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ElanSubdued -> RE: can you please share it with us (8/17/2010 4:33:20 PM)
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mezrabs,
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WhipsAndGiggles:
Then why did you send private messages to me on the 'other side' saying something about how you are "trying to live your fantasies through forums"? Why be frank there, but deceptive here? If you are indeed trying to live your fantasy in the forums, you should at least be honest with the people you want to cooperate with this, in my opinion. But hey... this is probably neither here nor there. I doubt anyone is going to give you your fodder.
You're asking for information in regard to people's private relationships. Someone you know may be willing to share this kind of thing with you. On a public BDSM forum though, asking in the way you have, from those who don't know you, is considered rude. WhipsAndGiggles is correct. You're not likely to get the responses you desire per the OP.
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mezrabs:
i want to know how a dominant woman can attract a man to make him her slave
A woman who is kind, interesting, and well-balanced has a good start. A sense of humour helps as does the ability to be flexible when appropriate. Communication skills are essential. Leadership skills are helpful too. Ironically, while this isn't a trait often talked about in regard to "dominance", I'd say an ability to allow ones self to be vulnerable with their partner is also an essential attribute. The kinky, BDSM-oriented dominant stuff is icing on the cake, but it's really the fundamental qualities of personage that are likely to attract a submissive worth attracting. Even still, if the man in question isn't interested in a particular woman, there's likely nothing she can do to change this. Relationships are a two-way street and this includes attraction. In regard to a woman making a man her slave... a woman can't really make a man anything, but if there is mutual interest, respect, and attraction, a woman and her partner(s) can decide what dynamics and roles they wish to share.
Elan.
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