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Is BDSM and a exclusive lover relationship desired in that community or against the point?


About charnal pleasure, we have no problem leaving love behind.
  0% (0)
Depends with who
  46% (6)
I want a harem
  7% (1)
If my lover touched someone else I'd force feed its corpse to him/her
  30% (4)
I want my lover to be loyal but I wouldn't mind using a human sex toy
  15% (2)


Total Votes : 13
(last vote on : 8/29/2010 12:34:03 PM)
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RE: Is BDSM and a exclusive lover relationship desired ... - 8/29/2010 10:18:33 AM   
NuevaVida


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Status: offline 		Reminds me of my owner's story.  His second wife was gorgeous - supermodel looking.  Turned out to be a crazy bitch, too. When divorcing her, she said "You'll never find another body like mine."  His thought in reply was, "If it's attached to your heart, I don't want it."

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RE: Is BDSM and a exclusive lover relationship desired ... - 8/29/2010 10:42:18 AM   
Outlier2


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Status: offline 		Lisa,

Being so young and ignorant you dismiss anything
except surface appearance.  Your problem is nothing
new, it is at least as old as Shakespeare. 

"In nature there's no blemish but the mind;
None can be called deformed but the unkind."

Your problem is your lack of vision.
HINT:  It has nothing to do with your glasses.

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RE: Is BDSM and a exclusive lover relationship desired ... - 8/29/2010 12:23:50 PM   
lizi


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ORIGINAL: KyttynTheMynx

I will never understand people that point out their flaws, and expect them to be accepted, but want nothing but perfection from a partner. This isnt high school. Its the real world.

I could go for the hot guy, but if he doesnt have a personality, what fun is that? The hot guy could go for you, but frankly, your personality sucks. So why should he stick around? Chew on that for a bit, please.

At any rate, its posts like these that make me love the fact that I am multifaceted and ave never settled for one type of person. I have dated the mama's boy. I had a very loving relationship with the "fatso". And I love me some nerds (smart guys get me so hot!).

So ask yourself, "Am I the person, the person that I want, wants?" And dont ask yourself this question while wearing your rose colored glasses. Be really honest with yourself.


The first man I dated for more than coffee after my marital separation a few years ago was amazingly hot and a body builder to boot. I could not believe he was interested in me- at the time I was carrying more weight and I was emotionally rocky after my marriage problems. He was great fun, and in the end I was the one who left. I couldn't talk to the man, couldn't get that easy patter going with him and at that point, I knew that no matter how yummy he was he wasn't going to be anything more than an interlude in my life.

OP, you are concentrating on the wrong parts of a person - there is much more underneath the outside wrapper in some cases, and a lovely wrapper in others but sawdust inside. Plus, aren't you aware that you are setting up yourself to be judged the same way? You don't seem to be all that special from the outside and inside it's sawdust city...what do you have to offer in order to get this beautiful and perfect partner?

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RE: Is BDSM and a exclusive lover relationship desired ... - 8/29/2010 12:40:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		OP, knowing that someone is attracted to you only because of the way you look and the thought that you won't fuck around isn't going to feel good. Reading your post is not going to make anyone feel good about entering a relationship with you.

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