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janieMO -> submissive male (8/29/2010 9:29:37 AM)

hi, i am new to the D/s world, i am from the kansas city area, and would love to chat with Domme's or subs about your experiences. i am training online at http://www.mystressworld.com/memore.asp, i am learning at lot and have a wonderful but strict Mistress who is guiding my training, that i might be fit to serve a Mistress. love to hear from you.



LadyPact -> RE: submissive male (8/29/2010 9:33:36 AM)

You may be very interested in reading this thread.  http://www.collarchat.com/m_3379450/tm.htm  



stef -> RE: submissive male (8/29/2010 9:37:13 AM)

Welcome!

What wonderful things are you learning from your wonderful but strict mistress?

~stef



LadyPact -> RE: submissive male (8/29/2010 9:39:27 AM)

That's stef.  No worries, OP.  She's just handing you a shovel so you can dig a deeper hole.

Welcome to the boards.



janieMO -> RE: submissive male (8/29/2010 9:41:38 AM)

i have taken lessons to rid myself o pigmale attitudes, and embrace the concept that women are superior to me, and should obey them in all ways, how to properly address my Mistress. she has introduced my to orgasm control, cumming only on her command, the eating of my cum, i am now in chastity. pain in the way of nipple and cock and ball torture with clothes pins, the building of a device to present my balls and cock for her amusement.



Twoshoes -> RE: submissive male (8/29/2010 9:43:59 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: janieMO

i have taken lessons to rid myself o pigmale attitudes,


Oh, come on, not the "pigmale attitudes", surely...

Those are the most fun.



LadyPact -> RE: submissive male (8/29/2010 9:44:26 AM)

I guess you couldn't have learned those things by interacting with folks in physical BDSM venues.  Keep paying that monthly fee.  Perhaps it will help the economy.



janieMO -> RE: submissive male (8/29/2010 9:44:28 AM)

thank you, and i am eager to dig the hole.



SylvereApLeanan -> RE: submissive male (8/29/2010 9:53:11 AM)

Hello from south Kansas City (near Grandview). I have to say, with the number of kink groups in this and the surrounding areas, I can't imagine why you're training online as opposed to attending some of the munches and live demos that happen all month long. There are much better options available for you. I'd be happy to recommend some, if you're interested.



tiggerspoohbear -> RE: submissive male (8/29/2010 9:55:02 AM)

Welcome to the nut house. I'm sure someone here can teach you to dig your own hole, and wouldn't even charge you for it. Now wouldn't that be a grand thing? [8|] [:D]



janieMO -> RE: submissive male (8/29/2010 11:22:55 AM)

i am interested, i am married to a vanilla wife, so i have to work around that problem. please send me any suggestions that you think might work for me. tks



LadyPact -> RE: submissive male (8/29/2010 11:25:04 AM)

How about taking yourself and the wife to a local munch?



OttersSwim -> RE: submissive male (8/29/2010 11:28:22 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: janieMO

i am interested, i am married to a vanilla wife, so i have to work around that problem. please send me any suggestions that you think might work for me. tks


*Hands the OP the keys to the backhoe*

And does your wife know about your online activities/proclivities?



stef -> RE: submissive male (8/29/2010 11:29:50 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: janieMO

i am interested, i am married to a vanilla wife, so i have to work around that problem. please send me any suggestions that you think might work for me. tks

Does your wife know about your online mistress?

~stef



Tantriqu -> RE: submissive male (8/29/2010 11:30:54 AM)

Well, THERE's yer problem!



janieMO -> RE: submissive male (8/29/2010 11:31:51 AM)

no, she would not accept that or tolerate the behavior, its just private for me alone. i do have time each week to get away from the house.



LadyPact -> RE: submissive male (8/29/2010 11:33:29 AM)

OK.  So women are superior to you, yet your wife doesn't deserve honesty and integrity?

I'm confused.



ScaryJello -> RE: submissive male (8/29/2010 11:34:57 AM)

I'm always confused when people think that a gender is superior to another. Course the rest of his posts are confusing me as well.



OttersSwim -> RE: submissive male (8/29/2010 11:46:27 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: janieMO

no, she would not accept that or tolerate the behavior, its just private for me alone. i do have time each week to get away from the house.


Mystress world is not going to teach you one of the most important tenants of BDSM - honesty and trust.  BDSM relationships are built on both parties being honest and establishing a relationship of trust.  For the vast majority of people engaging in BDSM dynamics and relationships, the fact that you are betraying your wife totally violates any concept of trusting you and would thereby totally invalidate you as a potential partner for -any- interaction.

Further, by taking your desires outside of your marriage without your spouses knowledge or consent (another HUGE concept in BDSM, BTW), you have created a giant land mine upon which you have stepped.  You cannot now even introduce her to the concept of kink without risking her knowing your history and risking exposure...BOOM...your entire life dissolves into tears and lawyers.

Serious thought is required before you go any further with either online interactions with paysites, or with an actual person.

Do the right thing.



stef -> RE: submissive male (8/29/2010 11:47:40 AM)

You're "in chastity" but your wife doesn't know or mind?  How does that work?

~stef



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