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Twoshoes -> RE: Dealing with a flaky 19yo slave (8/25/2010 8:27:09 AM)


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ORIGINAL: SomoneReal

You obviously put a collar on this chick WAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYYY too early.  Collar's aren't meant to be given out to the first bitch that drops to her knees and sucks your dick when you want it, they're like a kinky wedding ring, that has a lot more possibilities coming along with it :-) 




But what if you need something to attach a leash to, hmm? Perhaps refer to it as a modified neckpiece, [;)]!



Manawyddan -> RE: Dealing with a flaky 19yo slave (9/7/2010 6:22:18 AM)

This thread ... made me laugh and cringe at the same time. I just had to send it to -my- former teenage slave.

We started off with the intentions of just doing cyber, but it quickly developed into something much, much deeper. I have been doing S&M for 20+ years (not continuously) but was new myself to D/s, and I felt myself deeply affected. She did her rituals for me, and when she slacked off, she would punish herself at my command.

Then her college classes heated up. She maintained some of the more essential rituals, but found it increasingly difficult to do some of the newer or more time-consuming ones. I was faced with a dilemma, as I realised that unlike the earlier occasions, if I punished her for slacking off it would not make her more obedient; it would simply make her resentful.

So I renegotiated. Some tasks dropped off the table, others went from daily to weekly.

Soon, it became clear that even that wasn't enough. I called her on the table: "What do you want?"

She said she didn't know. So I released her.

There were some bumpy roads after that between us which I needn't go through here, but we are friends now. I have made it clear how much I want her as my slave, but I am -not- willing to take her on while she is still finding herself and unable to make a commitment. I have no doubt, given what a sensational and amazing girl she is, that she will find someone local to her very soon, and while she knows I experience some pangs of jealousy on that account, she also knows how much I want her to be happy.

And she knows that if she does reach a point where she is stable in her life, and settled in her mind, and that what she decides she needs is to be my slave for the rest of her life ... I will more than likely still be there for her.

I don't know if she's going to bother to read this far in the thread, or just the first page, and she doesn't have a collarme account so can't reply, but just in case you made it this far, baby, I love you.




Abstracts -> RE: Dealing with a flaky 19yo slave (9/7/2010 10:47:37 AM)

So I read the first page and particularly noticed how he was going to give her 35 lashes for not calling. And he said that was a LOW number. At that point, I thought, "she doesn't need to talk, she needs protection from this guy. Maybe even a restraining order." Then I read the last two pages and though, "wait, why the hell did this even get to 5 pages anyways?"

But damn, really? 5 pages? It wasn't obvious from the get go for this guy? I'm quite appalled. But in the effort to add something constructive to this thread, I will say this. A lot of people have pointed out the fact that this guy seems more submissive than dominant. And I'm inclined to go with the general consensus because it comes from people who seem reasonably intelligent. But I would take it one step further. Maybe you're just not cut out for BDSM? Sure, you may like it, but is it safe for other people to like it in your vicinity? Is it something you can emotionally and mentally handle, regardless of which side of the paddle you're on?

Seriously.



Daes -> RE: Dealing with a flaky 19yo slave (9/7/2010 12:38:50 PM)

Good grief.

When my Master said "Call at ---" I made Damn sure I called on time. Period. If I called late, He would give me a time to call him the next day or if he was in a good mood he'd ask me why he should continue talking to me.

He had no time for bullshit. He would not tolerate me wasting his time.

I respected him for it, and I Wanted that time with him, so I made sure to call on the dot.

Doesn't sound like much of a slave to me IMO.



DerangedUnit -> RE: Dealing with a flaky 19yo slave (9/7/2010 12:45:06 PM)

doesn't sound like much of a dom to me... if she doesn't respect you she won't listen, if she does she will... so leave find someone who will listen blindly and doesn't have to respect you in order to listen to you



Twoshoes -> RE: Dealing with a flaky 19yo slave (9/7/2010 12:45:50 PM)

I'd like to point out that:

1. This thread is very old and the OP probably isn't reading it.
2. What might not work for some people would be perfect for others.



Kana -> RE: Dealing with a flaky 19yo slave (9/8/2010 10:03:00 PM)

I just popped in to mention that any thread that starts with a comment about "her parents being away for the weekend" is gonna be a doozie.
Glad to see you folks haven't let me down.



ResidentSadist -> RE: Dealing with a flaky 19yo slave (9/8/2010 11:17:11 PM)

^  OK bro, I just read this mess and the wisest thing you said was:

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I can't love without reciprocation its too painful.


Now you are back peddling and mistake signs of her being a jealous cunt as affection?
Someone said it all when they said "stick a fork it in, it's done"








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