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stacyandjohn -> Do you love your mistress/master ? (4/21/2006 12:33:18 AM)
hello slaves ... do you love your mistress/masters and obey them or you obey them with fear of spanking and punishment ?.. if you love them then why there is need of spanking you must obey them thats it .

BitaTruble -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (4/21/2006 12:38:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stacyandjohn hello slaves ... do you love your mistress/masters and obey them or you obey them with fear of spanking and punishment ?.. if you love them then why there is need of spanking you must obey them thats it . I love Himself down to the very depths of my soul. I don't need spankings to obey. I 'get' spankings for obeying. It's a reward, not a punishment. ;) Celeste

fullofgrace -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (4/21/2006 12:47:08 AM)
ditto what celeste said :)

ownedgirlie -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (4/21/2006 2:37:50 AM)
i love him more than i thought was possible. i did not know love like this existed. i have never obeyed out of fear; that is not how Master has ever run our relationship. Before i ever grew to love him, i obeyed because i had no choice. i obeyed because i was compelled to - because he reached something deep within me, and i simply had no choice. i obey him because i am powerless not to. The fact that i love him is what makes it all so sweet.

slaveofdarkhold -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (4/21/2006 3:36:36 AM)
I love my Master more than life itself. I obey because I genuinely want to please him and make him happy, because he is everything to me. I have never needed fear to obey him. There is sometimes still a need for punishment (though not necessarily spanking, because as has already been pointed out, that can be fun) because even though I love him I sometimes have moments of brattiness. It's worth saying I never do this deliberately to get punished- there is nothing to stop me asking for a spanking if I want one- but sometimes forget my place or speak before I think. The punishment is needed to help me learn and grow. It marks that I have done something wrong, it is dealt with and we both move on. I know a lot of people here disagree with the need for punishment and argue it shouldnt be necessary, but in my particular relationship I think it is. It also reminds me that he cares about me and wants to make me a better slave. I guess I'd say the punishment works alongside me loving him- if I didn't love him I would probably resent any punishment and it would not have the desired effect.

slaveladyj -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (4/21/2006 4:36:09 AM)
I don't think it's fear that makes us obey, but a desire to serve.

LindaLashes -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (4/21/2006 4:59:05 AM)
I love my Mistress and obey her because,,, it´s just right, it´s who I am, a slave and her possession. I do get the occasional spanking because I do make my mistakes from time to time... [8\|]

smilezz -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (4/21/2006 5:11:30 AM)
quote: do you love your mistress/masters and obey them Yes, i love Thorns as much as i live to breathe. Obey Him? yes, i obey Him, sometimes i end up going around the hard way to do that at times, but i do obey. quote: or you obey them with fear of spanking and punishment ? I do not obey out of fear of anything. I obey because i choose to obey Him, I committed my life to this Man, i serve Him the best i can, even if i am a pain in the ass at times...it all boils down in the end............i obey. quote: if you love them then why there is need of spanking you must obey them thats it. Loveing the Man and obeying and spanking CAN be intertwined with each other, but it's not a question of "do you love Him,obey Him" to avoid spankings. I get a spanking because it's what HE wants to do, regardless of obedience. Happy Friday! ~smilezz~

SirCumsSlut -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (4/21/2006 5:14:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stacyandjohn hello slaves ... do you love your mistress/masters and obey them or you obey them with fear of spanking and punishment ?.. if you love them then why there is need of spanking you must obey them thats it . I have loved Sir since before time began......He is my soul and i believe in a past life we were lovers as well......I do not fear punishment......punishment has nothing to do with love, if I do something that displeases Sir, I deserve whatever punishment he deems necessary...that punishment DOES NOT change my love for him, in fact it makes my love for him stronger because i know when he does it 1) to instill in me that i will not displease him again 2) he does it because he loves me No one is perfect 24/7, mistakes are made, just like in a "vanilla" relationship......

