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Anal sex. - 9/3/2010 2:38:24 AM   
karensa


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I am in a long term relationship.  We indulge in anal sex, averaging every two weeks, we both enjoy this as part of our D/s relationship.  My question is, 'over time, can this cause weakening of the muscles due to stretching'.

Thank you.
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RE: Anal sex. - 9/3/2010 3:46:30 AM   
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Status: offline 		With the rate of anal sex you're having I don't believe so.

I have close gay friends who habitually inhabit bath houses and engage in fisting and they cite and ease of penetration but no "Leakage" per se.
So perhaps a little muscle memory and relaxation at the act plays it's part but a lot like vaginal muscles after a little while away from it you have to re-learn to take and be comfortable again.

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RE: Anal sex. - 9/3/2010 5:54:42 AM   
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RE: Anal sex. - 9/3/2010 7:13:37 AM   
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RE: Anal sex. - 9/3/2010 12:30:23 PM   
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RE: Anal sex. - 9/3/2010 8:51:43 PM   
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Unless his cock is 10 times bigger than your turds, you should be OK.

(I don't think I would have said it quite that way. You have to know it's true at least some of the time.)

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RE: Anal sex. - 9/3/2010 9:30:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: karensa

Good day.

I am in a long term relationship.  We indulge in anal sex, averaging every two weeks, we both enjoy this as part of our D/s relationship.  My question is, 'over time, can this cause weakening of the muscles due to stretching'.

Thank you.


I CAME TO THIS THREAD FOR ANAL SEX AND -THIS- IS WHAT I GET!?

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RE: Anal sex. - 9/4/2010 12:49:32 AM   
karensa


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Status: offline 		I'm quite unsure what you mean by false advertising.  I was asking an honest question that is all, what a ridiculous reply.

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RE: Anal sex. - 9/4/2010 12:53:47 AM   
karensa


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Status: offline 		Hello Jeff.  I agree with you, I would not have put it quite like that, however, i'm at a loss to understand your words. What does ''You have to know it's true, at least some of the time'' mean? 

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RE: Anal sex. - 9/4/2010 1:13:43 AM   
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Unless his cock is 10 times bigger than your turds, you should be OK.


I now need to bleach my brain to get rid of that mental image

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RE: Anal sex. - 9/4/2010 4:57:55 AM   
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Hello Jeff.  I agree with you, I would not have put it quite like that, however, i'm at a loss to understand your words. What does ''You have to know it's true, at least some of the time'' mean? 

Simply that some of the 'eminations' are bound to be smaller than the man's penis.

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RE: Anal sex. - 9/4/2010 6:34:20 AM   
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RE: Anal sex. - 9/4/2010 8:14:58 PM   
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RE: Anal sex. - 9/4/2010 8:19:21 PM   
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I don't know, but I have seen Goatse...






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RE: Anal sex. - 9/4/2010 9:45:50 PM   
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Unless his cock is 10 times bigger than your turds, you should be OK.


I now need to bleach my brain to get rid of that mental image

Thanks, RS. NOT!!!

Clorox is a good brand of brain bleach but I prefer Famous Grouse brand scotch myself.  

...  oh yeah, and yes I wanna' spank that lil' bunny but first I want to dress it up in latex. 


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RE: Anal sex. - 9/4/2010 10:42:12 PM   
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...  oh yeah, and yes I wanna' spank that lil' bunny but first I want to dress it up in latex. 


xD YES


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RE: Anal sex. - 9/5/2010 12:56:00 AM   
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RE: Anal sex. - 9/5/2010 1:23:22 AM   
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I am now officially a pool of fragrant bunny goo

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RE: Anal sex. - 9/5/2010 1:57:17 AM   
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ORIGINAL: karensa

Good day.

I am in a long term relationship.  We indulge in anal sex, averaging every two weeks, we both enjoy this as part of our D/s relationship.  My question is, 'over time, can this cause weakening of the muscles due to stretching'.

Thank you.
Eventually your colon will fall out, necessitating the intervention of an ass doctor. That is a "doctor of asses", not a "doctor who is an ass". My ex's fell out 3 times (that I know of), but she used to put all kinds of weird things up there. Hairbrushes (brush end first), eggplants, a catfish, my foot, a Kayak oar, tennis balls, some "Amazing TY"-sized monster dildos, a pork tenderloin roast (in the wrapper), and a very stale loaf of French bread, to name but a few of the more common items. She had a lot of job stress. I think she's living with her ass doctor now. Maybe he can keep her from falling apart, so to speak.


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RE: Anal sex. - 9/6/2010 6:47:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		OP go for it. I know women who will only have anal sex.

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