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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious
She wasn't helpful to the OP, because the OP was a douche.
O rlly? And just HOW was the OP a douche? Here's his entire post, right here, in case we've forgotten just a bit:
"This is for everyone to post a creative way you Dominate/humiliate your submissive or that a submissive has been Dominated with. For example; Using your used gym socks as gags, Taking your underwear you wore all day and filtered water through it into your submissive's mouth, etc... "
He's not hostile, he's not attacking anyone, he's expressing interest in a fetish (that I assume he shares--but it could very well be he doesn't), he's asking others for information and some people who share this fetish have responded in kind. That's not douche behavior in any way shape or form unless you have such a wrinkled cynical raisen for a heart that you never take people at face value particularly when they talk about sexual activities that you do not share. I believe it's prefectly clear to us all when someone is being a horse's behind on this forum, and he is far from that. He is not jerking anybody around. He's just asking a question. One that interests me and that I was going to to respond to, positively, until I saw all this total crap falling out of yours and others' mouths over his "GREAT EVIL WANKER FODDER" (so-called by clueless people who can have NO IDEA what was really on his mind). I really am feeling almost physically disgusted at the insane overreaction to this innocent thread. I've wasted what precious time I can allot to this place writing a rebuttal instead because I've been horrified (yet again) by the ugly assumptions without a single point of proof that certain posters are tossing around. I'd much rather have spent the time writing something enjoyable about my humiliation interests, but this sort of sick bullying cannot, ever, be left unanswered.
So. Did you read his other posts? Is that where you got the idea he was a douche? I did. All three of them. They are quite innocent, just asking for strap-on information, which, I assume, he wanted to pass on to a friend. And he was extremely polite to Lady Pact, who, even then was making all kinds of wild and unfounded assumptions about him. He's certainly not one of the very crazy hostile thread disrupters that have recently been posting elsewhere on the forum. He's just a young guy, a little new to bdsm, looking for information.
Taking people at face value, until they prove otherwise, is what is known in some circles as courtesy and respect, something that a number of posters here appear to really like to bla-bla-blatey-blah about but seem rather unwilling to practice. If an established and well-liked poster had written those words, none of you would have jumped insanely down his throat this way. But this poster is a nobody, a 4-poster, fair game, fresh meat...to bloody. And your collective little claws came out and you didith feed.
...while a great many of us looked on and felt sick.
I believe we owe courtesy, kindness, and NOT ASSUMING OUR ASSES OFF to people who are unknown to us and have only four posts rather than just worship at the personality thrones of those OCD maniacs with 4000 posts on their coup sticks. Shrug--but that's just me. Those who don't provide that respect to newcomers very quickly lose my respect--and never get it back.
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God, this forum has been a witchy bitch-fest lately. What's in your drinking water, people? Or have the recent troll attacks succeeded in driving you all mad? This person has done _nothing_ wrong.
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