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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/28/2010 10:14:04 PM   
Charles6682


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Status: offline 		One thing that I state in the first message,was that I have no problem with pro-domme's.In a way,I am a pro-sub.I get paid to do session's with some beautiful Women.So frankly,I am not on here looking for "play time".I can do that whenever I want and get paid to do it.I am on this website to find a Domme/Sub relationship and that has already happened once.I am referring to the so called "Fin-Dommes".I do delete foolish message's and pass right on past the fin domme's website.However,it's profile after profile.Really,though,I don't care.Do whatever the hell you people want to do.I don't judge other's who are into this fetish.If it's a real deal,that's their life.It's the scam artist who come on a site like Cm and leech money off of people.It's clear this topic has been preached before here on the message board's.Their's probaly a good reason why their are so many people on here complaining about the fraud's on here,because there are a bunch of fraud's on here.Since when did being a submissive mean being weak?What,I am suppose to shut my mouth because you so called Dom think you know it all and have the right to talk down to just anyone.I don't have to like everyone's message,just like everyone dosen't have to like my message either.Freedom of speech,deal with it.I do not "submit" myself to just anyone,only to somebody who has actually earned my submission.A true submissive can certainly be assertive when one need's to be.I will certainly not submit myself to a bunch of foolish know-it-all on here who think anyone should bow before them.Give me a break,your ego is alot bigger than your brain.

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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/28/2010 10:21:12 PM   
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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/28/2010 10:32:48 PM   
Charles6682


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Status: offline 		O well,I'm done.Maybe I did rant alittle bit.People can spend their money however they want.I just know the money I make,will be spent on thing's worth it.

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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/28/2010 10:44:20 PM   
Charles6682


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Status: offline 		I will admit,I may have went overboard.I am actually shocked that this message thread has had so mamy people view it and respond to it.I do apologize to those legimate people on here if I may have offended them in anyway.I clearly have made my point and I am just going to leave it at that.

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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/29/2010 2:23:23 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Charles6682

I am actually shocked that this message thread has had so mamy people view it and respond to it.

Oh honey, they aren't really here for you-they're here for the peanut gallery. Think of them like rubberneckers at a car crash. Don't let it make you feel special.


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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/29/2010 4:55:31 AM   
LadyConstanze


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I get 'em too, VC.

And my profile clearly says 'submissive'.

One guy was so persistent, offering to send all sorts of goodies...I almost gave in and let him send me stuff





I guess it would never have shown up, I kept telling a guy I don't want him to send me stuff, he was begging to let him pay for pedicures, it would mean so much to him, blah blah. I told him I am not handing out my address especially to somebody who only CMails me and wants to stay anonymous, so thanks, I would like to keep my address private too. But please please, and the thought of me having that pedicure he paid for... So I suggested that he pays for the pedicures at a spa not too far away, possible with a credit card or PayPal (yup, they accept PP) and just gives me the number. They have a service that lets you buy beauty treatments on the web, once you paid for it you get a confirmation number, you can print a gift voucher out and give it to a person, or just tell them the number, and the person can then make an appointment - been the savior of a lot of guys who forgot wedding anniversaries, birthdays, etc. and they seem to do good business with that model.

It was about 2 years ago, once it was clear that I wouldn't give out my address on the claim that he wanted to send me something and I actually gave him a chance to pay for the pedicure he so desperately wanted to pay for, he disappeared...

Maybe he has an address collection fetish? The excuses were quite inventive, the website didn't work, his card wasn't accepted, their website seems to be down, he is worried that the site is not trustworthy...

I don't want gifts from strangers, but if some stranger is begging me to accept them, fine, but most have the fetish for begging for them, and then possibly thinking a woman will sit at home waiting for the gift to arrive...

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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/29/2010 5:10:48 AM   
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...In a way,I am a pro-sub.I get paid to do session's with some beautiful Women....



I'm not being offensive, but honestly, you do fetish videos and unless you do pretty hardcore stuff, you're model gorgeous and you're able to show your face, compensation is just that, compensation for your travel expenses and possibly a meal. I know quite a few producers, most guys are in those videos for free because their fetish is to be seen, so if you're able to make a living from doing body worship in fetish videos, good for you, but you might be the one in a million and should possibly also start playing the lottery.

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ORIGINAL: Charles6682

It's the scam artist who come on a site like Cm and leech money off of people.It's clear this topic has been preached before here on the message board's.Their's probaly a good reason why their are so many people on here complaining about the fraud's on here,because there are a bunch of fraud's on here.Since when did being a submissive mean being weak?What,I am suppose to shut my mouth because you so called Dom think you know it all and have the right to talk down to just anyone.I don't have to like everyone's message,just like everyone dosen't have to like my message either.


Why is somebody being a financial Domme a scam artist? They aren't trying to trick you or force you to give them money, they say it upfront, you don't like it, you don't give them money. Do you get as upset when watching TV? Because the commercials are also trying to sell you something you most likely don't need, do you complain or just ignore it?

So because you are a submissive means that all Dommes should pay attention to what you say and shut up because you're errr submissive?

I hate the cold calls trying to sell me double glazing (I have freaking double glazing) or cruises or whatever, I politely tell them "No thanks" and the issue is resolved. Be a grown up, CM gave you a delete button, delete the messages you don't like, I do it frequently, especially the ones with dangly bits on display.

