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Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/25/2010 3:56:38 PM   
Charles6682


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Status: offline 		I am truly amazed at just how many so called "Financial Domme's" there really is on this website.Before I say anything,I have no problem with "Pro-Dommes".At least they are actually providing something for the money the earn.However,these financial domme's on here are really something else.Now,I am as submissive as one can get.Yet,I am not going to give somebody I have never met in my life,an endless suppy of money.Really?This current economy is hard enough for somebody like me to get by,without me having to spend my hard earned dollar's on some "Domme",so I can contribute to her pure laziness.So,this way,she dosen't need to get a real job like most people need to do.Of course,these financial domme's wouldn't be here if foolish men weren't handing these girl's money.I do not think thatby not giving these "girl's" my money,make's me any less of a sub.It mean's I am excercising commonsense.For all one know's,half these young Lady's are probaly nothing more than some middle age men from Nigera,posting some picture's of a young Lady on their profile's,sitting back laughing while they see the money pouring in.Whatever,if men wish to so foolishly give these people their money,go ahead.But don't expect a penny out of me.


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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/25/2010 4:01:38 PM   
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Do you feel better now?


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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/25/2010 4:05:45 PM   
Charles6682


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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/25/2010 4:08:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well then you're pretty easily pleased.

Those women don't give a fuck what you think. You don't mean anything to them at all. What are you expecting to achieve with this thread?


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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/25/2010 4:14:05 PM   
Charles6682


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Status: offline 		I personally could care less what about of phonie's care about anyway's.If you think I am some foolish doormat,then bite me.It's not a matter of being easily pleased,it's a matter of speaking commonsense.Frankly,to each their own.it isn't going to make me sweat either way.

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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/25/2010 4:15:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		He already said he felt better.

By the way, VC, you forgot to charge him.

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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/25/2010 4:16:58 PM   
VaguelyCurious


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Status: offline 		So the aim of this thread was to speak common sense? To whom?

Are we supposed to care that you don't like financial dommes?

Who are you supposed to be talking to here?


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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/25/2010 4:20:32 PM   
VaguelyCurious


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He already said he felt better.

Heh, what can I say, I just want to see how many more 'Frankly,to each their own.'-esque cliches I can get him to generate. What does that even *mean* in this context?


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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/25/2010 4:31:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

Well then you're pretty easily pleased.

Those women don't give a fuck what you think. You don't mean anything to them at all. What are you expecting to achieve with this thread?



I can't speak for him but I see his point.

Browse the red profiles.

There has been an amazing influx of "online only, tribute required" profiles.

My guess is they account for at least 50% of the ads.







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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/25/2010 4:33:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm a Domme who doesn't give a rat's naked ass about money. Point being, who gives a shit what anyone else thinks or does with their lives and finances? If it doesn't affect Me, it's none of My beezwax. Just sayin'.

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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/25/2010 4:37:43 PM   
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I can't speak for him but I see his point.

Oh, I know they exist. I just don't see the point of bitching about them. What they do is their business-nobody is forcing anyone to interact with them, and whining about them just makes the OP look unattractive.

This place is what it is. The OP can either suck it up or move somewhere else.


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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/25/2010 4:40:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		My profile says Im taken and married, and not looking, I get several emails asking me if they can send me their money, one who said he didnt even want to meet me, just wanted to put money in my paypal account.
so the kink is out there and not going away, so just block delete and carry on like the rest of us do. You want your needs met, what is wrong with other people getting theirs met.



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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/25/2010 4:41:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious
Oh, I know they exist. I just don't see the point of bitching about them. What they do is their business-nobody is forcing anyone to interact with them, and whining about them just makes the OP look unattractive.

This place is what it is. The OP can either suck it up or move somewhere else.


Exactly.

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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/25/2010 4:55:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

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ORIGINAL: rulemylife

I can't speak for him but I see his point.

Oh, I know they exist. I just don't see the point of bitching about them. What they do is their business-nobody is forcing anyone to interact with them, and whining about them just makes the OP look unattractive.

This place is what it is. The OP can either suck it up or move somewhere else.



A large portion of the threads on CM are people bitching about one thing or another.  He's bitching about the financial Dommes.  YOU'RE bitching about him.  What do you expect, everything to be just be a bed of roses?

And to paraphrase your own words: This place is what it is.  YOU can either suck it up or move somewhere else.

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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/25/2010 4:59:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		OP, no one has forced you to consent to the kink of financial Domination.  I see this as very much the same as, for example, I have not forced you to participate in S/m with Me over and above your free will.  Yet I, and the bottoms that play with Me, have made a choice to engage in that kink.  We didn't ask for you to like it.  Kink is not a democracy.

While it's perfectly fine for each of us to decide which kinks we will and will not engage in, that is as far as it goes.  Nobody else gets to decide what kinks others will involve themselves in, nor will they decide who is, and who is not acceptable here.  There is a guide for this site that outlines it's terms of service.  Financial Domination is not excluded in that guide.

What happens, OP, when someone decides that, rather than a kink that involves the exchange of funds, someone comes along and decides that your kink is not welcome?


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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/25/2010 5:00:09 PM   
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A large portion of the threads on CM are people bitching about one thing or another.  He's bitching about the financial Dommes.  YOU'RE bitching about him.  What do you expect, everything to be just be a bed of roses?

I don't expect anything-but I will poke people if I think their posts are stupid. It's 1am, there's no sleep in sight, and said poking generates gems like 'If you think I am some foolish doormat,then bite me'. What's not to love? If you disapprove of the bitching then block me

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And to paraphrase your own words: This place is what it is.  YOU can either suck it up or move somewhere else.

Which would be a valid retort, were I in any way as frustrated as the OP. I like this place just fine.


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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/25/2010 5:05:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think something is being overlooked, here...

If a Dom presented himself to me as a financial Dom; I must give him tribute and such, I would laugh. I do not know many subs, but I know a few. They, too, would laugh. I have never seen a (hetero) financial Dom/Master's profile tell a sub/slave that he expects all her money and lots of tribute.

Why the disparity? Are we back to the enduring hypocrisy that a man is valued for the qualities he brings to a relationship while a woman is valued for the sexual favors she provides?

I am speaking in general terms, not directly to LadyPact, who seems to me to be a genuine Domme worthy of respect.

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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/25/2010 5:07:10 PM   
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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/25/2010 5:09:08 PM   
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Why the disparity?

Because it's a fantasy a lot of men but few women have. Findommes exist because there's a market for them. I suspect findoms don't because women don't sexualise the exchange of money in the same way.

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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/25/2010 5:14:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

Well then you're pretty easily pleased.

Those women don't give a fuck what you think. You don't mean anything to them at all. What are you expecting to achieve with this thread?



I can't speak for him but I see his point.

Browse the red profiles.

There has been an amazing influx of "online only, tribute required" profiles.

My guess is they account for at least 50% of the ads.



I'd fully expect that.  I could set up as a findomme tomorrow.  Few racy pictures of some woman from the net, plus my (now pretty wide knowledge) of what makes submales tick - yep, in all seriousness, I know I could make money doing it.  The glories of the free market, yes! 

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