Littlepita -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (4/21/2006 5:20:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BitaTruble I love Himself down to the very depths of my soul. I don't need spankings to obey. I 'get' spankings for obeying. It's a reward, not a punishment. ;) Celeste That's the way it is for me too! I love getting spankings because it's what we both enjoy. I have gotten one spanking because it was a punishment and that I didn't like. Because, disappointing my Sir was the worst feeling I have ever felt.

Tikkiee -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (4/21/2006 5:59:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stacyandjohn hello slaves ... do you love your mistress/masters and obey them or you obey them with fear of spanking and punishment ?.. if you love them then why there is need of spanking you must obey them thats it . Well, even though I am not a slave [:)], yes I love Chris; and though he does not expect me to wait on him hand and foot, there are things that I enjoy doing for him. For the punishment part; we do not participate in punishment ( as defined in D/s, M/s relationships ). We talk, find out where the problem is, and work on it from there.

twicehappy -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (4/21/2006 6:36:04 AM)
I simply adore them both. I love them and in love with them. I obey them because i want them to be pleased, happy, content. I obey and love both Master and Mistress because basking in the intense flames of their souls nothing but utter submission to them is possible for me.

sezM846 -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (4/21/2006 7:57:28 AM)
Master is the love of my life and i obey Him because i want to please Him. If ever there came a time when i obeyed HIm because of fear... then that would be the time to get out as you can't have love or respect born out of fear. Well in my opinion anyway sez xxxxxx

littleone35 -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (4/21/2006 8:59:27 AM)
I am not a slave i am a sub but I do love my Master very much he is most wonderful man i know i just adore him. Serve out of fear never i obey and serve him because i want to i desire to. I serve out of love not fear. Spankings yes i get them from time to time sometimes play ones but if i have misbehaved harder ones but only if i earned them. Matt's littleone

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (4/21/2006 7:17:37 PM)
I would hope I would do so out of love,and desire to serve if fear were the major proponent,,then I would have to rethink the relationship..Tempting

sephisurrender3d -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (4/21/2006 7:48:27 PM)
I was attracted Master from the first time i saw Him in chat , strong , silent and intriging..The first time i spoke to Him on the phone He had my heart though i fought it for about 10 days..He has owned me heart , mind , body and Soul every since..I drove 2000 miles in 2 and 1/2 days to be with Him and begin our life and Family[:D]Our first wedding anniversary is comming up on May 7th and the first week of June He will meet my Family for the first time..I am nervous and anxious about going Home because i have changed a great deal in the almost 3 years since i left.. As for Obeying Master i do for the most part, He knew when He took me and my kids on that i am stubborn and strong willed... I have a mind , opinions, thoughts , and emotions and use them frequently..I have been punished 3 times in almost 3 years...Once the day i got here for saying F*** 2 weeks before i got here, once for punching a door and bloodying my knuckles after argueing with Master. Not sure what the other two were for though im sure it was for a particularly bratty day or some such offence... Like the others i dislike displeasing Master, He gets after me for being harder on myself than He is... Akatena's girl sephi

kittensmailbox -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (4/21/2006 8:14:38 PM)
at one point, i was willing to die for my former Master... i still love him, just not in love with him....

BreakingGlass -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (4/21/2006 8:39:23 PM)
I'm not a slave nor do I obey to any kind of extreme. My submission is based on my desire to do what I can to make things easier on the ones I love. And, yes, I love him. My obedience is limited in that respect, but I will not go out of my way to irk him. Spankings are for fun. Punishments...frankly, it's never really gotten to that point.

babysburnin -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (4/21/2006 9:06:27 PM)
I'm not sure what your question is exactly. I can tell you that I am in love with my Dom. I was almost going to say "head-over-heels" in love, but my feet are set firmly on the ground. I please him (do my best to) because I genuinely want him to be happy and want our relationship to be loving and rewarding. He pleases me as well, by caring for me so wonderfully. I do not fear him - I respect him. Punishments I receive are fine-tuning what he wants from me, discussed, and appreciated by me. As with "vanilla" relationships - one led by fear is not a positive one.

littlepetkana -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (4/21/2006 9:19:05 PM)
My former Master is a dear friend, and I love him as such. I did not submit because of fear of punishment, but the desire to serve him and please him.

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