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MsAssWhipper -> RE: Do you kiss your property? (8/28/2010 3:15:48 PM)

I feel kissing me is an honor. In a LTR I would never deprive a sub the honor of kissing me. I of course would dictate when and where.




WhipsAndGiggles -> RE: Do you kiss your property? (8/28/2010 3:29:11 PM)

DemonKia and SorceressJ: Oh yes.... I've done it lots and lots and love it. I was just shocked that SHE hadn't done it and hadn't even heard of anyone doing it!!! Wondered if many people had tried it out.

Twoshoes: Its interesting to hear that Kiss-Tease&Denial perspective. I'd like to know if there is even one male Dominant that does NOT like to kiss.

PeonForHer: Thank you.... but I guess I'm just going to have to march to the beat of my own drum! [;)]

marie2: My best friend feels the -exact- same way. I read your post to her today and she related to it completely. She'd also be thrilled to find a Dom who didn't want to kiss her much, if any. Maybe Twoshoes will start a thread asking the Masters for their feedback!! [:D]




SorceressJ -> RE: Do you kiss your property? (8/31/2010 4:40:14 PM)

Because I really like this thread, I have copied from my journals the following (though I am not the author):

A Thousand Kisses (in words)
by D'jaevle

I am going to write you out in a thousand words.
A word for each kiss. A kiss in each word.

The first will be soft,
the sort of kiss that is intimate and deceptively gentle.
The kind of kiss that leads into another, and another, until you are lost.

The next will be brazen, a kiss that dares to enjoy you;
a kiss without inhibitions or lines; a kiss that reverberates within
until your insides are molten and liquid quicksilver appetite.

A kiss that quiets you. A broken conversation in bites and nips.
My kisses are solvent, seductive in series.
My kisses are an aphrodisiac for life.

These are the imagined kisses born in daydreams
and nighttime prayers.
Extravagance of mind made real in a kiss.
Needful kisses meant to complete, meant to assure,
meant to bestow peace of mind; a kiss as proof (but kisses can lie).

I write of hungry unresolved kisses that never end.
Here, now - a kiss that is a whisper along your skin that tickles
and provokes; it divulges secrets.
It discloses the truth amid the lies;
it murmurs things you already know but fear to admit.
It leads you down a path in golden chains.

I have memories of a kiss, the right kind of kiss,
etched in a single moment and echoed in every recreation since.

A kiss to know, to perceive the truth in engagement.
Understanding in the learning, belief in the patience.

I kiss where I want.
My kisses are a crisis of ambition,
a craving not quite satisfied in the act.
Destiny in the progression,
I lay them out against your skin like prophecy.

I want you under me, covering your lips, nose, and eyes with kisses.
I want you on top, each kiss stolen between the weaving and bucking
of bodies in motion.

Forever in a kiss.
A kiss to catch you, a kiss to be caught.

This kiss is a song, sung between each heartbeat.
Salvation in a kiss; absolved and awakened.
A purity of spirit, clarity in the presence of a kiss that has meaning,
that provides context.

Fucking in a kiss, speaking a language subliminal and instinctive.
A frenzied extension of limbs, a rolling of bodies and tongues,
a shared feast of bared skin and borrowed sentiment.

Possession in a kiss;
a claim made against your breasts, belly, and thighs.
Kisses that are hot enough to brand your skin.
Kisses that are reminders of your place.

Orchestration of nerve endings that begins and ends with a kiss.
Perhaps a kiss between the lines, if you know what I mean.
A mistaken kiss, taken unwittingly and all the sweeter for it.

This kiss tells a story. Denial and determination.
There is love here, yes, and plenty of lust as well. A bit of pathos, and the theme is easy to taste.
It has a clear beginning, a slow middle, and a surprise twist at the end where the kiss is revealed to be not just a kiss, but a poetic statement on state of human indulgence brought to a climax in the visage of an orgy, raw and decadently described.
The story ends abruptly, leaving you wanting more.

Underneath and below, kisses that exist in the lines
drawn from the small of your back,
across curves that begin and end in a parting.

