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laurell3 -> RE: Personal Rant...not the first time.... (8/16/2010 3:17:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: laurell3 quote: what sort of person makes another do something that psychologically disturbs them because they think it is hot? I do not even understand how a man could get off on it knowing he was causing his submissive to be distraught Sadists................. Not all of them male, either. haha...you read my mind LP...odd how that happens...[8D]

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Personal Rant...not the first time.... (8/16/2010 3:23:35 PM)
Sooo, if I fell in love with a woman, and loved her soft skin, big fluffy breasts and adored snuggling with her in bed - yet didn't have sex with her, but only her husband. Bi? Not Bi? What if I enjoy a woman or man going down on me, but dont' go down on women? Bi? Not Bi? Throw in kissing. I kiss women, but I don't have sexual relationships with them? The thing about labeling myself Bi-sexual - is others have these preconceived notions that I am potentially available sexually. I would list myself as bi-sexual, but then when a woman contacts me, and I tell her ohh wow, you have great tits, I'd like to smother myself in them, but yeah I don't want to have sex with you. She's probably not going to be amused. I am also likely to say, ooo your skin is so soft, can I pet it? Ok, anyway, enough of all that. Yes, I prefer to draw women. Women's bodies are all curvy and sexy and soft and have great angles. I could easily worship the female form, as i find it asthetically pleasing without it being sexually appealing to me. Bi? Not Bi? Need to know how to label myself so I dont' appear as a rant in any more profile journals than I already do. WinD

Jeffff -> RE: Personal Rant...not the first time.... (8/16/2010 3:24:47 PM)
Geez you are all fucked up aren't ya?

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Personal Rant...not the first time.... (8/16/2010 3:25:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff Geez you are all fucked up aren't ya? Quoted for truth [:D]

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Personal Rant...not the first time.... (8/16/2010 3:35:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance Sooo, if I fell in love with a woman, and loved her soft skin, big fluffy breasts and adored snuggling with her in bed - yet didn't have sex with her, but only her husband. Bi? Not Bi? What if I enjoy a woman or man going down on me, but dont' go down on women? Bi? Not Bi? Throw in kissing. I kiss women, but I don't have sexual relationships with them? The thing about labeling myself Bi-sexual - is others have these preconceived notions that I am potentially available sexually. I would list myself as bi-sexual, but then when a woman contacts me, and I tell her ohh wow, you have great tits, I'd like to smother myself in them, but yeah I don't want to have sex with you. She's probably not going to be amused. I am also likely to say, ooo your skin is so soft, can I pet it? Ok, anyway, enough of all that. Yes, I prefer to draw women. Women's bodies are all curvy and sexy and soft and have great angles. I could easily worship the female form, as i find it asthetically pleasing without it being sexually appealing to me. Bi? Not Bi? Need to know how to label myself so I dont' appear as a rant in any more profile journals than I already do. WinD YES!! This is how I feel exactly!! No wonder I lubs you!! [sm=hearts.gif]

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Personal Rant...not the first time.... (8/16/2010 4:14:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus YES!! This is how I feel exactly!! No wonder I lubs you!! [sm=hearts.gif] and why I luvs ya too. [sm=hearts.gif]

juliaoceania -> RE: Personal Rant...not the first time.... (8/16/2010 4:28:29 PM)
quote: Yes, I prefer to draw women. Women's bodies are all curvy and sexy and soft and have great angles. I could easily worship the female form, as i find it asthetically pleasing without it being sexually appealing to me. I agree

Elisabella -> RE: Personal Rant...not the first time.... (8/16/2010 4:35:10 PM)
quote: Second, are there REALLY folks who think that "bisexual" means being sexually attracted to ALL individuals of either sex? Just cuz you don't want to get it on with everyone of the same sex doesn't make someone "less gay"; same for being het. If a het male isn't attracted to ALL females, does that make him not "het"? "Conditional bisexuality" or "heteroflexible" is still a cop out. Justify it all you want but if you find yourself attracted to some individuals of either sex, you're bi. That's what the word means. Well to me, heteroflexible means things like, if I have enough to drink I might start making out with the girl I'm dancing with at the club, or like, a super crush on your best friend, or talking about how hot Megan Fox is. I don't have a "sexual orientation identity" lol but I've called myself heteroflexible in the past and that's what it means to me. The thought of going down on a woman or fingering a woman or anything like that totally grosses me out, and I don't actually have attraction to girls I meet random places, it's just like a side effect of bonding with my friends. So to me it means something different from bisexual, which means that you're attracted to both genders. Heteroflexible is sort of like "I'm not really attracted to girls but in the right circumstance I won't discriminate."