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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/30/2010 4:42:09 AM   
MissNikkita


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Status: offline 		No se puede generalizar nada en esta vida........ habrá de todo....... desde luego no se puede ir mandando dinero a lo loco..... pero tiene que tener en cuenta que las instalaciones de Bdsm valen dinero y creo que si queremos disfrutar todos, tambien hay que participar con los gastos. Otra cosa: el tiempo que gasta una Domme con sus sumisos, no lo puede emplear en otro trabajo, porque requiere mucho tiempo, no es algo que una se puede dedicar despues de ocho horas de trabajo, no crees??? piensa un poco antes de hablar! para Charles 6682

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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/30/2010 4:49:15 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Bienvenidos a collarme, MissNikkita!  Porque escribe e Espanol? La majoridad de la gente aqui solamente hablan Ingles!


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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/30/2010 4:53:35 AM   
MissNikkita


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Status: offline 		Pues entiendo y hablo bastante ingles, pero lo de escribir no me da tan bien ;-( y como hay una herramienta para traducirlo.......si estan interesados en saber lo que digo, tranquilo que lo traduciran.....
oye una pregunta , como me puedo quitar el simbolo de vainilla junto a mi Nick??
Gracias por la bienvenida y un saludo

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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/30/2010 4:58:38 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Jajajaja!

El simbolo vainilla es porque no tiene Usted mas que 25 posts aqui. (No se la palabra para "post").

Gracias para el saludo!  Y de nada de la bienvenida.

Su Ingles es mas mejor que el Espanol de casi todos aqui.  Usalo y todo la gente pueden participarle!




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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/30/2010 5:05:32 AM   
MissNikkita


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Status: offline 		a ver lo voy a intentar: aqui va la traduccion....

You can't generalize anything in this life ......... certainly it is not possible to be ordering money to the mad thing ..... but it has to bear in mind that Bdsm's instalations, rent, time etc cost money and I believe that if we want to enjoy all, also it is necessary to take part with the expenses. Another thing: the time that a Domme spends with his submissive ones, cannot use it in another work, because it needs a lot of time, is not anything that one can devote after eight working hours, you do not believe??? Think a bit before speaking!

This post is for charles6682

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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/30/2010 5:11:37 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Geez, MissNikkita, your English is just fine.  It was almost painful for me to reach back into my Spanish from junior high and high school!

again!


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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/30/2010 5:13:31 AM   
MissNikkita


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Status: offline 		es cuestion de practica jejeje, solo he estudiado un año de ingles.....

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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/30/2010 5:18:31 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Wow.  Estudie yo para cinco y media años!  

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/30/2010 7:00:28 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Your English is fine MissN!! Lots of folks here don't have English as a first language.

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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/30/2010 7:42:51 AM   
Twoshoes


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Your English is fine MissN!! Lots of folks here don't have English as a first language.


Little do you know, I'm using Babelfish to translate all my posts from French or German.

And half the time, translating your posts, LH, results in some sort of gibberish about vacuum cleaners.

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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/30/2010 8:11:51 AM   
Charles6682


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Status: offline 		MissNikkita,you do make's some good point's.I do respect the fact that many pro-Domme's spend alot of time and energy into providing the service's that they do.I understand that time is money and it is only fair one is paid for their work.This is only a result of the free market system and it is an honest living.I have no problem at all with pro-service's.

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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/30/2010 8:54:54 AM   
LadyEternity


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Status: offline 		I have to admit that I read the first page and then ran out of time and jumped to the end to make a fast reply.

A long time ago, when I was younger and skinnier I was a pro-domme. I had my own dungeon and I advertised on paid sites designed for pro-dommes to find clients. When I used sites like this one, I only used them for personal use - finding my own personal submissive and not for free advertising. I understand the vast market and even the need for pro-dommes. I do wish that they would use websites designed for finding clients and not bog down free sties.

I have been retired for a long time now. There is no way on this planet, this country, in this economy that I can ever make the money I made when working the circuit. Before I got confined to the wheel chair I was a nanny/day care owner. I take state payments for child care so I don't make much. (State pays about $4 an hour per child for day care) So when I do seek a live in slave, I am very clear that I expect them to hold at least a part time job and contribute to the household. I don't feel that this is "financial domination" because if you live on your own you have expenses to pay anyway. (and I always set 20% of a submissive's salary in a bank account so that s/he has a nest egg should s/he get sick, or choose to leave my household, there is something there for him/her to fall back on)

For every financial domme I see, I get tons of letters from submissives looking to be "my prisoner" or my "never leave the house slave" which is code for "I don't want to work I just want to live off you." So I don't believe that the "financial" aspect is strictly a female Dominant problem but as previously mentioned, an "I don't want to work" problem that is familiar across the board. Every time I am clear that I expect a submissive to hold employment and contribute to the household I get accused of being a "financial domme". I don't expect a submissive to carry the financial obligations of my household any more than I expect them to shoulder all the chores (when I'm not in a wheel chair I'm a compulsive cleaner) When you share a household, you share all of it, in my opinion.

So that's just my 5 cents (2 cents plus 3 for inflation) LOL

Lady Eternity

edited for really dumb spelling mistakes

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RE: Financial Domme's?Yea right - 8/30/2010 9:23:00 AM   
Charles6682


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Status: offline 		LadyEternity,I completely agree with you.I think it is only fair that a sub/slave contribute to the overall household bill's.That is just basic common sense.Bill's have to be paid,food need's to be bought,this stuff dosen't just come out of thin air.I am sure there are "submissive's"who are only looking for a freeride.It is only fair and reasonsable for a sub/slave to pay their fairshare.

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