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RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? - 11/29/2007 6:04:19 PM   
curiousfox


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Status: offline 		Well, I'm not seeing anyone....but.... here is my two cents.

I don;t really do casual play.  If I'm going to enact in a D/s situation with them, then they are at least a friend. Ideally, I would want to be in a loving relationship with them, but real love takes time.  It is not an instant overnight thing, you don't know enough about them yet.  I think it is possible to care a great deal for someone quickly, but in my mind love takes time. 

As for a spanking keeping me in line? It wouldn't be thought of physical punishment that keeps me in line.  What keeps me following their dictates, is that I want to please them.  That is what it really comes down to for me.  I want my submission to pair with their need to dominate,  to please them so they are proud.  If they want to spank me, it doesn't have to be under the guise of punishment. All they need to do is to want to spank me. 

Rebecca

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RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? - 11/29/2007 6:36:15 PM   
Daddysredhead


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quote:

ORIGINAL: stacyandjohn

hello slaves ...
do you love your mistress/masters and  obey them or  you   obey them with fear of spanking and punishment ?..
if  you love them  then why there is need of  spanking  you must obey them thats it .


I adore my darling Daddy.  We are very much in love.  I don't obey out of fear, but from a sense of respect for him and trust in him, that he will not hurt me - physically or emotionally.  I have earned a few spankings in my time that were far from the sexy kind.  Not intentionally, but from being a bit too self-reliant or stubborn about something.  Did he ever hold that against me and bring it up later? Never.  I love and respect even more for it. 

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RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? - 11/29/2007 6:48:26 PM   
hisannabelle


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Status: offline 		greetings stacyandjohn,

i do love my master. generally i receive pain when i've done something to please him, not as punishment (unless it's play punishment).

respectfully,
annabelle.


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RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? - 11/29/2007 6:50:11 PM   
DesFIP


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DominicsJoy

I am glad to see that all of the responders I see do boast of love and adoration, and a genuine desire and need to serve. The ones who would not would be those poor vanilla schlubs who are in this for a different activity to do on a weekend so that they could brag about it to their buddies.


That's quite the assumption there. I have no need to serve, he is perfectly capable of making his own dinner (although my cooking is superior). He's not interested in having a servant.

But I guess we're just poor vanilla schlubs who boast to our friends about what we did this past weekend. Even though I've been collared for four years and we are the most discrete people imaginable. And even though play time comes rarely nowadays with his business growing faster than he can do the work.

Some people enjoy serving, some don't. Some people enjoy being given orders, others prefer civilly worded requests. Some people prefer having no emotional walls or barriers, being totally known and vulnerable to someone more trusted than they have ever before imagined existed.

A closed mind is a wonderful thing to lose.

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RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? - 11/29/2007 7:19:14 PM   
sweetnurseBBW


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quote:

ORIGINAL: stacyandjohn

hello slaves ...
if  you love them  then why there is need of  spanking  you must obey them thats it .


Yes I love him and obey because I want to serve him and respect him. I don't obey out of fear.We don't do physical means for discipline. I happen to enjoy spankings and he enjoys giving them so that is why I get them.  Enough said.

< Message edited by sweetnurseBBW -- 11/29/2007 7:26:36 PM >

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RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? - 11/29/2007 7:53:49 PM   
sweetestnettles


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From: Sydney
Status: offline 		lol seems like everything I wanted to say has already been said so... not a slave but yes I love my Daddy and everything he is and represents. From the moment we met I knew he would only ever have my best interests at heart. I have been punished (lightly) for not obeying his orders, but accepted it (and enjoyed it as did he) because I had agreed to do something and not followed through. He understands that I am still learning and wishes to guide me in my exploration of the lifestyle and protect me, not hurt and punish me for disobeying. The 'punishment' comes into it as we both enjoy it; if I were ever uncomfortable with something, I would feel free to say so without fear of repercussion or it being seen as a sign of disrespect.

Daddy rocks my socks

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RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? - 11/29/2007 8:04:05 PM   
MasterofScyn


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Status: offline 		I love my Master very much and he loves me. My punishments (if I ever need one)... is far from a spanking. I get pleasure from spankings, so it is not out of fear. If I feared anyone I was with... I would most likely leave that relationship.
 
