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Do you like public humilation? - 8/19/2010 12:55:56 PM   
mitsakos21


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Status: offline 		I think it a lot.Seems it turn me on a public humilation but still i dont feel good humiliate me in publim.What you think guys and girls?I mean in past have public experience with my Mistress but always feel bad.Ppls looking me and fun of me.I think is hot when your Mistress do this to you in a caffeteria for example but is stop be hot when ppls judge you and try make fun.
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RE: Do you like public humilation? - 8/19/2010 2:48:57 PM   
laurell3


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Status: offline 		Nope I don't do it and won't expose unwilling participants to my kink. I find it classless personally.

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RE: Do you like public humilation? - 8/19/2010 2:51:40 PM   
myotherself


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Status: offline 		I'm with Laurell on this one.

It's tacky and lacks class.

I don't want to participate in your sex life, whether it's in the bedroom or on the street, and I resent it a great deal when people use me, without my consent, to get their kicks.



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RE: Do you like public humilation? - 8/19/2010 2:55:04 PM   
SorceressJ


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Status: offline 		Not a sub/slave, but totally with laurell and bunny on this one.. also why I do not go to fetish clubs or participate in public play of any kind. Just sayin'.

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RE: Do you like public humilation? - 8/19/2010 3:46:47 PM   
Twoshoes


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Status: offline 		You talking: dressing slutily and visiting a naval recruitment office? I've heard stuff along those lines alot before.

In theory - yes. Public - definately no. Willing partner - maybe. Willing 'private' audience - maybe.

I think your question is more about exibitionism.

Overall, slim chances of it happening.

See, there is alot of things that could be fun, but you always have to keep your common sense!

Common sense > all else.

And if you're not willing to do it, tell your Mistress about it.

Just figured after all these 'No's, I'd put in a maybe.

< Message edited by Twoshoes -- 8/19/2010 4:04:22 PM >

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RE: Do you like public humilation? - 8/19/2010 4:20:11 PM   
slavekal


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Status: offline 		When it is adults only and done in the right way..I love it.  See? http://slave2catwoman.blogspot.com/2010/08/now-i-wanna-be-your-dog-catwoman-and-i.html

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RE: Do you like public humilation? - 8/19/2010 5:08:06 PM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		If it was a lifestyle event, possibly

In vanilla company, no way

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RE: Do you like public humilation? - 8/20/2010 6:07:44 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		As a Dom, I'm in control.  I say what's gonna happen.  And something done in public that ought not to be - no way.

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RE: Do you like public humilation? - 8/23/2010 5:53:21 PM   
subanthony2010


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Status: offline 		I participated in it once, we got tossed out of a shoe store and escorted out the mall by security.  Which was more humiliating for me the act or being escorted out of the mall by security?  I would never ever do it again.  It doesn't respect others, it isn't a controlled environment (I still remember people's reaction it was down right nasty by some.)  What if children are around?  It is like when someone forces religion down your throat.  I was young then, I know better now.

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RE: Do you like public humilation? - 8/23/2010 5:55:01 PM   
subanthony2010


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Status: offline 		By the way how do I get rid of this snow cone above my head?  I want a paddle!

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RE: Do you like public humilation? - 8/23/2010 5:56:18 PM   
servantforuse


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Status: offline 		This must be at least the 20th time this subject has been brought up here, maybe even more than that.

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RE: Do you like public humilation? - 8/25/2010 3:46:17 AM   
SubPet715


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Status: offline 		That has to be one of my biggest fears, is anything in public i'm a very private person. If it is a domme I trust and she wanted to try something then as a sub I am open to exploring different things with my domme, I trust her.

Now if it's something as simple as having a coffee tossed in my face for adding sweet and low instead of sugar, then that just feels like abuse imo.

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RE: Do you like public humilation? - 8/25/2010 5:42:06 AM   
bellesoumise


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Status: offline 		No. I tried it once, never again. It's not even worth the trouble, all it takes is one camera phone for the act to be all over the internet.

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RE: Do you like public humilation? - 8/25/2010 7:21:33 AM   
slavekal


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Status: offline 		What exactly did you do in the shoe store? If you fetch shoes and try them on your Mistress everything should be fine. I have done that many times. You must have gon way over the line if security got involved. Can you give a few details?

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RE: Do you like public humilation? - 8/25/2010 7:34:03 AM   
phoenixmoonn13


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Status: offline 		never have and luckily master never would either. we have the dynamic when out but to others it would jsut seem that we were old-fashioned but def no public humiliation also no lifestye events either as he isnt into it. i couldnt be with somoen who felt it important it would be a hard limit for me

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RE: Do you like public humilation? - 8/25/2010 7:36:47 AM   
PeanutTigerinBox


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Status: offline 		I don't approve at humiliation either way, does not matter if public or private. not my cup of tea.

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RE: Do you like public humilation? - 8/25/2010 4:03:34 PM   
UROBEDIENT1


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Status: offline 		Humiliation needn't be overtly sexual in nature. I recall once seeing a man standing outside a store in the mall with his wife's purse dangling around his neck as he patiently waited for her. Many might easily call that public humiliation. Yet, there was nothing about it that anyone would have a problem with their ten year old child witnessing. There are many public ways that a slave can be allowed to demonstrate his/her humility other than overtly sexual "scenes" that expose the public to sexual kink.

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RE: Do you like public humilation? - 8/25/2010 4:16:35 PM   
peacefulplace


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Status: offline 		Public humiliation can mean different things to different people. If a sub/slave is a shy and private person, as this sub is, even an intimate touch within the confines of the car parked in the public garage can be humiliating. However, unless someone happens to walk directly by the car at exactly the right time, this seems like a harmless form of "public humiliation" to me. On the other hand, as several posters have said, if a Dom found it necessary to involve others in our kink, period, much less in a way that would humiliate me, then no, thank you.

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RE: Do you like public humilation? - 8/25/2010 7:04:52 PM   
ResidentSadist


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Status: offline 		damn.... I had a notepad and pencil to write down all the names of those who liked it.  I am sooooooooo disappointed.  

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RE: Do you like public humilation? - 8/25/2010 8:50:41 PM   
HisEvelyn


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Status: offline 		I personally don't think it's right to impose my kink on random passersby. Master and I occasionally do publically humiliating things that are known to only us, we are very discreet (such as me having a small dildo inserted in me when we go for a walk, a blowjob in the car at night in a quiet place, and once I gave him a fully-clothed lapdance in a nightclub while he had a drink in a quiet corner of the place). But for us, doing something overtly obvious for all to see would be very tasteless and inappropriate. It's not even kink-related. I wouldn't want to see a vanilla couple with their paws all over each other in public either.

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