A kiss between friends, is a friendly kiss (isn’t it?)
Some kisses are silent, and some cry out.
Some are breathless and some are nothing but air,
a kiss felt more in the presence than in the touch.

A kiss by the car, a kiss against the door, and a kiss atop the bed.
On the couch, a kiss, and once more on the floor.
Silver kisses painted on your thighs.
Candy kisses melting on your tongue.

A kiss goodnight, a kiss to awake.
A kiss to say goodbye, another to say hello.
A kiss of remembrance, a kiss to forget.

One to break a vow, another to make a promise.
A kiss to betray and another to forgive.

There are kisses in rain and trails of kisses.
There are packs of kisses, litters of kisses, gaggles of kisses.

A kiss that starts at your wrist; a play of moistened lips that cool the skin and find the pulse.
The smooth skin of your arm a pathway to your elbow,
elegantly bent so that the next is nestled along the inside.
To the shoulder, a kiss more teeth then lips,
little burning reminders left on the way to your neck.

The throat is a sculpture of ingress, a place of worship and potential, a way within.
A kiss is dangerous here, it knows you well. Delicate in its tease, deliberate in its patience.
Small, moist, and searing against the curve between shoulder and neck;
expansive and distracting along the side; soft as the lure when felt just below your ear.

A fancy kiss, crafted choreography in form - a kiss with intentions.
A simple kiss, a kiss with a statement.
Kisses that taste of tears.

Dreamt kisses, feathery light kisses that slip away
in wisps of consciousness.
Scarred kisses, tentative and fearful.
Vulnerability in trembling anticipation. Culpability in the acceptance.
A delicate negotiation of faith.

An affectionate kiss. A familiar kiss. A naughty kiss.
Angry kisses; frenzied frustration both nakedly unapologetic
and perverse in its course; a clash in tongues and wit,
opposing manner explained in a long hard fuck against the wall.
I kiss you with my fingers, wet from us.

Kisses that question; kisses that ask again and again,
always the same question, always wanting the same answer,
but louder, louder, LOUDER.

A kiss that isn’t a kiss.
A kiss that is parted lips and torturously sweet in tongues and teeth
but is found not on your lips or your skin.

This kiss is felt inside. This kiss opens you.
This kiss tests your resolve.
This kiss is enough to bring you to your knees.

This kiss is an invitation.




FamilyofM -> RE: Do you kiss your property? (9/1/2010 12:55:17 PM)

Absolutely. I adore kissing and as mentioned I feel that it strengthens the emotional ties.




MaamJay -> RE: Do you kiss your property? (9/2/2010 8:59:53 PM)

Right now, Master has a cold sore so kissing is off limits and it's driving us both nuts! We kiss often ... not long ones as Master gets a bit claustrophobic, but little and often! And when He grabs my hair and brings my face to His ... ohhhh well ... 'nuff said!

As a Domme, My oath, the boy better expect to get kissed! And he is allowed to initiate too by asking or expressing a desire to kiss Me ... but he can't escalate the kiss. So for eg, if I am closed-mouth kissing him, he's not to escalate it by trying to push My mouth open with his tongue ... I drive it. That's the same rule i abide by with Master!

Maam Jay aka violet[A]




MsMillgrove -> RE: Do you kiss your property? (9/3/2010 3:46:27 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: SorceressJ

Because I really like this thread, I have copied from my journals the following (though I am not the author):

A Thousand Kisses (in words)
by D'jaevle

I am going to write you out in a thousand words.
A word for each kiss. A kiss in each word.

snip..snip..

This kiss is felt inside. This kiss opens you.
This kiss tests your resolve.
This kiss is enough to bring you to your knees.

This kiss is an invitation.




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Wow. Thank you!




