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submissive male - 8/29/2010 9:29:37 AM   
janieMO


Posts: 7
Joined: 8/29/2010
From: kansas city
Status: offline 		hi, i am new to the D/s world, i am from the kansas city area, and would love to chat with Domme's or subs about your experiences. i am training online at http://www.mystressworld.com/memore.asp, i am learning at lot and have a wonderful but strict Mistress who is guiding my training, that i might be fit to serve a Mistress. love to hear from you.
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RE: submissive male - 8/29/2010 9:33:36 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		You may be very interested in reading this thread.  http://www.collarchat.com/m_3379450/tm.htm  

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RE: submissive male - 8/29/2010 9:37:13 AM   
stef


Posts: 10215
Joined: 1/26/2004
Status: offline 		Welcome!

What wonderful things are you learning from your wonderful but strict mistress?

~stef


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RE: submissive male - 8/29/2010 9:39:27 AM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline 		That's stef.  No worries, OP.  She's just handing you a shovel so you can dig a deeper hole.

Welcome to the boards.


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Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: submissive male - 8/29/2010 9:41:38 AM   
janieMO


Posts: 7
Joined: 8/29/2010
From: kansas city
Status: offline 		i have taken lessons to rid myself o pigmale attitudes, and embrace the concept that women are superior to me, and should obey them in all ways, how to properly address my Mistress. she has introduced my to orgasm control, cumming only on her command, the eating of my cum, i am now in chastity. pain in the way of nipple and cock and ball torture with clothes pins, the building of a device to present my balls and cock for her amusement.

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RE: submissive male - 8/29/2010 9:43:59 AM   
Twoshoes


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quote:

ORIGINAL: janieMO

i have taken lessons to rid myself o pigmale attitudes,


Oh, come on, not the "pigmale attitudes", surely...

Those are the most fun.

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RE: submissive male - 8/29/2010 9:44:26 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I guess you couldn't have learned those things by interacting with folks in physical BDSM venues.  Keep paying that monthly fee.  Perhaps it will help the economy.

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Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: submissive male - 8/29/2010 9:44:28 AM   
janieMO


Posts: 7
Joined: 8/29/2010
From: kansas city
Status: offline 		thank you, and i am eager to dig the hole.

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RE: submissive male - 8/29/2010 9:53:11 AM   
SylvereApLeanan


Posts: 8275
Joined: 11/1/2007
From: Hell
Status: offline 		Hello from south Kansas City (near Grandview). I have to say, with the number of kink groups in this and the surrounding areas, I can't imagine why you're training online as opposed to attending some of the munches and live demos that happen all month long. There are much better options available for you. I'd be happy to recommend some, if you're interested.

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RE: submissive male - 8/29/2010 9:55:02 AM   
tiggerspoohbear


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Joined: 6/27/2010
Status: offline 		Welcome to the nut house. I'm sure someone here can teach you to dig your own hole, and wouldn't even charge you for it. Now wouldn't that be a grand thing?

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RE: submissive male - 8/29/2010 11:22:55 AM   
janieMO


Posts: 7
Joined: 8/29/2010
From: kansas city
Status: offline 		i am interested, i am married to a vanilla wife, so i have to work around that problem. please send me any suggestions that you think might work for me. tks

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RE: submissive male - 8/29/2010 11:25:04 AM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline 		How about taking yourself and the wife to a local munch?

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Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: submissive male - 8/29/2010 11:28:22 AM   
OttersSwim


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quote:

ORIGINAL: janieMO

i am interested, i am married to a vanilla wife, so i have to work around that problem. please send me any suggestions that you think might work for me. tks


*Hands the OP the keys to the backhoe*

And does your wife know about your online activities/proclivities?


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RE: submissive male - 8/29/2010 11:29:50 AM   
stef


Posts: 10215
Joined: 1/26/2004
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quote:

ORIGINAL: janieMO

i am interested, i am married to a vanilla wife, so i have to work around that problem. please send me any suggestions that you think might work for me. tks

Does your wife know about your online mistress?

~stef


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RE: submissive male - 8/29/2010 11:30:54 AM   
Tantriqu


Posts: 2026
Joined: 12/29/2006
Status: offline 		Well, THERE's yer problem!

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RE: submissive male - 8/29/2010 11:31:51 AM   
janieMO


Posts: 7
Joined: 8/29/2010
From: kansas city
Status: offline 		no, she would not accept that or tolerate the behavior, its just private for me alone. i do have time each week to get away from the house.

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RE: submissive male - 8/29/2010 11:33:29 AM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline 		OK.  So women are superior to you, yet your wife doesn't deserve honesty and integrity?

I'm confused.


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The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: submissive male - 8/29/2010 11:34:57 AM   
ScaryJello


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Joined: 10/19/2006
Status: offline 		I'm always confused when people think that a gender is superior to another. Course the rest of his posts are confusing me as well.

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RE: submissive male - 8/29/2010 11:46:27 AM   
OttersSwim


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quote:

ORIGINAL: janieMO

no, she would not accept that or tolerate the behavior, its just private for me alone. i do have time each week to get away from the house.


Mystress world is not going to teach you one of the most important tenants of BDSM - honesty and trust.  BDSM relationships are built on both parties being honest and establishing a relationship of trust.  For the vast majority of people engaging in BDSM dynamics and relationships, the fact that you are betraying your wife totally violates any concept of trusting you and would thereby totally invalidate you as a potential partner for -any- interaction.

Further, by taking your desires outside of your marriage without your spouses knowledge or consent (another HUGE concept in BDSM, BTW), you have created a giant land mine upon which you have stepped.  You cannot now even introduce her to the concept of kink without risking her knowing your history and risking exposure...BOOM...your entire life dissolves into tears and lawyers.

Serious thought is required before you go any further with either online interactions with paysites, or with an actual person.

Do the right thing.


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RE: submissive male - 8/29/2010 11:47:40 AM   
stef


Posts: 10215
Joined: 1/26/2004
Status: offline 		You're "in chastity" but your wife doesn't know or mind?  How does that work?

~stef


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Welcome to PoliticSpace! If you came here expecting meaningful BDSM discussions, boy are you in the wrong place.

"Hypocrisy has consequences"

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