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Gage46Bstn -> RE: Being unreasonable (9/8/2010 1:27:58 PM)
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Do you really want him to ? You will feel a lot better about having the ring removed by spending a few bucks (very few) and going to a tat / piercing parlor and have an expert remove it and disinfect - along with good advice as to self care for the next week or so.
Sorry it didn't work out. I have been there where it is so close - seems so perfect, only to be let down. I have to be able to deal well with "didn't work out" well and with compassion for the submissive in order to find what I am looking for in a sub.
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ORIGINAL: shellywhite62
Started this post by telling my whole story and the reason i got in this situation but decided to just cut to the chase.
I started a relationship online with a Master with the knowledge that i would be moving to His area a month after we met online. The promise was there, the chemistry was stronger than any other i've met and so when He asked me to get a ring on my clit for Him (at His expense), i did it. (I do need to say, that piercings other than ears have always been a "hard limit" for me in the past.)
Well, the relationship ended abruptly due to my lack of judgment two weeks before we were to be together. (Yes, the relationship only lasted 3 weeks........sighs)
Now not only am i brokenhearted beyond belief, but i have this albatross on my clit. i've tried to take it out but i ended up with a sore clit. ugh I'm really afraid of ripping the skin - big chicken here. I did ask Him if He would remove it for me and at first He agreed but then decided that it wasn't up to Him.
Am i being unreasonable if i pursue Him taking it out? I really don't want anyone else to do it, besides Him or me, and since i can't seem to....
~laughs at self~ Cutting to the chase still took longer than i intended....
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