Elisabella -> RE: Personal Rant...not the first time.... (8/16/2010 4:37:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BKSir I just don't understand the need to label ones self in such a manner anyway. Why not, if heteroflexible, bi, metrosexual (I hate that term too), just say, "I like sex."? It's so much simpler, and covers the subject pretty darned well. I like intensely bonding with a person I care about. Sex is incredibly fun in those circumstances but sex alone, just going through the motions, is never any good for me.

pogo4pres -> RE: Personal Rant...not the first time.... (8/16/2010 6:57:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BoiJen quote: ORIGINAL: VioletGray I was pretty surprised to see the post that started this thread. I've been in the goth scene here since '94, and here at least, the term "boi" had always referred to an extremely effeminate male. http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Goth%20Boi It wasn't until very recently (last couple years or so?) that I've started to see the term "boi" by itself without "Goth" in front of it. are boi's strictly a lesbian phenomenon? Dykes have been using the word as far back as the late 70's (so far as I can tell from the information I can find) as a push back against "extremist" lesbian feminism limiting sex to non-penetrative activities and an expression of "girl" power. boi Jen tell that to Stacy Peralta and the the rest of the Z-boys (skaters of Zephyr shop) who were using "skater boi" before the mid 1970's. "Dog-Townly", Some Knucklehead in NJ

juliaoceania -> RE: Personal Rant...not the first time.... (8/16/2010 7:00:24 PM)
quote: Jen tell that to Stacy Peralta and the the rest of the Z-boys (skaters of Zephyr shop) who were using "skater boi" before the mid 1970's. "Dog-Townly", Some Knucklehead in NJ This is why there is room for more than one definition for words... in fact the dictionary is filled with words that have more than one meaning...

BoiJen -> RE: Personal Rant...not the first time.... (8/16/2010 8:14:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pogo4pres Jen tell that to Stacy Peralta and the the rest of the Z-boys (skaters of Zephyr shop) who were using "skater boi" before the mid 1970's. "Dog-Townly", Some Knucklehead in NJ Mr. Knucklehead (cuz you keep referring to yourself as such), I can't find any references to Mr. Peralta or any of the "Z-Boys" calling themselves "boi" or "skater boi". There's plenty of references for "boy" or "boys" or "skateboarders" but not "boi". Please, provide a reference. boi Yes yes yes...I'm digging through some boxes that are yet packed to find my own references.

Jeffff -> RE: Personal Rant...not the first time.... (8/16/2010 8:17:21 PM)
Yeah BOUY! YO MTV RAPS! And Jeffff ages himself.

BoiJen -> RE: Personal Rant...not the first time.... (8/16/2010 8:27:16 PM)
Ha! Here I was quoting Grease earlier this evening and you're dating yourself Jeffff? lol boi

laurell3 -> RE: Personal Rant...not the first time.... (8/16/2010 8:28:20 PM)
The difference would be...he's actually old Jen!

Jeffff -> RE: Personal Rant...not the first time.... (8/16/2010 8:29:38 PM)
Makes a mental note of all those limits............ You used to have.

BoiJen -> RE: Personal Rant...not the first time.... (8/16/2010 8:32:57 PM)
Ding! That was a pretty easy setup.

laurell3 -> RE: Personal Rant...not the first time.... (8/16/2010 8:35:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff Makes a mental note of all those limits............ You used to have. soooo is NOT afraid of you!

juliaoceania -> RE: Personal Rant...not the first time.... (8/16/2010 8:36:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BoiJen quote: ORIGINAL: pogo4pres Jen tell that to Stacy Peralta and the the rest of the Z-boys (skaters of Zephyr shop) who were using "skater boi" before the mid 1970's. "Dog-Townly", Some Knucklehead in NJ Mr. Knucklehead (cuz you keep referring to yourself as such), I can't find any references to Mr. Peralta or any of the "Z-Boys" calling themselves "boi" or "skater boi". There's plenty of references for "boy" or "boys" or "skateboarders" but not "boi". Please, provide a reference. boi Yes yes yes...I'm digging through some boxes that are yet packed to find my own references. What if skaters came up with the term "bio" independently of how you use it, it isn't like they copied it, they just used it in a different way... It isn't like it is copyrighted

Jeffff -> RE: Personal Rant...not the first time.... (8/16/2010 8:37:07 PM)
Hums "needles and pins" as he saunters off to bed........

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