just depends on the amount of effort you want to expend...I flew back home from Phoenix to meet the 4 I met, and it was worth it! 

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RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? - 8/8/2010 10:30:57 AM   
juliaoceania


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From: Somewhere Over the Rainbow
Status: offline 		I met my last dom on alt. He gave me the link to this site before we met. We met soon after I joined this site and were involved off and on for 4 years....so I do not know if that is considered "meeting off CM".

I recently met someone else off CM that seemed very promising as a prospect. But since our first date I have been out of town working and visiting family. We are supposed to see each other again, but I am thinking it may not happen for a few reasons I do not want to go into here. But he is an attractive, intelligent, classy, uber successful person.


People meet from here all of the time, I would suggest you look up the Positive Experiences forum to get a feel for how these meetings went.

A magic word? Well, the magic word I use is "yes" when they ask if I wanna meet. It is not a word I say very often.....

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RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? - 8/8/2010 10:37:12 AM   
leadership527


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Status: offline 		Why can't you hook up here? Last I heard something like 15% of all relationships in the US are starting on the internet nowadays. I think of it like this:

+ You get to meet lots of people from lots of walks of life and lots of geographic locations.
- People don't generally behave well on the internet which imposes a barrier to "next step" activities.

The internet is just a tool. It's all in how you use it and whether or not your tracking it's strengths and weaknesses and using them to advantage.

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I didn't so much "enslave" Carol as I did "enlove" her. - Me
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RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? - 8/8/2010 10:40:53 AM   
Daddysredhead


Posts: 23574
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From: Northern (yet still part of the South) Virginia
Status: offline 		At last count, I have met over 75 people from CM in person.  Lots of them are message boards folks, and lots of them turned out to be fellow members of the local dungeon I belong to.  I've been to some gatherings that brought together people from the boards, and have hosted some of the same, and have had the pleasure of having some of the people who have posted here as my guests. 

Just step out and say hi and I'm sure that you'll be making some real life CM buddies in no time.

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