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ORIGINAL: daddysliloneds

he's half your age, or less than half if i may ask?

when menopause kicks in and hrt's are out of the question, you need lube all the time because you can't just get wet naturally, they take it personally...

when you exercise your ass off, haven't gained a pound in 10 or more years, but your body tone went down the toilet, again, menopause related, you lose their attention...

when you're running neck and neck with them in regards to who is growing more facial hair in a week, you've lost them.

of course, there's also the huge differences in life experiences, music and educational things, the things you enjoy doing, the people and environment that you enjoy being in/around, even the differences in eating schedules and bed-times change things.

i've found that older men tend to hold onto younger women longer than older women hang on to younger men; but that's just what i've encountered.

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ORIGINAL: SubPet715

The only problem I have come across is just very recent.

I have not sent a message out to a domme for a few days as I have been busy with work, 12 hour days and the like, anyway...
They message me with adulation on my diction or my new profile photo and when I respond to them i'm often treated as if I am a clingy little kid. My last response to someone saying "nice pic, real cute" was..."Thank you, I wasn't sure about it but reading that from you is a real confidence booster".

I'm not sure what went through her mind but she then responded "A thank you would have been enough" and I was a tad insulted. Because I tried to reply with something to query as to why she responded that way and I was blocked, not really sure why...

My only guess was that she thought I wanted to start something or that I had some plan in mind, people are just odd that way...perhaps i'm dwelling too much on this.
The only reason I put it here was that she was 43, so I may just be nitpicking but it sure did stick in my mind all day.

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ORIGINAL: daddysliloneds



when you exercise your ass off, haven't gained a pound in 10 or more years, but your body tone went down the toilet, again, menopause related, you lose their attention...

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Generally speaking the younger a sub is the more work she is going to be.

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The less interests outside the scene there will be in common.

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In fact the better you do the shorter it is going to last, as she grows and matures she is going to want to spread her wings.

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: daddysliloneds

he's half your age, or less than half if i may ask?

when menopause kicks in and hrt's are out of the question, you need lube all the time because you can't just get wet naturally, they take it personally...

when you exercise your ass off, haven't gained a pound in 10 or more years, but your body tone went down the toilet, again, menopause related, you lose their attention...

when you're running neck and neck with them in regards to who is growing more facial hair in a week, you've lost them.

of course, there's also the huge differences in life experiences, music and educational things, the things you enjoy doing, the people and environment that you enjoy being in/around, even the differences in eating schedules and bed-times change things.

i've found that older men tend to hold onto younger women longer than older women hang on to younger men; but that's just what i've encountered.

I think you made way too many generalizations here. There are many women post menopause, who don't experience all those physical issues. Even if they did, they know how to deal with and take care of it.

If someone is into you, they don't see what you often see.

I was with a much younger guys for 12 years and every flaw I thought I saw, he was blind to.

We had other reasons we broke up about, but none of them were physical or looks or sexually.