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Jeffff -> RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? (8/8/2010 8:05:21 PM)

Yes.....





kj25 -> RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? (8/8/2010 8:56:37 PM)

Yep...I met my Husband here. I also met a good handful of people that just didn't click in one way or another (making sure they aren't secretly married helps too.)




MaamJay -> RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? (8/9/2010 12:55:05 AM)

I'll add My yes to the others ... have met several people from CM, generally no total deadheads, some very promising at the time, but yet to find that one special subby boy. Just met a couple yesterday in fact and hope to see them again later this week! It's really not that hard, correspond for a bit, then arrange a meet. These good folks drove for 2 hours to get to where we were so people can be quite motivated, especially if they don't live in the most central area.

Good luck!
Maam Jay aka violet[A]




DommeKeliDallas -> RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? (8/9/2010 2:36:41 AM)

Thanks for your input.
I appreciate it




sunshinemiss -> RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? (8/9/2010 3:22:38 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Yes. I have met many people from this site. Some were utter asshats, some have become lifelong friends. There's really no substitute for getting out in the community, but there are friends to be made here.


*And the multitudes are wondering which column they reside in.

Yes, I've met over 60 people from here... including Signore Wonderful, a number of idjits, a  gaggle of gals, and a few people I've had crushes on over the years (you know who you are!).  I've also got this searing phone affair with a couple of folks from here (ok, they aren't really searing -well the WOMEN are, but the phone stuff is not)...

Now, on the other hand, there is a whole bunch of folks I'd just love to meet.  Trip to the UK anyone?




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? (8/9/2010 8:49:37 AM)

--hopping the UK plane with Sunny! (Watch out Peon!)




Musicmystery -> RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? (8/9/2010 8:53:15 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: DommeKeliDallas

Do people really hook up here? Have you met anyone from CM?


Sure. It's not that difficult.

quote:

Is there a magic word?


Strike up a conversation. Get to know people.







Icarys -> RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? (8/9/2010 9:00:02 AM)

Yes. I've met around 10 people from here and hope to meet a few more..Some are a little far away but I hope either they or I can make it someday.

It's really kinda easy to meet..Finding the "perfect" mate may be slightly harder. :> Who knows...That can be random at times and come when you least expect it.




Aileen1968 -> RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? (8/9/2010 9:03:52 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: DommeKeliDallas

Do people really hook up here?

I have met some men from CM... but mostly men I have known before...from a long time ago.
Have you met anyone from CM?
Is there a magic word?
Thanks.




I've met a bunch of people from here. Some were potential mates. I met shore from here and we have been together for 2 1/2 years now.
We are striving for 24/7.
We just got back from spending a weekend in Chicago where we met Domi, Jeff, Laurell, Lauren, Chicagosub4u and her man.
It's easy to meet people as long as one isn't socially dysfunctional.




SirGuy68 -> RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? (10/14/2010 8:31:45 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: DommeKeliDallas

Do people really hook up here?

I have met some men from CM... but mostly men I have known before...from a long time ago.
Have you met anyone from CM?
Is there a magic word?
Thanks.





Women do yes. Look at the stats 10,0000 active men in a 50 mile radius and maybe a page or two active women [ active < 1 week since their last log on] FYI me 7 years I met one girl from CM who from her profile I was attracted to but in 3D .. just a money ho on disability living in her parents basement.. and maybe I met 4 or 5 women in that 7 years just to get out of the house, no expectations just a coffee and a good bye.

I don't know about a magic word but perhaps as a guy be under 30, over 6' 4" and not over weight or have your weight in gold bullion to spend on a first date.

Be Well




shivermetimbers -> RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? (10/14/2010 10:51:16 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DommeKeliDallas

Do people really hook up here?

I have met some men from CM... but mostly men I have known before...from a long time ago.
Have you met anyone from CM?
Is there a magic word?
Thanks.



Yes, we have a thread in "Positive Experiences" titled "To Be Continued...."
Something approximating a simple hello probably works best.




Ra7c7er -> RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? (10/14/2010 10:59:20 PM)

I have met a few people from here. Usually we talk for a bit through messages or yahoo and wind up at some point deciding to meet somewhere. Usually it is just for a chat or common interest and then see what happens. I have had a couple play friends from here but nothing LTR.




GreedyTop -> RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? (10/14/2010 11:07:24 PM)

I've met LOADS of people from here.  Almost always a positive experience, some not so much.  No different than any other venue as far as ratio of good/not so good.




WyldHrt -> RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? (10/14/2010 11:53:32 PM)

I posted on this thread back in August, post #29, before it was dug up by SirGuy for whatever reason (can't see his post). What I said back then stands; anyone who thinks that real people don't meet on CM is quite mistaken. My previous post contains a link to an 8 page thread I started, asking folks who they have met from CM, with an emphasis on the message boards. The response is pretty self explanatory.




Tantriqu -> RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? (10/15/2010 12:10:56 AM)



Have you met anyone from CM?
Yes, three lovers: one crap in bed, one nice guy, one FABulous. Sadly, also many no-shows, 'do-me' married bottoms and last minute cold-feeters, which may be why you're asking.

Is there a magic word?
There's a magic phrase: Are you straight, single, available, happy, smart? Yes? I'm taking you out for coffee!





crazyml -> RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? (10/15/2010 1:26:50 AM)

I met someone from here this week - Not in a "hook up" context, but it was a smashing couple of hours




LadyPact -> RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? (10/15/2010 8:08:52 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

I posted on this thread back in August, post #29, before it was dug up by SirGuy for whatever reason (can't see his post). What I said back then stands; anyone who thinks that real people don't meet on CM is quite mistaken. My previous post contains a link to an 8 page thread I started, asking folks who they have met from CM, with an emphasis on the message boards. The response is pretty self explanatory.


I'm starting to think that I should link that thread in My sig line.  This topic gets brought up (and even dragged back up) so often that it gets kind of silly.  All of these people on the forums that have met other people  can't be wrong.  It's not some kind of conspiracy where we're all lying just to deceive people into thinking they can meet others here when it's not possible to do.  If someone is having trouble meeting people from the site, maybe it has something to do with the methods being used.




bighappygoth39 -> RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? (10/15/2010 8:40:11 AM)

I met my partner through this site, and we are now in a very happy, stable, loving, long term relationship which is now coming up to a year that we've been together. It obviously can work, but I fully believe you have to be completely honest about what you're looking for, and knowing what you want if getting to know people online first is what you prefer to do. It sounds pretty basic, but as most on here know, there are, as in 'real' life, too many people online who don't know what honesty is, so you just have to be wary, and fussy, too. [8D]




Steelslilbit -> RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? (10/15/2010 9:16:41 AM)

This thread made me smile though, cuz it brought back flashbacks of one hell of a weekend in Cali.  ^.^

~interwebs luvs to everyone I got a chance to meet at Steelbilation~

MISS YOU GUYS, crazy kinksters.




Hillwilliam -> RE: Do People REALLY Meet from Here? (10/15/2010 12:53:36 PM)

Ive mte a couple of people from CM as well even out here in the stcks. One to play and others just to say hi and as friends.




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