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RE: Do you kiss your property? - 8/25/2010 8:16:16 PM   
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I just can't imagine being with a Dominant Who doesn't love to kiss. I'd feel very deprived.

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RE: Do you kiss your property? - 8/25/2010 8:18:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		sweetsub I don't think you need to worry about that. It seems to be more of a Femdom thing.

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RE: Do you kiss your property? - 8/25/2010 8:33:59 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

Lets get a room.


Getting back to the topic at hand: I find it strange that anyone wouldn't want to kiss their slave. Again, if I were to avoid it, I would be depriving BOTH of us. Where's the fulfillment in that?

Kissing is a major desire/need, for me. I mean it is BIG on my list. I can't imagine not kissing my slaveboy early and often. And sharing all the emotional intimacy, and the physical intertwining of it.... MMMmmm....


YUM.


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RE: Do you kiss your property? - 8/25/2010 10:16:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		yes my Mistress kisses me as often as she pleases. i enjoy being apreciated by my owner.

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RE: Do you kiss your property? - 8/25/2010 11:21:54 PM   
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I'd only own human property that I wanted to kiss . . .. .

Oh. & I really dig doing this whole 'forced kissing' thing. Bottoms seem to dig it, too. Pry their mouths open, explore as I see fit with fingers & tongue, can include open-mouth styled gags . ... . Mmmmmmmm . . .. .. .

ETA: cuz I keep forgettin' to type in the 'FR', lol .. . . . .

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RE: Do you kiss your property? - 8/26/2010 6:28:50 AM   
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RE: Do you kiss your property? - 8/26/2010 6:32:12 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BoiJen

HOT

Innit.

Speaking of which, have you given Ms Kitty that very respectable kiss on the cheek from me yet, Jen?


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RE: Do you kiss your property? - 8/26/2010 6:58:31 AM   
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Status: offline 		I gave her some kisses in some places last night, I'd ask if that counts but to be honest...you and a couple of other things weren't on my priority list of communication during those particular moments. We've been kinda active in many areas of interest since she found out that my idea of maintenance beatings are something she enjoys.

I'll do my best to remember the whole "respectable" thing when she gets home this evening...though earlier she said something about resuming activities immediately when, so I "better have everything done" I "need done, or" she's "gonna be pissed."

:-)

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RE: Do you kiss your property? - 8/26/2010 7:03:26 AM   
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Just get around to it whenever you get around to it-no hurry.


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RE: Do you kiss your property? - 8/26/2010 7:23:51 AM   
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RE: Do you kiss your property? - 8/26/2010 3:16:37 PM   
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Thanks, ya hottie . . . . . .

quote:

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RE: Do you kiss your property? - 8/26/2010 4:54:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		This was a really interesting thread... at first it seemed like maybe kissing your BDSM partner was less common than I'd thought. (Sure there's always different strokes for different folks.)

It seems to me that, aside from personal preferences in regard to kissing in general, people did kiss when there was a significant emotional bond with the sub/slave... and did not kiss when it was more use/service/casual hookups. Which backs up my theory that a lot of the Not-Kissing is purely based on relationship context.... and many of you verified that to be your shared perspective too.

I didn't read any basic philosophies on why NOT to kiss specifically, though and that leaves me a little perplexed.

Something I have to say I didn't expect to see were people who might kiss in an affectionate, dare I say platonic, manner but not a sensual or intimate manner. Very intriguing.

dreamerdreaming & bighappygoth39 & VaguelyCurious: I'm with you all. I can't imagine it not being a part of my interactions now. I enjoy the closeness and think "Mmm!" While not always long and luxurious... I LOVE the long and luxurious ones!!!

Politesub53 and ElanSubdued: I liked that you enjoy kissing... but not just enjoy it and accept kisses... I love that, if she loved it, you'd initiate the kissing too. Elan, I did find it very interesting that you'd take kissing over anything else! I don't think I've ever heard that said outright before.

PeonForHer: Well, now clearly that is just a hot perspective to have!!!

servantforuse: And is that what you prefer? Do you have any thoughts or feelings on that? How would you react if someone did start to initiate a more intimate and emotional dynamic with you?

everglad: Oooh!!! I like that she does that. I do that too! I'm certain the tension inside of you is obvious and appealing to her. Or at least it is to me.

kttqnp: I'd be delighted if you'd be willing to share why you separate the service sub dynamic from a lover. Is there a particular concept or philosophy that inspired you to do so?

Madame4a: I can relate to what you said perfectly... except about a bad kisser deal breaker. I've found that with a little direction even someone who's not good can become WONDERFUL!

LadyPact: Thank you for the detailed answer. As for the special contexts... in my mind they were pretty varied in the possibilities... like maybe only kissing after a heavy scene as a part of aftercare... Or maybe its a part of a specific ritual, like instructing one's sub or slave to greet them in a specific way involving kissing. I just wasn't sure if there might be a lot of special contexts and wanted to see what people's experiences were.

BoiJen: So... what DID give, I'm curious... Did she decide "Oh, hm. Maybe this could be good non-romantically after all." ? Glad you got past it and are onward to the perks of kisses!

leadership527: I share your perspective on love being necessary for ownership (at least at this point in my life) ... but its been clear to me from the start that love is not necessarily something everyone likes or needs. I appreciated your insight, though.

