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RE: what do you fear most ? - 5/8/2006 7:07:44 AM   
wetrope


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Status: offline 		Thanks for all the ideas, now I can make a list and use it.  caned tits,  that special flogger.  But you forgot the fan belt, rubber hose, caned inner thighs, weights.  Wish I didnt have these sadist thots.

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RE: what do you fear most ? - 5/8/2006 6:13:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: wetrope

Thanks for all the ideas, now I can make a list and use it.  caned tits,  that special flogger.  But you forgot the fan belt, rubber hose, caned inner thighs, weights.  Wish I didnt have these sadist thots.


OMG, the rubber hose...............

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RE: what do you fear most ? - 5/8/2006 8:39:23 PM   
akisha


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Status: offline 		Being locked in the dark would be the ultimate worst. I have an over active imagination and a terrible fear of bugs and mice. I'd just know something icky was in there about to touch me.

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RE: what do you fear most ? - 5/8/2006 8:44:53 PM   
SparklyAltoGirl


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Status: offline 		Other than dismissal, I fear total darkness. Daddy has attempted to put blindfolds on me and I've had massive, full blown panic attacks everytime. Also heights, but since I'm always down here and Daddy is up there, no problem with that!

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RE: what do you fear most ? - 5/9/2006 11:13:40 AM   
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ORIGINAL: wetrope

Thanks for all the ideas, now I can make a list and use it.  caned tits,  that special flogger.  But you forgot the fan belt, rubber hose, caned inner thighs, weights.  Wish I didnt have these sadist thots.



Mmmm those sound more like a reward than a punishment!  cat-o-nine tails, latigo leather flogger. *S* 


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RE: what do you fear most ? - 5/9/2006 11:56:41 AM   
Bearlee


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Status: offline 		...speaking of rubber hoses; what about a sjambock?  UGG...just the word!

But really, what I fear the most is withdrawal.  If He withdraws from me, ceases to make eye contact or speak to me or touch me, I just feel panicked.  It's crushing, sad, scary; abusive even.  If a girl were to do something wrong, lord knows she wouldn't have done it on purpose!  I'd rather be sat down for a good talking to...and leave the play for just that; play!

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RE: what do you fear most ? - 5/9/2006 12:01:07 PM   
slavegirl18666


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Status: offline 		My main fears all all mental (rejection and such), no real physical fears, but i do have forms of punishment that i wouldn't choose for myself, there are ones that i like and ones that are unpleasent... Like the cattle prod for instance... i mean, that's a sensation i can do without for sure.

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RE: what do you fear most ? - 5/9/2006 8:45:47 PM   
LindaLashes


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Status: offline 		I haven´t tried a punishment I feared afterwards, but then again I haven´t given Mistress that many reasons to punish me.
It felt really bad when Mistress completely ignored me once as a punishment for ignoring her, but I learned from my huge mistake and wont repeat it if I can help it. If I do, then I accept my punishment since it´s Mistresses way amongs ways of teaching me.

There is a thing that isn´t a punishment but I fear alot. I´m in a poly-relationship, Mistress has a Master who owns us both. I´m her slave because Master gave her permission (Master lives in another country and Mistress visits him regularly, I´ve only met him once).
I sometimes think what would happen if Master decided to end the D/s relationship between Mistress and me. It´s highly unlikely since Mistress enjoys alot having me around and since she´s not allowed to be submissive to anyone but Master, she found another outlet for her switch tendencies,, domming me. :)
They have both expressed their admiration for my submissive nature and real progress in learning to be a proper slave so I shouldn´t fear a thing, but there´s always a teensy tiny creeping doubt, never say never.

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RE: what do you fear most ? - 5/26/2006 8:50:24 AM   
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Status: offline 		Mostly i fear abandonment and silence i cant stand silence

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RE: what do you fear most ? - 5/26/2006 8:53:29 AM   
SenseofBelonging


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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

I do not fear physical punishments as those are supposed to be rewards (especially for a masochist). The punishment I fear most is not being spoken to. Being left. I guess I have abandonment issues..lol


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RE: what do you fear most ? - 6/3/2006 10:05:54 AM   
daddysprop247


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Status: offline 		obviously physical punishments are not among my greatest fears, but i realize that is what the topic is about so i will stick to that subject. it's hard for me to pinpoint any specific physical thing...it's more an overall state that i fear. i fear angering my Master to the point that he cuts off all the brakes...that he just releases, vents, in the harshest physical ways, without thinking of the harm brought to me in the moment. maybe a slew of broken bones...things of that nature.

