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WikedUncle -> RE: is there any ranking system for subs/slaves (4/27/2006 3:14:01 PM)
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is there any ranking system to determine honesty/committment and submissiveness
No. (Executive Summary)
I didn't dig very deep into this thread, but what I saw as far as I went encouraged me. It seems there is always someone who will tell you that whatever fantasy you desire does exist. Congratulations to the many who have said (sometimes bluntly) that what you want doesn't exist. The only opinions that matter are those you and your partner have of one another. If you're that concerned about what other people think, you'd best sit down fast and figure out why.
Sorry, these are relationships. They are very complex relationships that demand much more of you than most vanilla ones. If you came to BDSM expecting things would be easy, that "Me Tarzan, you Jane" would cut it, and that there's a rule book for everything, you need to try another address. (There are several such fantasies available online but discretion forbids me to mention them.) If you are really motivated, have found out that what we do is a root part of your being, then keep at it, even if that means asking questions that sometimes bring out our sarcasm rather than our helping hand.
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