Scyn ~

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RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? - 11/29/2007 8:09:10 PM   
Shawn1066


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Status: offline 		Do I love my Owner?  Of course...more and more every day.

Do I fear her?  No.  I do not.  I submit out of respect, and not out of fear.

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RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? - 11/29/2007 8:49:46 PM   
juliaoceania


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quote:

ORIGINAL: stacyandjohn

hello slaves ...
do you love your mistress/masters and  obey them or  you   obey them with fear of spanking and punishment ?..
if  you love them  then why there is need of  spanking  you must obey them thats it .


I love my Daddy more than words can say. He spanks me because I love it, and he enjoys it too. It has nothing to do with disobedience

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RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? - 11/29/2007 10:37:35 PM   
girlygurl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: stacyandjohn

hello slaves ...
do you love your mistress/masters and  obey them or  you   obey them with fear of spanking and punishment ?..
if  you love them  then why there is need of  spanking  you must obey them thats it .


I love Him with all my heart, and I obey Him because I want to.  A spanking wouldn't be the worst punishment for me.  The true punishment would be disappointing Him. 

girly 

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RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? - 11/30/2007 2:11:12 AM   
eyesopened


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quote:

ORIGINAL: babysburnin

I'm not sure what your question is exactly.  I can tell you that I am in love with my Dom.  I was almost going to say "head-over-heels" in love, but my feet are set firmly on the ground.


Master prefers the "heels-over-head" position.

i love my Master and i obey Him.  Period.  i'm really going to echo what everyone else has said.  It is because i do not fear Him that i can obey Him without question.  Any physical pain i endure i do so simply because HE likes it.  And when Master is happy, i'm happy.

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RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? - 11/30/2007 2:55:09 AM   
briarrosethorne


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Status: offline 		I do love Him. I obey because i feel complled and because it feels right... *smiles* although im no  *wink*

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RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? - 11/30/2007 4:24:04 AM   
arayofsunshine55


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quote:

ORIGINAL: stacyandjohn

hello slaves ...
do you love your mistress/masters and  obey them or  you   obey them with fear of spanking and punishment ?..
if  you love them  then why there is need of  spanking  you must obey them thats it .

I love him dearly.  Although obedience is not my kink, I do what I do cause that is what I want to do, that is what I agreed to do,  that is what makes me wet, that is what makes his Cock hard and therefore makes me wet...

I absolutely refuse to have a relationship based upon fear.  Not with god.  Not with my Daddy.  Not with my boss.  Not with anyone.

And we don't do punishment.

Edited to add:  Yes I love him today.   But I was doing what he wanted long before I put the word love to my sense of him.  If not, we would have never gotten to the point of love.


< Message edited by arayofsunshine55 -- 11/30/2007 4:25:58 AM >

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RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? - 11/30/2007 6:06:48 AM   
adoracat


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quote:

ORIGINAL: stacyandjohn

hello slaves ...
do you love your mistress/masters and  obey them or  you   obey them with fear of spanking and punishment ?..
if  you love them  then why there is need of  spanking  you must obey them thats it .


i obey Daddy because i wish to.  he spanks me because he knows i love it.

i love Daddy because he *is* Daddy.  and he loves me in return.  the rough play we do is because we enjoy it, and its always followed by cuddles and snuggles and making sure i'm ok.

if i were being punished for wrongdoing, it wouldnt be by something i enjoy.

kitten

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RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? - 11/30/2007 3:12:33 PM   
agirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: stacyandjohn

hello slaves ...
do you love your mistress/masters and  obey them or  you   obey them with fear of spanking and punishment ?..
if  you love them  then why there is need of  spanking  you must obey them thats it .


Yes, I probably love him but that's got bugger-all to do with whether or not I obey.

agirl



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RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? - 11/30/2007 7:30:48 PM   
Willowmoon


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Status: offline 		I don't submit out of fear I sumbit out of love. I could never serve a Master that I did not love in some way. (not just romanctic love) When I have made mistakes punishment tends not to be a physical thing anyway.

Willow

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