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Males must be punished - 8/22/2010 11:31:54 PM   
barrick


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Status: offline 		Male sexuality is deemed as POTENTIALLY bad, evil, using, male privilege. While female sexuality is nurturing with all flowers rolf   A bi sexual or lesbo woman will unlikely think another woman are these things and will easily let her come into acceptance.   But a male’s sexuality will be questioned. Because having a cock is bad news.   Political correct bigotry?

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RE: Males must be punished - 8/22/2010 11:33:56 PM   
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Could you explain your question further? It seems to ignore that female sexuality is frequently considered inferior or dirty while male sexuality is often considered good. For example: The many negative terms for female sexuality, ie. slut, skank, hoe, and the many positive words for male sexuality, ie. stud, man's man, stallion.

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RE: Males must be punished - 8/22/2010 11:38:44 PM   
barrick


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Status: offline 		In today’s BDSM world how is female sexuality inferior? It seems that males sexuality in this scene seems pathetic and desperate while women get what they want with no questions asked

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RE: Males must be punished - 8/22/2010 11:42:04 PM   
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RE: Males must be punished - 8/22/2010 11:43:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm going to need you to present some evidence to back up your theory. As a woman in BDSM, I don't feel that I get whatever I want. If I did, I'd have my poly male dominant partners instead of resigning myself to the fact that I may never find what I'm looking for.

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RE: Males must be punished - 8/22/2010 11:46:08 PM   
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It seems that males sexuality in this scene seems pathetic and desperate while women get what they want with no questions asked


I have to disagree. In this scene it seems pretty equal to me. I know in every vanilla relationship I had...we sure did not have specific the negotiations as we do in this lifestyle. Generally all the cards are laid on the table up front no matter your gender or kink.


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RE: Males must be punished - 8/22/2010 11:46:21 PM   
barrick


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Status: offline 		Keep telling your selves that. The term "pathetic cocks" is not a rare one.



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RE: Males must be punished - 8/22/2010 11:51:16 PM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		Right... because the utter dismissal of the experience of women in the lifestyle is making such a strong case for your POV.

Of course the term isn't rare - Some men get off on hearing that. Just like the term "pathetic slut" isn't a rare one for submissive women.

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RE: Males must be punished - 8/22/2010 11:52:02 PM   
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RE: Males must be punished - 8/22/2010 11:52:50 PM   
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RE: Males must be punished - 8/22/2010 11:53:08 PM   
etFilii


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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

Did I miss something?
you missed the hole.


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RE: Males must be punished - 8/22/2010 11:53:53 PM   
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RE: Males must be punished - 8/22/2010 11:54:31 PM   
barrick


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Status: offline 		Let's say all males had the same level of paranoia towards women as women do towards men. He would be a misogynist. But it's okay to judge all men until proven innocent while the other way around is sexism

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RE: Males must be punished - 8/22/2010 11:55:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: barrick

Let's say all males had the same level of paranoia towards women as women do towards men. He would be a misogynist. But it's okay to judge all men until proven innocent while the other way around is sexism

THE FUCK?





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RE: Males must be punished - 8/22/2010 11:57:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: barrick

Let's say all males had the same level of paranoia towards women as women do towards men. He would be a misogynist. But it's okay to judge all men until proven innocent while the other way around is sexism



Could you be more specific please? Judging any group by the actions of a few is wrong. However, in some circumstances, it's understandable. If a woman has been raped/molested, it makes sense for her to be cautious and somewhat distrustful. Just like I would understand a man being cautious/distrustful if a woman had ripped him off and run off with his money/property/etc.

Exactly what are you complaining about? What are you considering to be paranoia?

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RE: Males must be punished - 8/23/2010 12:00:15 AM   
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Status: offline 		Life isn't fair. Men are, typically, stronger than women. Each gender is, typically, better suited to different tasks due to our wiring. There are exceptions of course but the playing field isn't equal.

Again - please be more specific.

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It was ok for him to beat me but then he tried to cuddle me! - Me

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RE: Males must be punished - 8/23/2010 12:00:57 AM   
barrick


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Would say anything at all or have the same judgement towards a woman who thought all men are guilty until proven otherwise?

A political correct wuss will pretend this doesn’t exists obviously

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RE: Males must be punished - 8/23/2010 12:02:06 AM   
etFilii


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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

Life isn't fair. Men are, typically, stronger than women. Each gender is, typically, better suited to different tasks due to our wiring. There are exceptions of course but the playing field isn't equal.

Again - please be more specific.
HOLY SHIT MAN, THEIR ARE FUCKING CANNABIS TREES ON YOU.What are you some kind of fairy lady?


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RE: Males must be punished - 8/23/2010 12:02:44 AM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		Again you fail to provide the specifics required for such a question.

If a woman thinks all men are going to steal fifty cents from her car because one date took two quarters, that is absurd. If a woman has trouble trusting after being raped and beaten, that is logical.

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Without my dominance you cannot submit. Without your submission I cannot dominate. You are my equal in this, though our roles are different.-Val

It was ok for him to beat me but then he tried to cuddle me! - Me

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RE: Males must be punished - 8/23/2010 12:04:02 AM   
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ORIGINAL: etFilii

quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

Life isn't fair. Men are, typically, stronger than women. Each gender is, typically, better suited to different tasks due to our wiring. There are exceptions of course but the playing field isn't equal.

Again - please be more specific.
HOLY SHIT MAN, THEIR ARE FUCKING CANNABIS TREES ON YOU.What are you some kind of fairy lady?


Damn straight and my wings are gorgous.

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Without my dominance you cannot submit. Without your submission I cannot dominate. You are my equal in this, though our roles are different.-Val

It was ok for him to beat me but then he tried to cuddle me! - Me

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