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sexyred1 -> RE: Age differences... (9/7/2010 8:56:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: daddysliloneds he's half your age, or less than half if i may ask? when menopause kicks in and hrt's are out of the question, you need lube all the time because you can't just get wet naturally, they take it personally... when you exercise your ass off, haven't gained a pound in 10 or more years, but your body tone went down the toilet, again, menopause related, you lose their attention... when you're running neck and neck with them in regards to who is growing more facial hair in a week, you've lost them. of course, there's also the huge differences in life experiences, music and educational things, the things you enjoy doing, the people and environment that you enjoy being in/around, even the differences in eating schedules and bed-times change things. i've found that older men tend to hold onto younger women longer than older women hang on to younger men; but that's just what i've encountered. I think you made way too many generalizations here. There are many women post menopause, who don't experience all those physical issues. Even if they did, they know how to deal with and take care of it. If someone is into you, they don't see what you often see. I was with a much younger guys for 12 years and every flaw I thought I saw, he was blind to. We had other reasons we broke up about, but none of them were physical or looks or sexually.

FamilyofM -> RE: Age differences... (9/8/2010 12:06:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SubPet715 The only problem I have come across is just very recent. I have not sent a message out to a domme for a few days as I have been busy with work, 12 hour days and the like, anyway... They message me with adulation on my diction or my new profile photo and when I respond to them i'm often treated as if I am a clingy little kid. My last response to someone saying "nice pic, real cute" was..."Thank you, I wasn't sure about it but reading that from you is a real confidence booster". I'm not sure what went through her mind but she then responded "A thank you would have been enough" and I was a tad insulted. Because I tried to reply with something to query as to why she responded that way and I was blocked, not really sure why... My only guess was that she thought I wanted to start something or that I had some plan in mind, people are just odd that way...perhaps i'm dwelling too much on this. The only reason I put it here was that she was 43, so I may just be nitpicking but it sure did stick in my mind all day. I too tend to dwell on things not worth the effort. You are sweet and intelligent. You appear to have a lot to offer. Patience is your key. That is the problem most of us are aware of with words sent from a keyboard, inflection, intent, etc. do not always come across properly no matter how many emoticons you use. Mistress Michelle

FamilyofM -> RE: Age differences... (9/8/2010 12:09:33 PM)
Thank you again to all who posted it does warm the soul to know that there are many relationships that have successfully survived despite age differences.

BOUNTYHUNTER -> RE: Age differences... (9/8/2010 12:14:33 PM)
I view age as just a thing, as long as the oldest pardner is still health and vibrant, with Diane its a 20 year difference and with raven and Gabriel it around 40 year difference so as long as I am health and able to perform my Masterly duty's I don't see a problem with age..Just this ol' Masters two cents..Bounty

ranja -> RE: Age differences... (9/8/2010 12:26:42 PM)
there's 15 years between my Husband and me, we have been together for 20 years. We've had ups and downs... some of it maybe age relating... Sometimes i think He is a boring old fart and i am sure He thinks i am an annoying twit at times too we suit eachother

facinated -> RE: Age differences... (9/8/2010 4:57:11 PM)
Generally speaking the younger a sub is the more work she is going to be. The less interests outside the scene there will be in common. The less shared world experiences. I'm talking in excess of 15 years difference here. I think you would have to be very committed to get involved with a much younger sub, for me it has been this issue of the daddy dom thing so the age difference has been part of the attraction. The issue is it's a lot of effort and it's never going to be a permanent thing. In fact the better you do the shorter it is going to last, as she grows and matures she is going to want to spread her wings. Cheers Gary

Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: Age differences... (9/8/2010 5:03:31 PM)
That's a very generalized broad and sweeping statement you got going there. Not all men or women will loose interest in their partner, when there's a age gap, and yes I dare say even a big or huge one, and their body tone changed. Some people are in it for life, and see the quality of the personality an the love that brought them together, not the packaging, that holds the love and personality. Some will, some won't and to make it sound like an absolute, is just not true. and is a generalization. And not every one who's an older woman who went through menopause will loose body tone, it's again, subjective to the women in question. quote: ORIGINAL: daddysliloneds when you exercise your ass off, haven't gained a pound in 10 or more years, but your body tone went down the toilet, again, menopause related, you lose their attention...

bellesoumise -> RE: Age differences... (9/8/2010 5:30:24 PM)
No, too many things factor in on what will make a sub more difficult. It could be age, it could be baggage, it could be lack of maturity.... you get my drift here. quote: Generally speaking the younger a sub is the more work she is going to be. Not all 21 year olds are just interested in partying, who's boyfriend is hotter, or shopping. It has more to do with personality and the atmosphere they were brought up in. quote: The less interests outside the scene there will be in common. This different with every person. Some younger subs are like this, always searching for the next best thing. But older women can be the same way. quote: In fact the better you do the shorter it is going to last, as she grows and matures she is going to want to spread her wings.

KnightofMists -> RE: Age differences... (9/8/2010 5:32:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 quote: ORIGINAL: daddysliloneds he's half your age, or less than half if i may ask? when menopause kicks in and hrt's are out of the question, you need lube all the time because you can't just get wet naturally, they take it personally... when you exercise your ass off, haven't gained a pound in 10 or more years, but your body tone went down the toilet, again, menopause related, you lose their attention... when you're running neck and neck with them in regards to who is growing more facial hair in a week, you've lost them. of course, there's also the huge differences in life experiences, music and educational things, the things you enjoy doing, the people and environment that you enjoy being in/around, even the differences in eating schedules and bed-times change things. i've found that older men tend to hold onto younger women longer than older women hang on to younger men; but that's just what i've encountered. I think you made way too many generalizations here. There are many women post menopause, who don't experience all those physical issues. Even if they did, they know how to deal with and take care of it. If someone is into you, they don't see what you often see. I was with a much younger guys for 12 years and every flaw I thought I saw, he was blind to. We had other reasons we broke up about, but none of them were physical or looks or sexually. aaaaaaaww come on Sexy.... we all know that us men are highly sexual insecure and it is only the dripping wet pussies that make us feel and look like a man! When you think about it... I am sadden to think about all those dried up menopausal women that secretly lube themselves up for the sake of our weak egos.... Oh my what a burden it is for these poor women... I would imagine they have cursed over and over again those evil people that made viagra. I hope there is some support group for these poor women that are closet lubers and maybe some day they will be free of this awful burden.

MrKicia -> RE: Age differences... (9/8/2010 5:37:46 PM)
This is not kink related by my wifes parents cant stand living with one another anymore. They have a 17 year difference. Though there are many other problems in the relationship that are contributing to the discontent.

LadyRian -> RE: Age differences... (9/8/2010 5:56:12 PM)
Age really is just a number. Much more important is the maturity level, and personal compatibility of both parties involved. The largest age difference between Myself and another is 23 years. the relationship ended not because of an age difference, in fact, he behaved like the crabby old geezer out of the two if us!

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