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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/3/2010 5:34:41 AM

BonesFromAsh

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ORIGINAL: NotAnAveragesub

This is for everyone to post a creative way you Dominate/humiliate your submissive or that a submissive has been Dominated with

Call me silly but I was given to understand to dominate someone was to be in control...plain and simple.

"The man who can dominate a London dinner-table can dominate the world." ~Oscar Wilde~ I believe it'll take more than a few suggestions of humiliating activities to explain dominance seeing as anyone can humiliate...both dominant and submissive.

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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/3/2010 6:15:19 AM

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Yeah, yeah - now say all that with a clown's costume on ;-)

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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/3/2010 6:18:41 AM

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A "true" dominant would be able to control while wearing the clown costume...make-up and wild wig included...all while having a fabulous meal at said London dinner table.

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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/3/2010 6:24:12 AM

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are we talking a Bozo kind of clown or the sadder kind of clown (the guy whose picture was the subject of many a velvet painting)?

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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/3/2010 6:30:04 AM

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Think Bozo with an evil grin, impeccable manners and a love of fine whine.

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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/3/2010 11:53:55 AM

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ORIGINAL: myotherself

I would make him type a message using an unfeasibly small font, Then make him Randomly capitalize Some words...

He'd feel SO stoopid!

You mean like capitalizing the "d" in the dominate and variations of its verbs instead of just doing it to nouns?

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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/3/2010 12:01:46 PM

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ORIGINAL: NotAnAveragesub

This is for everyone to post a creative way you Dominate/humiliate your submissive or that a submissive has been Dominated with. For example; Using your used gym socks as gags, Taking your underwear you wore all day and filtered water through it into your submissive's mouth, etc...

Drag her across the floor by her cunt (pussy for the Yanks) lips. Only when she's playing up though - when she's nice be nice; when she's being a cunt - punish her cunt (symbolism eh). She'll get the message and everything will fall into place.

On a serious note.....you know the answer....you know where a woman is most vulnerable....doesn't take much in the way of imagination to arrive at the obvious conclusion.....but it takes a certain detached spirit to carry it out....can't teach it......it's either in you or it's not.....

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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/5/2010 4:27:07 PM

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Subpet, I'm curious, how does LP's response, which was nothing but sarcastic insults, and only revealed her own lack of creativity 'great'? When did insulting noobs online for no reason become 'great'

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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/5/2010 4:38:58 PM

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Creative ways, eh? Well you could always make them write you a letter.
Keeps them busy, you can pretend like you care, is incredibly frustrating for some (including me), etc...

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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/5/2010 4:41:31 PM

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Your response would be more appropriately expressed to the OP.

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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/5/2010 4:51:24 PM

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

are we talking a Bozo kind of clown or the sadder kind of clown (the guy whose picture was the subject of many a velvet painting)?

Emmett_Kelly?

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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/5/2010 5:47:26 PM

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I'm terrified of clowns, I should of never clicked on that link.

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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/5/2010 5:49:46 PM

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ORIGINAL: Yourscum

Subpet, I'm curious, how does LP's response, which was nothing but sarcastic insults, and only revealed her own lack of creativity 'great'? When did insulting noobs online for no reason become 'great'

It wasn't My lack of creativity, dear. Just because I'm not willing to do someone's research for them doesn't leave Me the one who doesn't know how to put together a humiliation scene. I think My prior writing on that, as well as a number of other subjects, are more than adequate in the area of creativity. Sorry, but I didn't sign up for WriteMeWankFodder.com.

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ORIGINAL: Yourscum

Your response would be more appropriately expressed to the OP.

Ah, so it's perfectly fine for you to address subpet during the thread, to take another backhanded comment toward Me (since you're well known for your poor attitude toward female Dominants) but Twoshoes shouldn't reply according to chronological order? That's how the feature works. When someone has read the length of the thread, their reply will appear as 'in reply to' the latest entry.

ETA - Perhaps next time, you'll address Me directly, rather than attempt to be snotty to a male submissive.

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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/5/2010 6:05:18 PM

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Tigger knows that humiliation is one of my hard limits. I manage to put myself down quite well, I don't need help in that department. I'm harder on myself than he could ever be.

As for punishment, I'd prefer to be corrected for a mistake I make, as would he. I don't deliberately piss him off, it's not who I am, we can laugh and joke and tease but I'd never disobey him. That's not my nature either.

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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/5/2010 9:51:43 PM

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It's already been said in various ways, but I'll say it again(I'm not feeling very tolerant, at the moment) - if those are the only examples of "Dominance" or dominance with which one can come up, they need more guidance than they're likely to receive here.

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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/5/2010 11:10:13 PM

Outlier2

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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

Here is a radical thought:

While it does please my Master for me to share fantasies and desires with him, I also know that he is more than capable of dominating me; mastering me... that is (in all it's facets) His job.

I would not undermine His authority by asking other people for ideas [to use as wank fodder].

I just have to remember an email, a look, a touch...his fingertips on my skin or any number or real life happenings to be taken there in an instant.

It is the man that has mastered me... it isn't a bunch of things told to me by strangers on the internet.
It is the relationship with this specific person: this man, and not the wrappings in and of themselves.

"She's got it! By George! She's got it!" (Alan Jay Lerner)

I am not surprised.

Outlier

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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/14/2010 1:26:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: Yourscum

Subpet, I'm curious, how does LP's response, which was nothing but sarcastic insults, and only revealed her own lack of creativity 'great'? When did insulting noobs online for no reason become 'great'

It wasn't My lack of creativity, dear. Just because I'm not willing to do someone's research for them doesn't leave Me the one who doesn't know how to put together a humiliation scene. I think My prior writing on that, as well as a number of other subjects, are more than adequate in the area of creativity. Sorry, but I didn't sign up for WriteMeWankFodder.com.

Then don't respond to his question at all, rather than assuming it's, 'wankfodder'. All you ever seem to do is come on here and insult people, usually noobs. Is it so hard to try and help or advise people, rather than just posting sarcastic shit towards them? Apparently for you it is. It seems your confusing dominance with just being a mean. And apparently disliking your horrible attitude means I dislike female dommes in general. Quite an over generalization on your part.

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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/14/2010 1:34:21 PM

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ORIGINAL: Yourscum

All you ever seem to do is come on here and insult people, usually noobs.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAno.

AFAIC, she's one of the most helpful people *here*. I've learned a lot from Lady P. I've even, would you credit it, picked up the odd idea for a humiliation scene

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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/14/2010 1:37:57 PM

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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

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ORIGINAL: Yourscum

All you ever seem to do is come on here and insult people, usually noobs.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAno.

AFAIC, she's one of the most helpful people *here*. I've learned a lot from Lady P. I've even, would you credit it, picked up the odd idea for a humiliation scene

LOL, you have a very odd sense of what's helpful. Haha, so tell me, how'd she help the OP here? Care to provide several links of her being 'helpful'? Hmmm?

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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/14/2010 1:42:51 PM

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ORIGINAL: Yourscum

LOL, you have a very odd sense of what's helpful. Haha, so tell me, how'd she help the OP here? Care to provide several links of her being 'helpful'? Hmmm?

She wasn't helpful to the OP, because the OP was a douche. She's helpful to those who ask serious questions. But no, I won't provide links, because I've just caught sight of outlier's avatar again and I'm taking it to heart. You're a bunch of faceless pixels, and your opinion is irrelevant, so I don't feel the need to attempt to change it.

I'm unlikely to reply again unless you make me laugh or something. I am trying to stick to a motto of 'someone being wrong is not a good enough reason to engage with them'.

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