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RE: what do you fear most ? - 6/3/2006 10:16:22 AM   
Tikkiee


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Status: offline 		Hmm, physical punishment.
 
The silence that comes from knowing that he is upset with something that I did or said.

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RE: what do you fear most ? - 6/3/2006 11:08:53 AM   
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ORIGINAL: spectreandnectre

Mostly i fear abandonment and silence i cant stand silence


I have to agree with these two things listed above.  Both make me feel very unsteady and isolated, especially if they come from my Master.

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RE: what do you fear most ? - 6/3/2006 11:37:06 AM   
champagnewishes


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Status: offline 		Call me the odd duck...i don't fear physical punishment....  The mental disappointment and anquish i bring upon myself is far worse.   I can honestly say that i have never been physically punished....but oh that disappointment that is written on their face just about kills me. 

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RE: what do you fear most ? - 6/3/2006 11:45:41 AM   
angelface183


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Status: offline 		What do I fear most?  My Master leaving me.

There is no physical punishment that I fear.  SacredDom only punishes me if I deserve it and He will not go past my limits.  I know that He will not cause me permanent damage or harm and therefore give me no reason to hate Him.  I trust Him and accept any punishment that He chooses to give. 

I suppose that the worst thing that He could do would be to ignore me.

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RE: what do you fear most ? - 6/3/2006 12:22:18 PM   
sweetsubie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: akisha

Being locked in the dark would be the ultimate worst. I have an over active imagination and a terrible fear of bugs and mice. I'd just know something icky was in there about to touch me.


i have a similar fear i shudder at the thought euck, aside from that though i think my fear wouldnt be physical either, id hate for my Master to dismiss me or ignore me. As for the physical punishments im in no way a masochist so most corpral punishments scare me initially but once we get into it its not so bad as i know they are done to better me, so if Master didnt do it would be alot worse.

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RE: what do you fear most ? - 6/3/2006 1:31:27 PM   
iliv2servher


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ORIGINAL: KarbonCopy

quote:

ORIGINAL: stacyandjohn

yes every slave  fear ignorance and expultion ..
but what is  most painful physical punishment you always fear .. is it genital or something else ... please explain .


Losing my identity, somehow losing sight of myself.
I live for myself, and for my partner.

There is always a possibility that my partner will not be with me forever, and so the one main constant in my life that I can always fall back on, is myself. To lose that is the greatest fear of all.

I dont have much to live for as it is, to lose that would take everything away from me.




Loosing one's identity is a very big issue for a submissive or slave.  When we are single we have the expectation of a certain amount of freedom.  And when we pledge ourselves to another, we run the risk of loosing that freedom when we defer to the dom/domme.  Therein lies the question: Would we be happy enough without those freedoms or would we miss and resent not having them?  I think that, when a sub or slave agrees to enter into a TPE relationship, they have a reasonable expactation that they will loose those freedoms.  Bit it basically depends on the demands of the dom/domme.  So, how a sub deals with these losses really predict just how happy or unhappy they will be as a result.

Anytime we enter into a relationship with another person, we run the risk that our lover, parnter, master, mistress, submissive or slave might not be around forever.  After all, life is a gamble; and relationships might not be lasting ones.  But we try anyway.


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RE: what do you fear most ? - 6/3/2006 4:20:06 PM   
babysburnin


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Status: offline 		I'm going through a couple of "personal struggles" at the moment.  My Dom is an "immediate - action/immediate-results" kinda guy.  I'm more of a "let me lick my wounds for a second here" kinda gal.  I worry that he will become frustrated with me...or see me as a "loser".  I'm not - and he has never made any indication that he would ever view me that way....BUT, that's my biggest fear.

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RE: what do you fear most ? - 6/3/2006 10:10:18 PM   
liljeanti


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Status: offline 		I dont fear any physical punishments at this time.  I do however have a fear of him being disapointed in me, a fear of  abandonment and being ignored, and also a fear of silence.  I dont like any of them and fear all of them. 

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RE: what do you fear most ? - 6/3/2006 10:18:18 PM   
tangldupinblue


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Status: offline 		water. i fear water, mostly when its on my face, the idea of having it flow into my mouth and nose makes me want to throw up, but the first time i knew i had found my Daddy was when he was very nicely giveing me a bath after beating me for hours and he put his hand across my mouth and nose and slowly slid my whole head under water, we never broke eye contact with each other, it was a mind blowing experience and one that i will only do with him.

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