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stacyandjohn -> what do you fear most ? (4/22/2006 9:10:14 AM)

yes every slave  fear ignorance and expultion ..
but what is  most painful physical punishment you always fear .. is it genital or something else ... please explain .



DarkSideOfThMoon -> RE: what do you fear most ? (4/22/2006 9:24:38 AM)

Sir has a horrid black high density cane he uses for punishment



juliaoceania -> RE: what do you fear most ? (4/22/2006 10:07:29 AM)

I do not fear physical punishments as those are supposed to be rewards (especially for a masochist). The punishment I fear most is not being spoken to. Being left. I guess I have abandonment issues..lol[sm=boohoo.gif]



subjected2006 -> RE: what do you fear most ? (4/22/2006 10:13:06 AM)

abandonment is my biggest fear..being ignored hurts the worst of any punishment
ild rather get caned tits..



littleone35 -> RE: what do you fear most ? (4/22/2006 10:15:09 AM)

I guess i wouls say being released  but my Master said that is never gonna happen.  Physical punishments i guess that would be the strap he used it once and i never want to feel it again.

Matt's littleone



fullofgrace -> RE: what do you fear most ? (4/22/2006 10:40:30 AM)

this isn't a punishment for me, but i'm not particularly fond of nipple clamps. as far as fears, my biggest one is abandonment, or right now, His death - because i've seen so much death lately, i've become rather paranoid about it.



TemptingNviceSub -> RE: what do you fear most ? (4/22/2006 11:30:14 AM)

I can only guess it would be utter lack of control on Dominants part...Tempting



BitaTruble -> RE: what do you fear most ? (4/22/2006 2:25:11 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: stacyandjohn

yes every slave  fear ignorance and expultion ..
but what is  most painful physical punishment you always fear .. is it genital or something else ... please explain .


I have no fear of punishment. I don't enjoy bringing it about because I've done something which was not in keeping with what I am and desire to be for him but it just means that I'm not perfect.  While it's rarely necessary, when it is, I embrace it for the value it brings to my service. It's a tool of tweaking to correct behavior or an idea which does not fit in with the service Himself would have me provide.

Celeste



ownedgirlie -> RE: what do you fear most ? (4/22/2006 2:30:11 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

quote:

ORIGINAL: stacyandjohn

yes every slave  fear ignorance and expultion ..
but what is  most painful physical punishment you always fear .. is it genital or something else ... please explain .


I have no fear of punishment. I don't enjoy bringing it about because I've done something which was not in keeping with what I am and desire to be for him but it just means that I'm not perfect.  While it's rarely necessary, when it is, I embrace it for the value it brings to my service. It's a tool of tweaking to correct behavior or an idea which does not fit in with the service Himself would have me provide.

Celeste


Stop pulling my thoughts from my mind!



amaidiamond -> RE: what do you fear most ? (4/22/2006 3:13:05 PM)

Being abandoned, feeling his disapointment, knowing i need correction, those are the worst things, physically I guess....... I find clamps hard due to extremly sensitive nipples and also thin whippity canes *shudders*



fyreredsub -> RE: what do you fear most ? (4/22/2006 3:19:38 PM)

the worst pnishment isn't always physical.
this one thinks it all depends on the sub;/slave in question.
if one is a pain slut receiving pain isnt a punishment now is it?



slaveofdarkhold -> RE: what do you fear most ? (4/22/2006 3:26:08 PM)

On a purely physical level, the riding crop is not my friend (but i love the marks it leaves). Never tried a cane but that scares me hugely.
The 'toy' that terrifies me most is the ball gag, but my issues with that are so huge he would never use it as a punishment as it would be downright evil and probably end in a panic attack.
Standard disclaimer applies- other non physical punishments can be worse but i know my Master would never ignore or abandon me so that isn't a fear of mine. His disappointment hurts though. But I am not a pain slut, and so physical punishments do scare me



KarbonCopy -> RE: what do you fear most ? (4/22/2006 4:12:14 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: stacyandjohn

yes every slave  fear ignorance and expultion ..
but what is  most painful physical punishment you always fear .. is it genital or something else ... please explain .


Losing my identity, somehow losing sight of myself.
I live for myself, and for my partner.

There is always a possibility that my partner will not be with me forever, and so the one main constant in my life that I can always fall back on, is myself. To lose that is the greatest fear of all.

I dont have much to live for as it is, to lose that would take everything away from me.




darq -> RE: what do you fear most ? (4/22/2006 4:24:35 PM)

Being ignored is horrible ...

Also, and I realize this isn't punishment, its abuse ... However, when it was done, the person doing it told me it was as a punishment ... The most horrifying thing I ever faced was when an ex intentionally pushed me so hard that I disociated for about 3 hours. I still get scared of that happening again whenever I get into a stressful situation ... There's nothing more terrifying than literally being out of control of yourself ... It was like I was trapped outside of myself, watching and listening and unable to do anything about it while he just kept going and going and pushing and hurting and everything ...



KarbonCopy -> RE: what do you fear most ? (4/22/2006 4:30:32 PM)

Well I guess there is one way to make abuse a tollerable act.

Just disguise it as a "punnishment" no wonder supreme courts want to shut us down.
Just idiotic, like the abused wife that says, "But he loves me, he said he wont do it again" as she tends to her swolen eye and bleeding lip.



And to Stacyandjohn, I dont fear expulsion or ignorance.
These are traits that I will not tollerate, and if expulsion is the sentance, then I'll pack up and keep walking.



unquenchable -> RE: what do you fear most ? (4/22/2006 4:42:21 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: stacyandjohn

yes every slave  fear ignorance and expultion ..
but what is  most painful physical punishment you always fear .. is it genital or something else ... please explain .


I only fear giving a reason to be punished in the first place.

un-------



MyCaptainsPet -> RE: what do you fear most ? (4/22/2006 5:34:04 PM)

i'm  with Karbon on this one...

i don't fear ignorance or expulsion either. 

i don't fear physical punishment either.

i have nothing to fear with my C.



bandit25 -> RE: what do you fear most ? (4/22/2006 5:39:13 PM)

Caning is the worst physical punishment for me...had a Very Bad experience once.  Being unloved...unwanted would be the worst emotional punishment.



BitaTruble -> RE: what do you fear most ? (4/22/2006 5:56:36 PM)

quote:


These are traits that I will not tollerate, and if expulsion is the sentance, then I'll pack up and keep walking.



::scratches head:: So what you're saying is.. "If you tell me to leave, I'm leaving!"

Celeste



OTKkindaGirl -> RE: what do you fear most ? (4/22/2006 5:57:16 PM)

fire in the hole..... fire in the hole... OMG not fire in the hole!!!  even if it does give me uncontrollable orgasm after orgasm.... it is a certain karma sutra oil put very generously over his choice of toy and inserted into the hole of his choice.  it is hot.... oh so hot, i cannot hold still no matter how obediently i try.... it brings me near to tears faster than any other punishment i have ever had and never do i beg so much as begging to have it removed.  i'd rather be caned until i bled than deal with fire in the hole!  and yes... i have been caned until i bled (once) but not by this Master.



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