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RE: Identity Crisis - 8/26/2010 5:04:56 PM

AnnaOfAramis

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I like to please. My last partner was not into the life style. Neither was I. But I am a quiet reserved person. Sex without love and affection is meaningless. I need my partner to need things from me or it drives me crazy. I would beg my last partner to let me do little things... like wake him up.. or make him coffee... I was increasingly discontent with the fact that he wanted nothing of me.

I have never tried really... I like the idea of being owned and protected and a second....

I have recently been hurt and often wonder if I am just trying to fill a hole.

Hi, actually I know a lot of slaves who people might not describe as "submissive." They are actually strong women, with very strong wills and some of them can even be good leaders. The difference is often a matter of finding the person who makes you react that way in relation to them. I am not easily mastered, but I absolutely need it. I am unhappy in a relationship with a man if he is not in control. I am also quiet and reserved like you. I also like to do little things to serve. I need to be owned and feel protected. So it might not mean you are not submissive, but just that you haven't yet found someone who can draw it out of you completely as a reaction to him.

anna

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