LadyNTrainer: I'm glad SOMEONE said that they focused on kissing while causing pain. This is something that really resonates with me. I also enjoy turning the kisses into something painful some of the time. Like a deep kiss blending into a bite. And, naturally... I agree that its not 'wrong' or 'right' --- But it is interesting to learn the different perspectives. Also, I liked the phrase "fluid-bonded poly family"!!!

ResidentSadist: If your car is awesome, I might kiss it too.

DemonKia: Ooh. I like that term ...Forced-Kissing!!!

...Now on a slightly different note:

Does anyone else do something during kisses where they breath in their partner's air and exhale their own air into their partner's lungs? My bestie (best friend) told me she did this for the first time last weekend with a Dom and she'd never even heard of it before. I find that wildly amazing!!!

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RE: Do you kiss your property? - 8/26/2010 4:57:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		Also... to anyone I did not mention specifically: Thank you for taking the time to share your experiences!!!

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RE: Do you kiss your property? - 8/26/2010 5:16:33 PM   
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So. Long before I got involved with the out-&-organized kink world, I was a stoner. User of cannabis. & I've done that, what you describe below, plenty of times to share a hit of cannabis smoke . . . . . Back & forth 'til the smoke's all gone . . .. ..

With or without the smoke it's part of what's sometimes called 'breath play', fyi . . . . . . . .

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ORIGINAL: WhipsAndGiggles

Does anyone else do something during kisses where they breath in their partner's air and exhale their own air into their partner's lungs? My bestie (best friend) told me she did this for the first time last weekend with a Dom and she'd never even heard of it before. I find that wildly amazing!!!

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RE: Do you kiss your property? - 8/26/2010 5:25:06 PM   
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That was a very considered, very polite response to all who've contributed to your thread.  I would expect nothing less of someone as charming-looking and glasses-wearing as yourself. 

However, may I gently point out - so that you don't make the same mistake in future - that the accepted practice on this forum is to say something along the lines of 'All of you who agree with me - Yay!  You've got it right!  All of you who don't - piss off, you're weird and have issues'.

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RE: Do you kiss your property? - 8/26/2010 5:25:59 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: WhipsAndGiggles

Also... to add... if there are any subs or slaves reading this and have any relevant experience: I'd like to hear about your side of things too.

Thanks!


I've never been involved with a dominant who had an aversion to kissing a submissive. Personally, I don't like it, and it has nothing to do with the ds aspects for me. Some soft lip kisses here and there are ok, but I don't like deep tongue kisses at all. That kind of kissing is one of the squickiest physical acts I can think of. I'd love to meet a dom who had no interest in kissing me that way; it's such a pain in the ass having to back them down on that level.

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RE: Do you kiss your property? - 8/26/2010 5:39:19 PM   
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quote:

from the OP:

"Does anyone else do something during kisses where they breath in their partner's air and exhale their own air into their partner's lungs? My bestie (best friend) told me she did this for the first time last weekend with a Dom and she'd never even heard of it before. I find that wildly amazing!!! "


I do this with My Husband. I can tell you from firsthand experience: INTENSE!

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RE: Do you kiss your property? - 8/26/2010 6:33:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		Perhaps I have been fortunate, but every dominant person I have been with, has kissed me.  Some more than others, sure.  Some only kissed me when I was tied up, back bent, and helpless before them.  Others kissed me hello and goodbye.  Others kissed me lots of times.
My current Sir kisses me constantly.  When we sleep, as we wake up, as we go about our day, hello, goodbye, I love you, make me dinner, have a good time out, etc etc etc.  I wouldn't have it any other way.  Some kisses are passionate, leading to sex, while others are nearly chaste, and some are the playful goofy cute kisses I love.
I would not be able to play with anyone, much less have a relationship with anyone, who did not kiss me.
I love it too much.
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RE: Do you kiss your property? - 8/26/2010 6:43:47 PM   
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The best kissers tend to make the best lovers and sweetest men; although my last pup was skilled at many things, but still a lousy kisser despite lotsa lessons; too bad. I missed it! Being french-kissed [on my upper lips ;-) ] is a hard limit, as it is for a lot of Dommes, but "I believe in long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last three days."

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RE: Do you kiss your property? - 8/26/2010 7:25:44 PM   
Twoshoes


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Status: offline 		There really should be an equivalent thread in the Master/Dominant section, but no man has risked appearing sensitive and started one.

So I'm just going to go blatantly here and say that:

With how many women enjoy kissing, it would really be a shame to not be teasing them mercilessly with it - makes me all warm inside just thinking about all their wondering, as they close their eyes, about what's going to happen next and when. Maybe they'll get kissed softly, maybe they'll get a finger placed on their lips, maybe they'll get lightly slapped or have their lips nibbled, maybe nothing at all... (list of possibilities is long).

Either way, atleast a quick and sneaky method of getting someone to close their eyes and trust you .

Not to mention the sweet sounds of any related begging and pleading...

<=Might be sadistic.

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