Mishna -> RE: Do you kiss your property? (9/3/2010 4:41:25 AM)

I have a submissive play partner, and I kiss him on occasion, either on the forehead or the cheek, and generally only after a very intense scene, but have never been tempted to kiss him in any other way. More intimate kissing involves a deeper emotional connection than I have with him, or am likely to have with him. 




sothernnyte -> RE: Do you kiss your property? (9/3/2010 11:49:41 AM)

our Mistress is very affectionate with us at all times, although in more formal settings She may be more reserved as the situation warrants. but even in that reserved setting, She is still affectionate with us. She is highly sadistic and gains a great deal of pleasure from hurting us...which we relish as well.

our relationship has also turned into the love and D/s situation. we are free at anytime to be affectionate with Her. unless we are receiving some sort of punishment i would imagine. though She states Her love will never be withheld from us.

She has been affectionate with Her former submissives although not in love. She feels that a sub/slave that is loved and nurtured will function better and grow more than one that is not. She uses this nurturing and love to help the 3 of us grow into not only a better D/s trio but as individuals as well.




MzBree -> RE: Do you kiss your property? (9/4/2010 6:33:08 PM)

I think it depends on the person....Some people admit playing with people they know they don't want a future with. Giving kisses might give the subbie the idea of long term.
I love to kiss so I look for someone who shares the interest just like any other "fetish"




Sdoah -> RE: Do you kiss your property? (9/11/2010 7:15:11 PM)

Do you kiss your sub? What if they're a slave? Why do you kiss them?  Yes, I kiss my pet because I love to kiss and it does alot for my mojo.

Have you ever not kissed someone you owned? Why not?  I've had two pets and I've kissed them both.

If you do typically kiss the person(s) you own:

Is it common? Yes.

Are there special contexts? Whenever I want it.

Are there times you specifically refrain? As punishment only, and even then I might bite during the kiss to show my displeasure.

Have you heard of other women NOT kissing their sub/slave? If so, do you feel it's common? I wasn't aware it was uncommon.

And.... do you identify as a sadist (to whatever degree)? No, more a sensual sadist or a loving dominant as someone else said.





seekingOwnertoo -> RE: Do you kiss your property? (9/12/2010 3:49:20 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: WhipsAndGiggles

Ladies!

I'd love to get your opinions, thoughts, and experiences on the following:

Recently I met a slave-oriented middle-aged man....

Do you kiss your sub?

(Edited to avoid repeat ...)



If a Lady did not kiss or hug .. I likely would not be with Her long. Kissing and hugging communicate affection ...

Might not be love ... but the communication is very important! IMO




MistressDeStrict -> RE: Do you kiss your property? (9/17/2010 3:10:28 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: WhipsAndGiggles

Ladies!

I'd love to get your opinions, thoughts, and experiences on the following:

Recently I met a slave-oriented middle-aged man.... He is fairly experienced in BDSM based relationships. Recently he revealed to me that no Dominant partner had ever kissed him. Now I'm curious about how common this is for Female Dominants.

Do you kiss your sub? What if they're a slave? Why do you kiss them?
Have you ever not kissed someone you owned? Why not?
If you do typically kiss the person(s) you own:
Is it common?
Are there special contexts?
Are there times you specifically refrain?
If you do not kiss your sub/slave, would you also not kiss in a vanilla relationship?
Have you heard of other women NOT kissing their sub/slave? If so, do you feel it's common?
And.... do you identify as a sadist (to whatever degree)?


As for me... I do kiss my property and it never occurred to me to refrain. But, I do like to kiss (in an intimate relationship) so that could be influencing me and biasing me in this matter. I kiss my partners at will and only refrain in times of emotional distance/duress, but I don't just refrain from kissing during those times. All physical intimacy would be curbed.

I'm very interested in learning about other peoples experiences and insights!!


Personally I enjoy kissing and being somewhat intimate with My female slaves or subs. Property of the male variety...not so much.




ImperfectLady -> RE: Do you kiss your property? (9/17/2010 9:16:51 AM)

I do whatever appeals to my whims.  If kissing appeals to me, then my sub will feel well kissed.  It's all about what I enjoy and how I enjoy it.  And, in my case, I love to see a woman respond to me in pleasure.  I revel in the fact that I can induce sensation for her and for myself.  What a lovely wild ride!




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