Daddysredhead -> RE: Dom'ing a difference race than yourself sub/slave. (8/19/2010 10:37:38 AM)
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I'm a switch, obviously a white girl, and I have only topped white people. However, in the seven years that I have been doing WIITWD, I have only submitted to a black man. Now, if we're also talking relationship stuff, I haven't been in a relationship (emotional or sexual) with a white man since 1991, when I was in college. I was married to a non-white man for years, and then with DB, who is black. For me, color is important because a handsome dark man pushes the initial "dayum" button in me. Now, he needs to back up that sexy with a brain, strength (physical & character), and good manners, or he's not going to do much except make me stare a little longer than what may be considered "polite." As for friends, I am the virtual United Nations. My kids are bi-racial, my friends are from all over the world, and I've sampled many flavors of the "international buffet." I've said it many times (and make no apologies for the way I'm wired), but the color contrast - probably because I'm very visually oriented - is amazingly hot to me. I can't get that extra bit of "sizzle" if there is no color besides me own. Have I seen some very handsome white men that turned my head? Of course. But I still respond more intensely in a physiological sense with men who are not white. Obviously, I want the whole package... the sexy and the smart, and dark. ~ Red
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